interacial dating (19)

Feb 9, 2007 4:13 AM CST interacial dating
blambi
blambiblambitoronto, Ontario Canada2 Threads 5 Posts
In the past 5 yrs i have dated girls/ ladies from different ethnic backgrounds. Most of them where clear to me that , though they liked/ loved me, their family where not ready to accept someone from a different ethnic background. I was wondering if anyone has gone through the same experience, please feel free to let it all out here. Men and Women are all welcome, cause I know it goes both ways.
Feb 9, 2007 4:23 AM CST interacial dating
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
My "ex" is German...very....and since my name happens to be German when i met them for the first time I know I was certainly not what they were expecting...laugh

However...I became the daughter they never had...and my two girls, mixed as they are...are their whole world...

I have to say that my "ex" had taken a firm stand on that...they would either accept me...or lose him...and he is their only child...so given the opportunity people will find the colour of one's skin does not make them any more/less human than the next person...and frankly after their "stiff" way of living...being part of a west indian family made them loosen up and really start to LIVE!!!

We don't need a reason to party...we just have to all be in the same room!!!dancing peace
Feb 9, 2007 5:05 AM CST interacial dating
Katine76
Katine76Katine76Moncton, Canada145 Threads 4,516 Posts
I have never had any problems with dating someone from another culture/race. My family is very accepting as well and have never rejected or felt uneasy either.

I have a 10 and a half month old daughter and she is part cameroonian and I have dated a few guys who were of different ethnicity and to me you are all the same as us. No one is any different. Its just a skin color to me.

I am sorry to hear that you had some bad experiences and I hope that from now on they are all good experiences for you.

Tracy :o)
Feb 9, 2007 9:12 AM CST interacial dating
canadian_angel46
canadian_angel46canadian_angel46St. Catharines, Ontario Canada3 Threads 312 Posts
l also have never had any problems dating someone from a different race. My parents have always told all of their children that it doesnt matter what colour a persons skin is as long as were happy and they treat us right. l am half dutch and english and the man l married was polish and ukranian, what a mix.
l dont date men by what colour their skin is and what nationality they are, its whats inside that counts for me.
Feb 9, 2007 9:16 AM CST interacial dating
wolfdogs1000
wolfdogs1000wolfdogs1000Vermilion, Alberta Canada26 Threads 496 Posts
I don't have a problem with interacial dating... I have absolutely no idea how my family would take it - not that it would really matter to me because they despised my ex and we were together for almost 10 years.
Feb 9, 2007 5:34 PM CST interacial dating
Honeydipped06
Honeydipped06Honeydipped0627 Threads 304 Posts
i would date most internationally and have. i wouldnt date anyone from the middle east. rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing heheeh something tells me i might get into an argument over this one. tee hee.


MM cheering
Feb 9, 2007 8:15 PM CST interacial dating
foxyone1
foxyone1foxyone1Quesnel BC, British Columbia Canada50 Threads 1,772 Posts
it does not matter what color the skin is,, we all have red blood,, as long as they treat us good and vice versa,,, it's all good
Feb 9, 2007 8:18 PM CST interacial dating
scouser
scouserscouserlondon, UK17 Threads 1,346 Posts
foxy you are wrong, You know i have blue blood laugh wine
Feb 12, 2007 3:17 AM CST interacial dating
blambi
blambiblambitoronto, Ontario Canada2 Threads 5 Posts
positive experiences so far. i like that. keeep 'em coming girl :) guys welcome too
Feb 12, 2007 10:43 AM CST interacial dating
John1966
John1966John1966Calgary, Alberta Canada16 Threads 143 Posts
Interracial dating? Never...and blacks are black, not
African-American...i dont do that PC jive. Sorry...scold
Feb 12, 2007 2:06 PM CST interacial dating
donnacala
donnacaladonnacalaNorth York, Ontario Canada27 Threads 875 Posts
I don't think that the color was an issue with my mom.......she was more apt to ask if the guy came from a good family, does he have a job and how he was morally......

she always said......no matter what color God made us, we all bleed red blood........

if color is such an issue, I suggest they switch the channels on the NEW tv......cause IT AIN'T ALL ABOUT BLACK AND WHITE ANYMORE......

the world is a KALAIDEASCOPE.....(SP??)...LET'S JUMP IN! dancing dancing
Feb 12, 2007 5:03 PM CST interacial dating
DamnitsCloudy
DamnitsCloudyDamnitsCloudyLexington, USA22 Threads 2,578 Posts
I asked out Tracy once and she said I was too white crying joking! Well I did ask her out once but she was like "I'm in Canada...thats too far from you".

Anyway, I dated a black girl back in middle school and shes not stereotypical black; she was in love with the backstreet boys, loved video games, and as nerdy as me. But her family was just like The Klumps from "Nutty Professor" movie lol.
Feb 12, 2007 6:13 PM CST interacial dating
Honeydipped06
Honeydipped06Honeydipped0627 Threads 304 Posts
ummmm what is pc jive????

someone pissed in your cornflakes this morning also.

MMcheering
Feb 12, 2007 10:16 PM CST interacial dating
arthurdent
arthurdentarthurdentspamilton, Ontario Canada13 Threads 490 Posts
PC = politically correct.
Mar 15, 2007 5:20 PM CST interacial dating
gentleperson4
gentleperson4gentleperson4Burlington, Ontario Canada8 Threads 116 Posts
I married my own race, but, I think I would of been more happy with anyone because I was not personally accepted, and value wikked, that your ex supported you in your relationship stating either her or me.
Mar 15, 2007 6:20 PM CST interacial dating
Woody61
Woody61Woody61Winnipeg, Manitoba Canada47 Posts
Treating people of all colors the same isn't "pc", it's bloody logical. Their brains and personalities aren't a different color. The only difference between black and white is color, and what a boring world it would be if we were all the same color.
Mar 15, 2007 6:49 PM CST interacial dating
CaptainMurray
CaptainMurrayCaptainMurraySelkirk, Manitoba Canada59 Threads 2,130 Posts
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May 8, 2007 5:20 PM CST interacial dating
justduckie61
justduckie61justduckie61Winnipeg, Canada9 Threads 263 Posts
That's very narrow minded. People are people no matter what color their skin is.frustrated
May 8, 2007 6:27 PM CST interacial dating
curlywolf
curlywolfcurlywolfmontreal, Quebec Canada402 Threads 7,052 Posts
What does color or etnicity have to do with it? A jerk can be a jerk in any color,etnicity or form.
And for those of u who read the Bible doesn't it say'LOVE THY NEIGHBOUR' in there?hug
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