Could anyone really be "Undateable"?:hmmm: (51)
spikkels999..., Gauteng South Africa103 Threads 843 PostsWell, I am undateable, as in I'm just not even slightly interested, but will be friends with like minded individuals...
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spikkels999: Well, I am undateable, as in I'm just not even slightly interested, but will be friends with like minded individuals...
You mean other undateables ?------ This thread is Archived ------
Lol...No...
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Youcannow: I didn’t say ONLY .
I certainly wouldn’t date a druggie , or an alcoholic, or any one with serious mental health issues.
If that makes me sound picky, then so be it .
I'd like to point out that I like you better today than ever before YC. I certainly wouldn’t date a druggie , or an alcoholic, or any one with serious mental health issues.
If that makes me sound picky, then so be it .
So you have rather risen on my scale of datebility
About where to draw the line:
I'd take a homless woman living under the bridge
provided she is none of the the things you listed above.
She could still be dateable.
My problem is to be given a chance by the ones who
is basically unavailable cos they have some inner voice
telling them to waste a few more years.. .and a few more.. and then some more years.. and... ohhh----------------------- .....I'm afraid she passed last night, as a lonely person... sorry.
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Grandsiozzie: I'd like to point out that I like you better today than ever before YC.
So you have rather risen on my scale of datebility
About where to draw the line:
I'd take a homless woman living under the bridge
provided she is none of the the things you listed above.
She could still be dateable.
My problem is to be given a chance by the ones who
is basically unavailable cos they have some inner voice
telling them to waste a few more years.. .and a few more.. and then some more years.. and... ohhh----------------------- .....I'm afraid she passed last night, as a lonely person... sorry.
Well , I do grow on people . Not all but some . So you have rather risen on my scale of datebility
About where to draw the line:
I'd take a homless woman living under the bridge
provided she is none of the the things you listed above.
She could still be dateable.
My problem is to be given a chance by the ones who
is basically unavailable cos they have some inner voice
telling them to waste a few more years.. .and a few more.. and then some more years.. and... ohhh----------------------- .....I'm afraid she passed last night, as a lonely person... sorry.
As for the dateability factor …. I suppose if people would lower their expectations, I’d probably exceed them .
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Didi7: Here's what I got from a dictionary (via Google, of course)
undateable
Describes an individual so flawed that they cannot possibly be dated by anyone.
E.g.
Mandy: Phil is so completely undateable. I have no idea why my cousin set us up.
Tamara: What happened?!?
Mandy: For starters, he is 35 and lives with his parents, and he smelled like rotten vegetation. And there were nose hairs.
Tamara: Agreed. Undateable.
That's really interesting.undateable
Describes an individual so flawed that they cannot possibly be dated by anyone.
E.g.
Mandy: Phil is so completely undateable. I have no idea why my cousin set us up.
Tamara: What happened?!?
Mandy: For starters, he is 35 and lives with his parents, and he smelled like rotten vegetation. And there were nose hairs.
Tamara: Agreed. Undateable.
Why would Phil in this scenario be undateable, rather than someone Mandy doesn't want to date?
How did we get to this cultural norm and what are doing on a psychlogical level?
To cast someone as undateable maybe reinforces our decision making. That would be rooted in a personal lack of confidence and emotional immaturity.
Like any kind of bullying, it exposes our own, rather than someone else's flaws.
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jac_the_gripper: That's really interesting.
Why would Phil in this scenario be undateable, rather than someone Mandy doesn't want to date?
How did we get to this cultural norm and what are doing on a psychlogical level?
To cast someone as undateable maybe reinforces our decision making. That would be rooted in a personal lack of confidence and emotional immaturity.
Like any kind of bullying, it exposes our own, rather than someone else's flaws.
My thinking too, Jac. Why would Phil in this scenario be undateable, rather than someone Mandy doesn't want to date?
How did we get to this cultural norm and what are doing on a psychlogical level?
To cast someone as undateable maybe reinforces our decision making. That would be rooted in a personal lack of confidence and emotional immaturity.
Like any kind of bullying, it exposes our own, rather than someone else's flaws.
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I'm undateable
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Track16: I'm undateable
Track. Is that due to your personal choice or external circumstance?------ This thread is Archived ------
Didi7: Track. Is that due to your personal choice or external circumstance?
A bit of both------ This thread is Archived ------
Track16: A bit of both
Okay.------ This thread is Archived ------
I haven't dated anyone yet, I don't know if I'm dateable or not?
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Track16: I'm undateable
Yeah you keep writing that. Fix your problem (if you want) and get back in the game.
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Decent_Love: I haven't dated anyone yet, I don't know if I'm dateable or not?
That's ok DL. Personally I think that the only person that's 'undateable' is either a baby/toddler, medically unfit or dead. Everybody else is 'dateable', which means you (and I) are too.
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Didi7: That's ok DL. Personally I think that the only person that's 'undateable' is either a baby/toddler, medically unfit or dead. Everybody else is 'dateable', which means you (and I) are too.
What about those foolish people who do not understand the signs of love, who don't understand without being told directly. I am also one of those foolish people.
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Decent_Love: What about those foolish people who do not understand the signs of love, who don't understand without being told directly. I am also one of those foolish people.
That, my friend, means that you're clueless, NOT undateable.------ This thread is Archived ------
Didi7: That, my friend, means that you're clueless, NOT undateable.
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I should not go in that field in which I am clueless.
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Decent_Love: I should not go in that field in which I am clueless.
Otherwise accident may happen.------ This thread is Archived ------
Didi7: Okay.
Simply put, I have a tall order in a partner. Its not looks and its not money. Its 100% compatibility. Me and my partner MUST be compatible with each other. I do not want to be with someone that I have to hide aspects of myself from, I know too many people who live like that and they are all miserable, every single one of them. She has to be ok with me the way I am and I have to be ok with her and the way she is, its a two way street. That's why its so hard to find.------ This thread is Archived ------
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