Emotionally Intelligent. ( Archived) (131)

Jan 3, 2022 11:58 AM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
Selenite: Emotional intelligence is partly about not blaming others for those emotions tied to the irrational part of our being and partly how you handle those emotions sprung from the irrational part of our being without projecting the whole lot onto someone else ...

Happy New Year Bob!!
sure, why not, it can be observed as a intelligent way of handling a situation
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Jan 3, 2022 11:59 AM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
Youcannow: Sounds very boring .
If they are that self controlled, then I can imagine they will be likewise in the bedroom .
You really are quite thicklaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 3, 2022 12:03 PM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Dedovix: sure, why not, it can be observed as a intelligent way of handling a situation
Exactly!! All the while being self-aware without repressing the emotions handshake
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Jan 3, 2022 12:04 PM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
Oxycodone
OxycodoneOxycodonePula, Central Croatia Croatia1,285 Posts
tomcatty: "Anyone can become angry—that is easy. But to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way—that is not easy."

In this quote, the philosopher Aristotle perfectly sums up a concept that has become a hot topic in psychology, education, and business—emotional intelligence.

Emotionally intelligent people engage in a number of habits and behaviors that contribute to their ability to manage their own emotions and understand the feelings of others. Do you know anyone who is keenly attuned to his or her own feelings, capable of expressing emotions in an appropriate way, as well as empathetic and understanding of how others are feeling? That person is probably a very emotionally intelligent individual.

Do you think you are emotionally intelligent, or do you think emotional intelligence help to make a good stable relationship?
Yes I am emotionally intelligent. wine

Empathy wine
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Jan 3, 2022 12:04 PM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
tomcatty: You really are quite thick
That not a very emotional intelligent thing to say

I’m fact , I would go as far as to say that it is an emotionally immature thing to say .
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Jan 3, 2022 12:05 PM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
Oxycodone: Yes I am emotionally intelligent.

Empathy
Give yourself a pat on the back comfort
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Jan 3, 2022 12:06 PM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Oxycodone: Yes I am emotionally intelligent.

Empathy
Happy New Year Oxy!! wine
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Jan 3, 2022 12:06 PM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
Oxycodone
OxycodoneOxycodonePula, Central Croatia Croatia1,285 Posts
Youcannow: Give yourself a pat on the back
No need to. wine
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Jan 3, 2022 12:06 PM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
Youcannow: Sounds very boring .
If they are that self controlled, then I can imagine they will be likewise in the bedroom .
To be honest, i dont have much experience in the bedroom ,but crying in bed with a Woman was less effective than tying her to the bedframe and riding her like a untamed mustang
my point her is - the ability to adapt to the given situation - is that emotional intelligence?- cunningness? -ability to read the little signs? ... I dont really know laugh
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Jan 3, 2022 12:07 PM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
Oxycodone
OxycodoneOxycodonePula, Central Croatia Croatia1,285 Posts
Selenite: Happy New Year Oxy!!
Same to you. I like your photo wine
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Jan 3, 2022 12:08 PM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
Youcannow: That not a very emotional intelligent thing to say

I’m fact , I would go as far as to say that it is an emotionally immature thing to say .
Not really it was carefully considered and my emotions were quite valid, and controlled , thickolaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh angel
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Jan 3, 2022 12:13 PM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
Selenite: Exactly!! All the while being self-aware without repressing the emotions
Im not sure what you said here
or perhaps its cause i have a different view -in order to handle a situation wisely - intelligent, sometimes we have to repress or suppress our emotions -
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Jan 3, 2022 12:14 PM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
Youcannow: So if a lady laughs at tomcats tackle, do you think that puts him at an advantage?
Reflection of yourself, oh is that your problemrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 3, 2022 12:14 PM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
tomcatty: Not really it was carefully considered and my emotions were quite valid, and controlled , thicko
So by me asking you to break things down , you come back with insults .
Very emotionally intelligent thumbs up
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Jan 3, 2022 12:17 PM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
pedro27: Words can be said in anger

that is regret-able,

anger feelings are mostly wrong and false

its a learnt false feeling learnt in childhood IMO
No emotion is wrong, it just is.

If I see someone beating a child with a belt and feel anger, it's not wrong, or false that I feel that way. It's just the emotion I experience.

If I had been beaten with a belt as a child and became an angry adult who took that anger out on my own children, then I would be misunderstanding my anger: I'd be blaming the child for being naughty, rather than seeing my anger was with the person who beat me.

The feelng isn't false, but understanding the feeling can be.
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Jan 3, 2022 12:17 PM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
Well dedo, you don''t want too much if it.
Can bring you down some if the rest of the world don't give a flat rat! rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 3, 2022 12:18 PM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Dedovix: Im not sure what you said here
or perhaps its cause i have a different view -in order to handle a situation wisely - intelligent, sometimes we have to repress or suppress our emotions -
I don't know ... repress or supress for me means pretend those emotions don't exist which is really unhealthy...
There's another way which is to be aware of them and realise they sprung up from inside us and not blame the other person for them ... it may require time to go do some navel gazing ... them go back to continue conversation with the person ... dunno
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Jan 3, 2022 12:20 PM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
Dedovix: To be honest, i dont have much experience in the bedroom ,but crying in bed with a Woman was less effective than tying her to the bedframe and riding her like a untamed mustang
my point her is - the ability to adapt to the given situation - is that emotional intelligence?- cunningness? -ability to read the little signs? ... I dont really know
People , particularly women like different things.

English men have a habit of controlling their emotions around women but turn into animals after a few pints in the pub .
It’s the passive/ aggressive nature in their persona, whereas real men can control their emotions in all situations.
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Jan 3, 2022 12:21 PM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Youcannow: So if a lady laughs at tomcats tackle, do you think that puts him at an advantage?
Depends whether they're sitting by the riverside and they're hooking worms dunno
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Jan 3, 2022 12:23 PM CST Emotionally Intelligent.
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Dedovix: To be honest, i dont have much experience in the bedroom ,but crying in bed with a Woman was less effective than tying her to the bedframe and riding her like a untamed mustang
my point her is - the ability to adapt to the given situation - is that emotional intelligence?- cunningness? -ability to read the little signs? ... I dont really know
Emotional intelligence does include being able to recoginse and adapt to facial expressions, tone of voice and other indicators of people's emotions.
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