Why is it.....? (32)

Jan 10, 2024 10:44 AM CST Why is it.....?
Track16: Put up a picture of two naked guys holding each other, he will stop looking
maybe..
Jan 10, 2024 10:36 PM CST Why is it.....?
Decent_Love
Decent_LoveDecent_LovePrayagraj, Uttar Pradesh India411 Threads 3 Polls 2,056 Posts
Gigi64: Decent_Love: I'm not worried about who's watching me, or about those without a profile seeing mine. I'm not worried at all. I'm writing about the stalker I have on here who, even though I answered him many times in the past, saying that I'm not interested, he kept contacting me, so I blocked him eachtime.

Here, you can't block someone unless they contact you, on some sites, you can block people completely, so they can't ever see your profile or contact you, if you know that person stalked you before, or you don't want to have contact with them again, you can do a search, and block them before they even get to look at your profile. That's not the case on this site.

Over the years I've had atleast 4 different profiles here...... I'd usually stay a few months, take a break, then join again. Each time, he's always been the first to contact me.
If no one sees you, no one even notices you, you will feel stressed. So you should ignore the things you don't like, circumstances will never always be in your favor, you will have to adjust. It is true that women suffer more in this matter.

Sometimes ignoring and silence speaks better than words.
Jan 11, 2024 2:20 AM CST Why is it.....?
Decent_Love: If no one sees you, no one even notices you, you will feel stressed. So you should ignore the things you don't like, circumstances will never always be in your favor, you will have to adjust. It is true that women suffer more in this matter.

Sometimes ignoring and silence speaks better than words.
I'm not on here to look for a partner, I'm here for the blogs and forums and I've written that in my profile, so if no one looks at it, that's fine by me, such things don't stress me.

Since some men can't seem to take "no" as an answer, as a woman, blocking them is always the safest solution.
Jan 11, 2024 2:38 AM CST Why is it.....?
Dani_290
Dani_290Dani_290Seven planet , Milkyway, Metro Manila Philippines2 Threads 160 Posts
serene56: Go to your account settings and turn off the Who's Viewed Me feature.

Simples.
Hi , Gi! I reckon this is the best solution to your problem .professor
Jan 11, 2024 2:43 AM CST Why is it.....?
Track16: Seriously, i had stalkers and people obsessed with me more than once online and in real life. They dont take hints or clues, they stalk you or hound you constantly, more than once i really should have got the police involved.

All i can say is avoid contact. Only thing you can do besides writing the mods which wont do anything because he is not breaking any rules.
Track: I've also had obsessed stalkers, I guy was a bus driver on my route to home, he never said anything to me when he saw me on the bus, but would always write to me whenever I made a profile. Everytime I blocked him, he made a new profile and contacted me, I reported him to the site, but it didn't help.

He had photos in his work uniform on his profile, so the last time he contacted me, I wrote that I'd kept all his messages and my replies to him, and if he didn't stop, I'd make a formal complaint to his work place, adding the messages. He never contacted me again.

On the same site, I kept blocking 2 other guys, who liked looking at my photos for their personal pleasure, 1 always told me in detail what he did. That all happened in 2015 -16, when I weighed much less than I do now. I haven't used that site since then.
Jan 11, 2024 2:47 AM CST Why is it.....?
Dani_290: Hi , Gi! I reckon this is the best solution to your problem .
I've only 1 stalker on here, the original question in the forum is why can people still look at your profile, when you've blocked them.
Jan 11, 2024 2:50 AM CST Why is it.....?
Gigi64: Track: I've also had obsessed stalkers, I guy was a bus driver on my route to home, he never said anything to me when he saw me on the bus, but would always write to me whenever I made a profile. Everytime I blocked him, he made a new profile and contacted me, I reported him to the site, but it didn't help.

He had photos in his work uniform on his profile, so the last time he contacted me, I wrote that I'd kept all his messages and my replies to him, and if he didn't stop, I'd make a formal complaint to his work place, adding the messages. He never contacted me again.

On the same site, I kept blocking 2 other guys, who liked looking at my photos for their personal pleasure, 1 always told me in detail what he did. That all happened in 2015 -16, when I weighed much less than I do now. I haven't used that site since then.
The obsessed ones are the worst, hey. I briefly dated a woman back in my 20s for a few months, quickly found out we were incompatible, I broke it off, she spent over a year calling me, calling my family, all hours of the day and night, constantly threatening to kill herself. My nerves took a bad hit during that time and if I had my time back, I would have got the police involved right away knowing now what I know.
Jan 12, 2024 4:50 AM CST Why is it.....?
Stop looking at them looking, problem solved.
Jan 12, 2024 12:31 PM CST Why is it.....?
MysteriousGirl80: Stop looking at them looking, problem solved.
Fabulous answer!handshake
Jan 12, 2024 12:42 PM CST Why is it.....?
Gigi64: Why is it that you can block someone from contacting you, but can't block them from seeing your profile? My "CS stalker" keeps looking at my profile. I find it quite "creepy"
You know, we can't always change or control situations--there are thousands of members on CS--the mods already provide the "blocking" option. Can you imagine how much work, and constant work at that, to custom-design these things for all of us? Not to preach, but I encourage reading the Serenity Prayer--the ENTIRE piece:


"God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference-
Living one day at a time- enjoying one moment at a time-
accepting hardships as the pathway to peace--
Taking as He did this sinful world as it is, and not as I would have it,
Trusting that He will make all things right-
If I surrender to His will--
So I may be reasonably happy in this life,
And supremely happy in the next. AMEN
Jan 12, 2024 12:44 PM CST Why is it.....?
Ten_of_cupss: Being online means you are agreeing to all sort of publicity.
It would be too creepy if we can choose who is allowed to have the honour to view what we show to the world.
Imagine you can block people from viewing you online, but do you know who is watching you offline?!
And what difference would that make?
Correct, none...
Absolutely. thumbs up
Jan 18, 2024 1:16 PM CST Why is it.....?
BUMP!
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