Emotionally Intelligent. ( Archived) (131)

Jan 3, 2022 10:24 AM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
"Anyone can become angry—that is easy. But to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way—that is not easy."

In this quote, the philosopher Aristotle perfectly sums up a concept that has become a hot topic in psychology, education, and business—emotional intelligence.

Emotionally intelligent people engage in a number of habits and behaviors that contribute to their ability to manage their own emotions and understand the feelings of others. Do you know anyone who is keenly attuned to his or her own feelings, capable of expressing emotions in an appropriate way, as well as empathetic and understanding of how others are feeling? That person is probably a very emotionally intelligent individual.

Do you think you are emotionally intelligent, or do you think emotional intelligence help to make a good stable relationship?
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Jan 3, 2022 10:27 AM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
Its a learning process tom imo
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Jan 3, 2022 10:30 AM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
pedro27: Its a learning process tom imo
Indubitably Pedrolaugh
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Jan 3, 2022 10:38 AM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
tomcatty: Indubitably Pedro
I learnt anger is a waste of time..!

Solves noting

why get angry ?

it only hurts your own feelingsconversing
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Jan 3, 2022 10:41 AM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
So Tom, do you think you're emotionally intelligent?

Of course emotional intelligence helps to make a good stable relationship IMO wine
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Jan 3, 2022 10:47 AM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
Selenite: So Tom, do you think you're emotionally intelligent?

Of course emotional intelligence helps to make a good stable relationship IMO
Well, I have had stable relationships, or stable nonrelationships recentlylaugh

Selenite you have your head on, and lovely it isbouquet tip hat
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Jan 3, 2022 10:52 AM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
tomcatty: "Anyone can become angry—that is easy. But to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way—that is not easy."

In this quote, the philosopher Aristotle perfectly sums up a concept that has become a hot topic in psychology, education, and business—emotional intelligence.

Emotionally intelligent people engage in a number of habits and behaviors that contribute to their ability to manage their own emotions and understand the feelings of others. Do you know anyone who is keenly attuned to his or her own feelings, capable of expressing emotions in an appropriate way, as well as empathetic and understanding of how others are feeling? That person is probably a very emotionally intelligent individual.

Do you think you are emotionally intelligent, or do you think emotional intelligence help to make a good stable relationship?
to be honest this is the first time i hear about emotional intelligence -
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Jan 3, 2022 10:53 AM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
tomcatty: "Anyone can become angry—that is easy. But to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way—that is not easy."

In this quote, the philosopher Aristotle perfectly sums up a concept that has become a hot topic in psychology, education, and business—emotional intelligence.

Emotionally intelligent people engage in a number of habits and behaviors that contribute to their ability to manage their own emotions and understand the feelings of others. Do you know anyone who is keenly attuned to his or her own feelings, capable of expressing emotions in an appropriate way, as well as empathetic and understanding of how others are feeling? That person is probably a very emotionally intelligent individual.

Do you think you are emotionally intelligent, or do you think emotional intelligence help to make a good stable relationship?
Whatever confused
I hope you had Fruitful and Joyous New year Tomwine
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Jan 3, 2022 10:55 AM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
Dedovix: to be honest this is the first time i hear about emotional intelligence -
You heard it from Tom, someone else might have said it first, there I a clue in my opening post.lightbulb
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Jan 3, 2022 11:03 AM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
tomcatty: You heard it from Tom, someone else might have said it first, there I a clue in my opening post.
thanks ,seems quite interesting
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Jan 3, 2022 11:04 AM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
pedro27: I learnt anger is a waste of time..!

Solves noting

why get angry ?

it only hurts your own feelings
Anger is a perfectly valid emotion, just like any other.

It's how we act that is the important thing.

We can hit out, or cry tears of rage for example, but until we recognise that the action (violence, or crying in the corner) is about anger we cannot learn to express our anger more productively.

Anger is the driving force towards a solution in so many situations. We'd have no ethical protocols in our societies without people feeling angry about injustice, or cruelty.
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Jan 3, 2022 11:07 AM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
Hola jac hug
Happy New Year
I hope you had fun during the New Year wine teddybear
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Jan 3, 2022 11:09 AM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
jac_the_gripper: Anger is a perfectly valid emotion, just like any other.

It's how we act that is the important thing.

We can hit out, or cry tears of rage for example, but until we recognise that the action (violence, or crying in the corner) is about anger we cannot learn to express our anger more productively.

Anger is the driving force towards a solution in so many situations. We'd have no ethical protocols in our societies without people feeling angry about injustice, or cruelty.
More boring drivel doh
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Jan 3, 2022 11:11 AM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
tomcatty: "Anyone can become angry—that is easy. But to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way—that is not easy."

In this quote, the philosopher Aristotle perfectly sums up a concept that has become a hot topic in psychology, education, and business—emotional intelligence.

Emotionally intelligent people engage in a number of habits and behaviors that contribute to their ability to manage their own emotions and understand the feelings of others. Do you know anyone who is keenly attuned to his or her own feelings, capable of expressing emotions in an appropriate way, as well as empathetic and understanding of how others are feeling? That person is probably a very emotionally intelligent individual.

Do you think you are emotionally intelligent, or do you think emotional intelligence help to make a good stable relationship?
Are you getting your inspiration from women’s magazines?
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Jan 3, 2022 11:17 AM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
Successful leaders are not oblivious to their shortcomings. However, they have the drive to improve each day.

Had you been stubborn, unwilling to accept your shortcomings, or resistant to working on self-improvement, would you really go places? To become a successful leader, you need to develop self-awareness to recognize and overcome your weaknesses.

Conversely, would you want to contribute towards the success of someone who doesn’t have much self-awareness and who is extremely resistant to feedback and suggestions for improvement? This kind of person will not grow, and they are unlikely to become leaders.

Leaders are those who focus on personal development, on acquiring new skills and empowering others by delegating tasks and responsibility. Such behavior by leaders is an example of emotional intelligence in our daily life.

The Psychologist.professor laugh
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Jan 3, 2022 11:20 AM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
tomcatty: Successful leaders are not oblivious to their shortcomings. However, they have the drive to improve each day.

Had you been stubborn, unwilling to accept your shortcomings, or resistant to working on self-improvement, would you really go places? To become a successful leader, you need to develop self-awareness to recognize and overcome your weaknesses.

Conversely, would you want to contribute towards the success of someone who doesn’t have much self-awareness and who is extremely resistant to feedback and suggestions for improvement? This kind of person will not grow, and they are unlikely to become leaders.

Leaders are those who focus on personal development, on acquiring new skills and empowering others by delegating tasks and responsibility. Such behavior by leaders is an example of emotional intelligence in our daily life.

The Psychologist.
Can you break that down for us ?
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Jan 3, 2022 11:22 AM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
Youcannow: Can you break that down for us ?
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Jan 3, 2022 11:24 AM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Dedovix: to be honest this is the first time i hear about emotional intelligence -
Really? confused

It's called EQ (emotional quotient) as opposed to IQ (intelligence quotient)
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Jan 3, 2022 11:25 AM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
tomcatty: Not small enough for your brain
You're so mean Tomscold
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Jan 3, 2022 11:25 AM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
tomcatty: Not small enough for your brain
I don’t copy and paste .
I just wanted to see if you knew what it meant .
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