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Jan 13, 2023 6:27 AM CST Silent treatment
There is answers in silent treatment


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Jan 13, 2023 1:56 PM CST Silent treatment
MariaR33
MariaR33MariaR33Couva, Couva-Tabaquite-Talparo Trinidad and Tobago1 Threads 43 Posts
pedro27: There is answers in silent treatment


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Yes there is. Silence screams what words don't say.
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Jan 13, 2023 2:04 PM CST Silent treatment
Oxycodone
OxycodoneOxycodonePula, Central Croatia Croatia1,285 Posts
MariaR33: Yes there is. Silence screams what words don't say.
And tears replace a our inability to verbally express how we feewine
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Jan 13, 2023 2:06 PM CST Silent treatment
Oxycodone
OxycodoneOxycodonePula, Central Croatia Croatia1,285 Posts
Oxycodone: And tears replace a our inability to verbally express how we feel
I like making corrections.laugh
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Jan 13, 2023 2:09 PM CST Silent treatment
MariaR33
MariaR33MariaR33Couva, Couva-Tabaquite-Talparo Trinidad and Tobago1 Threads 43 Posts
Oxycodone: I like making corrections.
laugh
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Jan 13, 2023 2:14 PM CST Silent treatment
Oxycodone
OxycodoneOxycodonePula, Central Croatia Croatia1,285 Posts
@Maria, even worse I missed one but hey, correction time is out for the evening.wine
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Jan 13, 2023 2:17 PM CST Silent treatment
OutdoorNZ
OutdoorNZOutdoorNZAuckland, New Zealand147 Posts
Depends what you mean... in a relationship? I consider it to be a form of manipulation...
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Jan 13, 2023 2:29 PM CST Silent treatment
Oxycodone
OxycodoneOxycodonePula, Central Croatia Croatia1,285 Posts
OutdoorNZ: Depends what you mean... in a relationship? I consider it to be a form of manipulation...
Or sometimes it can mean a person is withdrawing and this is their coping mechanism to give them space and protect themselves.wine
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Jan 13, 2023 2:39 PM CST Silent treatment
OutdoorNZ
OutdoorNZOutdoorNZAuckland, New Zealand147 Posts
Oxycodone: Or sometimes it can mean a person is withdrawing and this is their coping mechanism to give them space and protect themselves.
Couples should communicate ... if someone needs space and time out, that's different ... going cold can be a manipulation tactic...
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Jan 13, 2023 2:42 PM CST Silent treatment
Oxycodone
OxycodoneOxycodonePula, Central Croatia Croatia1,285 Posts
OutdoorNZ: Couples should communicate ... if someone needs space and time out, that's different ... going cold can be a manipulation tactic...
It’s true, what you said though what triggers a person to purposely put themselves in a position where they have to manipulate another? What are they actually feeding by portraying such behaviour?wine
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Jan 13, 2023 3:10 PM CST Silent treatment
Oxycodone: And tears replace a our inability to verbally express how we fee
I'll fix it oxy...

"And tears well up as our inability to find papas emerican express, low we feel"



lol

very happy
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Jan 13, 2023 3:11 PM CST Silent treatment
shii , screwd up to rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 13, 2023 5:28 PM CST Silent treatment
Worldwanderer
WorldwandererWorldwandererMackay, Queensland Australia4 Threads 25 Posts
There is answers in silent treatment


Silent Treatment is a learned behaviour.
Silent Treatment is a Controlling Behaviour
The silent treator is insecure.
The silent treator is a poor communicator.
Silent treaties are usually selfish..
Of course there is therapy for this behaviour. The perpetrator harbours resentment which can destroy a relationship.
They must face their own demons and admit they are demanding and incapable of communicating what they really want and that they are resentful that it wasn't given to them.
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Jan 13, 2023 7:17 PM CST Silent treatment
Silent is a very powerful medicine in itself, it can cure all diseases, but it is very hard to be silent from inside.

formula is:
Be silent from inside, just observe, don't react.
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Jan 14, 2023 1:41 AM CST Silent treatment
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
OutdoorNZ: Couples should communicate ... if someone needs space and time out, that's different ... going cold can be a manipulation tactic...
That's manipulating yourself out of doing something you would regret, it's your behaviour controlled by yourself - a completely different thing entirely.
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Jan 14, 2023 1:51 AM CST Silent treatment
Ray650
Ray650Ray650South San Francisco, California USA20 Threads 2 Polls 284 Posts
Silent treatment is used by submissive narcissists to get even for a perceived wrong.


Romans 12:19 KJV
Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.
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Jan 14, 2023 8:06 AM CST Silent treatment
A_chromosome
A_chromosomeA_chromosomeDallas, Texas USA26 Threads 2 Polls 639 Posts
pedro27: There is answers in silent treatment


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rolling on the floor laughing I think it is supposed to be a form of allowing one to think on what they have said or, an act they did that was not pleasing to their partner, I disagree with a lot that people have said about it being a form of punishment even though I don't follow what my mama said growing up she always said, if you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all, a form of silent treatment, I thinklaugh
Men do it to women, women do it to men.
And what about the stink eye? I used to get that from my sister if I did something that ticked her off, I did not like the stink eyelaugh
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