I've been on this site a while ago. I will visit if I have no work or during the evening if I have no paper works should be done at home. I'm screwed up of the nature of my job, don't go out, just stayed home if no work, and straight to home from work. I knew I have always a choice on how to live and enjoy my life. However, I never intend to choose to be of who I am now this is the main reason why I'm on this site, trying to communicate to any strangers even I knew it's impossible to find someone serious and real here. Of course, everyone wants to be happy anyhow. Yet I just don't understand why some men just messaged me and said " How many men do I need in my life? Why I stayed on this site for a long time? Why I'm not married at my age? Why I have no children still at my age! Why no one like me in my place I'm pretty? everyone's opinions are welcome. Because if only I answered all the above questions my answer is" I also don't know"
Jl7919: Yet I just don't understand why some men just messaged me and said
"How many men do I need in my life? Why I stayed on this site for a long time? Why I'm not married at my age? Why I have no children still at my age! Why no one like me in my place I'm pretty?
everyone's opinions are welcome. Because if only I answered all the above questions my answer is" I also don't know"
WOW! I thought I had men ask inappropriate and intrusive questions! 1- Is this a cultural issue? Are these men in or out of your country? 2- Are these men older than you? (Older men tend to treat younger women as a children. . Even I get that with some older men). 3- You do not have to answer any of these questions. You don't owe them or anyone an explanation about any part of your life. 4- Some people are terrible conversationalists, or nosey, so they ask many questions 5- Some men treat date sites and messaging as if they are buying a car!! And they want to see if they approve of you. And they think they are saving time. 6- Fear of scammers 7- I can recommend other sites to you for social interaction that are not date sites.
Good luck to you and remember "Everything is NOT for everybody". and "Not everyone deserves an answer"
Jl7919: I've been on this site a while ago. I will visit if I have no work or during the evening if I have no paper works should be done at home. I'm screwed up of the nature of my job, don't go out, just stayed home if no work, and straight to home from work. I knew I have always a choice on how to live and enjoy my life. However, I never intend to choose to be of who I am now this is the main reason why I'm on this site, trying to communicate to any strangers even I knew it's impossible to find someone serious and real here. Of course, everyone wants to be happy anyhow. Yet I just don't understand why some men just messaged me and said " How many men do I need in my life? Why I stayed on this site for a long time? Why I'm not married at my age? Why I have no children still at my age! Why no one like me in my place I'm pretty? everyone's opinions are welcome. Because if only I answered all the above questions my answer is" I also don't know"
Maybe its because of your following status
Located inDavao, Davao, Philippines, SouthEast Asia Height4' 11" (150 cm) Body TypeSlim/Slender Hair ColorBlack Eye ColorBlack EthnicityAsian EducationAssociate Degree ReligionChristian/Catholic OccupationChild Care / Education Income--- ? SmokesNever DrinksOccasionally Marital StatusNever Married Has kidsNo Wants kidsDefinitely SignScorpio Scorpio
OP, just ignore the messages of those who you are not interested in. This ain't rocket science. The trash can & block buttons are your friends. Use them.
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