What turns you off (215)
michaelrightMid louth, Louth Ireland75 Threads 1 Polls 5,772 PostsYoucannow: Ireland has its own prime minister, in case you are not aware !
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Youcannow: This isn’t about you .
Wheeeew thanks. I'm feeling better. 
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Youcannow: Don’t assume that ever women who’s not into politics lack intelligence.
I dont recall having said anythig of the kind..I suspect that's what you read, even though I never wrote it...if wrong then my mistake....but pretty sure I didn't...That said, I think it's pretty safe to assume that an interest in politics ,a real interest that actively wants to uderstand so puts in the work and not one fed by the 9 o'clock fodder news requires a certain level of intellect not commonly found among the kind of women you'd be atttracted to...I'm guessing because they'd run rings around you and make you feel inadequate...and that's not the smart women's faults....that's yours and your (probable) lack of self esteem....hidden out of sight by a whopping great big, but very fraigle ego....
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Youcannow: Maybe , but the majority forget their role in the relationship.
Their role? God you sound like something out of the Ark..that's such a restrictve way to life your life......oh no...you can't forget your role..have to "be" a certain way...which basically means you cant just be yourself, relax etc etc......twould be like being at work 24/7..sure who'd want to live liike that....------ This thread is Archived ------
Live your life rather....
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blathin: Their role? God you sound like something out of the Ark..that's such a restrictve way to life your life......oh no...you can't forget your role..have to "be" a certain way...which basically means you cant just be yourself, relax etc etc......twould be like being at work 24/7..sure who'd want to live liike that....
Love all your posts Blathin
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my past experience tells me...a pessimist would be a turn off. i can think of many turns off and will talk about them
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LeeCharming: my past experience tells me...a pessimist would be a turn off. i can think of many turns off and will talk about them
Oh my gosh we're of the same boat on this one Lee. I'm a very optimistic person but that doesn't mean I don't work on negativity if only to have it improved.------ This thread is Archived ------
miss jones...we both know...political beliefs will be a make or break situation in dating...cause someone on the far left...is going to hate someone on the right
my suggestion a while ago...people having to say on dating site profiles...weather they were left or right in political beliefs and i know pof tried this idea
my suggestion a while ago...people having to say on dating site profiles...weather they were left or right in political beliefs and i know pof tried this idea------ This thread is Archived ------
LeeCharming: miss jones...we both know...political beliefs will be a make or break situation in dating...cause someone on the far left...is going to hate someone on the right my suggestion a while ago...people having to say on dating site profiles...weather they were left or right in political beliefs and i know pof tried this idea
Lee, I'm not looking. Nope, I want friends but my expectations for a partner? Zero, nada, oh...wait a minute maybe it jumped to about 8%.Who knows. Just friends.
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lindsyjones: Oh my gosh we're of the same boat on this one Lee. I'm a very optimistic person but that doesn't mean I don't work on negativity if only to have it improved.
yes it is about physical attraction...but being able to talk freely about anything...learning to read the other person...helps build a solid relationship...the look on their face might tell you what they are thinking about...if you understand them as a person and can read their body language miss jones...we will all have negativity to deal with...but i would like to be with a woman...who does not hold onto negative thoughts and would enjoy the time we spend together...with a smile..but she could share the negativity with family or friends and get it out of her system....so she is at her best...each time we are together
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lindsyjones: Lee, I'm not looking. Nope, I want friends but my expectations for a partner? Zero, nada, oh...wait a minute maybe it jumped to about 8%.
Who knows. Just friends.
give time miss jones...wounds can heel and the man of your dreams might be waiting round the cornerWho knows. Just friends.
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LeeCharming: give time miss jones...wounds can heel and the man of your dreams might be waiting round the corner
what corner does she live round. ?------ This thread is Archived ------
michaelright: what corner does she live round. ?
many men could be asking the same..she could be a good catch------ This thread is Archived ------
LeeCharming: many men could be asking the same..she could be a good catch
I've noticed,,,------ This thread is Archived ------
michaelright: I've noticed,,,
try singing to her
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Most people turn me off ...
But every now and then I meet someone who doesn't ... it's an "all together thing" rather than anything specific ...
But every now and then I meet someone who doesn't ... it's an "all together thing" rather than anything specific ...
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Selenite: Most people turn me off ...
But every now and then I meet someone who doesn't ... it's an "all together thing" rather than anything specific ...
does it not complicate things..when you can't point out...what you like about a man..when he asks youBut every now and then I meet someone who doesn't ... it's an "all together thing" rather than anything specific ...
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blathin: Their role? God you sound like something out of the Ark..that's such a restrictve way to life your life......oh no...you can't forget your role..have to "be" a certain way...which basically means you cant just be yourself, relax etc etc......twould be like being at work 24/7..sure who'd want to live liike that....
I wasn’t aware femininity was such a chore for women . It’s not something you can work on . You either have it or you don’t . Femininity is not just shopping , stylish hairdos & pretty dresses. It’s about qualities such as sensitivity, creativeness , comparison, empathy, graciousness , dignity.. to name but a few .
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Youcannow: I wasn’t aware femininity was such a chore for women . It’s not something you can work on . You either have it or you don’t .
Femininity is not just shopping , stylish hairdos & pretty dresses. It’s about qualities such as sensitivity, creativeness , comparison, empathy, graciousness , dignity.. to name but a few .
I never said a word about femininity, so I don't know where you got that from...Femininity is not just shopping , stylish hairdos & pretty dresses. It’s about qualities such as sensitivity, creativeness , comparison, empathy, graciousness , dignity.. to name but a few .
You were talking about "roles" in a relationship and (if memory serves) knowing one's role.....and that's what I was responding to...
femininity and role are two completely different things by the way, femininity is [permanent, natural and inherent in a woman, the latter is external, temporary contrived/fake/false and maleable...
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