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Oct 20, 2019 10:34 AM CST Asking for nonsense
Jl7919
Jl7919Jl7919Hcm, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam1 Threads 3 Posts
I've been on this site a while ago. I will visit if I have no work or during the evening if I have no paper works should be done at home. I'm screwed up of the nature of my job, don't go out, just stayed home if no work, and straight to home from work. I knew I have always a choice on how to live and enjoy my life. However, I never intend to choose to be of who I am now this is the main reason why I'm on this site, trying to communicate to any strangers even I knew it's impossible to find someone serious and real here. Of course, everyone wants to be happy anyhow. Yet I just don't understand why some men just messaged me and said " How many men do I need in my life? Why I stayed on this site for a long time? Why I'm not married at my age? Why I have no children still at my age! Why no one like me in my place I'm pretty? everyone's opinions are welcome. Because if only I answered all the above questions my answer is" I also don't know"frustrated frustrated frustrated
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Oct 20, 2019 10:54 AM CST Asking for nonsense
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
Jl7919: Yet I just don't understand why some men just messaged me and said

"How many men do I need in my life?
Why I stayed on this site for a long time?
Why I'm not married at my age?
Why I have no children still at my age!
Why no one like me in my place I'm pretty?

everyone's opinions are welcome. Because if only I answered all the above questions my answer is" I also don't know"
WOW! I thought I had men ask inappropriate and intrusive questions!
1- Is this a cultural issue? Are these men in or out of your country?
2- Are these men older than you? (Older men tend to treat younger women as a children. roll eyes. Even I get that with some older men).
3- You do not have to answer any of these questions. You don't owe them or anyone an explanation about any part of your life.
4- Some people are terrible conversationalists, or nosey, so they ask many questions
5- Some men treat date sites and messaging as if they are buying a car!! And they want to see if they approve of you. And they think they are saving time.
6- Fear of scammers
7- I can recommend other sites to you for social interaction that are not date sites.

bouquet Good luck to you and remember "Everything is NOT for everybody". and "Not everyone deserves an answer"
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Oct 20, 2019 11:01 AM CST Asking for nonsense
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Jl7919: I've been on this site a while ago. I will visit if I have no work or during the evening if I have no paper works should be done at home. I'm screwed up of the nature of my job, don't go out, just stayed home if no work, and straight to home from work. I knew I have always a choice on how to live and enjoy my life. However, I never intend to choose to be of who I am now this is the main reason why I'm on this site, trying to communicate to any strangers even I knew it's impossible to find someone serious and real here. Of course, everyone wants to be happy anyhow. Yet I just don't understand why some men just messaged me and said " How many men do I need in my life? Why I stayed on this site for a long time? Why I'm not married at my age? Why I have no children still at my age! Why no one like me in my place I'm pretty? everyone's opinions are welcome. Because if only I answered all the above questions my answer is" I also don't know"
Maybe its because of your following status

Located inDavao, Davao, Philippines, SouthEast Asia
Height4' 11" (150 cm)
Body TypeSlim/Slender
Hair ColorBlack
Eye ColorBlack
EthnicityAsian
EducationAssociate Degree
ReligionChristian/Catholic
OccupationChild Care / Education
Income--- ?
SmokesNever
DrinksOccasionally
Marital StatusNever Married
Has kidsNo
Wants kidsDefinitely
SignScorpio Scorpio
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Oct 20, 2019 11:13 AM CST Asking for nonsense
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
@galrads What is wrong with it? Why repost it? I am trying to help her.. What are you doing?
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Oct 20, 2019 11:18 AM CST Asking for nonsense
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
CossackCat: @galrads What is wrong with it? Why repost it? I am trying to help her.. What are you doing?
Dont forget "Not everyone deserves an answer"
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Oct 20, 2019 11:22 AM CST Asking for nonsense
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
galrads: Dont forget "Not everyone deserves an answer"
I was being polite or sarcastic, or trying to give you a way out. wink
It is obvious what you are doing.
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Oct 20, 2019 11:30 AM CST Asking for nonsense
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
CossackCat: I was being polite or sarcastic, or trying to give you a way out.
It is obvious what you are doing.
Dont forget "Not everyone deserves an answer"
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Oct 20, 2019 11:32 AM CST Asking for nonsense
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
galrads: Dont forget "Not everyone deserves an answer"
Remember that, if she ignores you
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Oct 20, 2019 12:08 PM CST Asking for nonsense
Jl7919
Jl7919Jl7919Hcm, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam1 Threads 3 Posts
Thanks for your great opinion you behaved exactly opposite of your age sorry to say this to you.
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Oct 20, 2019 12:11 PM CST Asking for nonsense
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
CossackCat: Remember that, if she ignores you
Dont forget "Not everyone deserves an answer"
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Oct 20, 2019 4:03 PM CST Asking for nonsense
Packersbabe1
Packersbabe1Packersbabe1Green Bay, Wisconsin USA3 Threads 16,777 Posts
You on the internet, those men can say
what they want, you don’t have to answer
them either
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Oct 20, 2019 4:14 PM CST Asking for nonsense
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.....wave
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Oct 20, 2019 4:16 PM CST Asking for nonsense
Packersbabe1
Packersbabe1Packersbabe1Green Bay, Wisconsin USA3 Threads 16,777 Posts
laugh Yupwave
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Oct 20, 2019 4:17 PM CST Asking for nonsense
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
evenin pack......bouquet
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Oct 20, 2019 4:34 PM CST Asking for nonsense
Good Grief...roll eyes
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Oct 20, 2019 4:36 PM CST Asking for nonsense
OP, just ignore the messages of those who you are not interested in.
This ain't rocket science. The trash can & block buttons are your friends.
Use them.professor
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Dec 9, 2019 6:49 AM CST Asking for nonsense
Jl7919
Jl7919Jl7919Hcm, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam1 Threads 3 Posts
Thank you so much
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Dec 9, 2019 6:55 AM CST Asking for nonsense
M4_Mischief: the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.....
So I should stop smacking the lady's áss on a first date uh oh
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