long distance love (30)
AlreadyToGoNo79yucca valley, California USA1 Threads 4 Postswhen you think you have found that one person that you have been waiting to meet how do you decide who makes the ultimate sacrifice and moves. especially when both parties have children?
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I have no idea...what is on your head? I can't focus on the question, sorry. I just got to know...
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Depends on who owns their own home, that should make it a bit easier to decide... <JMO>
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that is a good question I wondering myself 
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First of all I suggest that you both KNOW(not think)you have found that one person. 
The dicision of who moves will work itself out !!
The dicision of who moves will work itself out !!
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It would depend on the ages of the children, their needs come first. If they're young enough, it'll be an adventure for them to move, unless you're taking them away from extended family that they're close to. No way I'm making an older kid pack up and move across the country just to satisfy myself, especially if it's where they've lived all their life. If it's real love, it'll just have to wait. Family comes first.
And answer Jess's question, what is that on your head??
And answer Jess's question, what is that on your head??
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It looks like he is a cave explorer, looks like bug spray cans, and a device for eye protection when he looks up in the presence of bats !
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I would HIGHLY recommend at least seeing each other a few times before giving everything up (job, home, friends, etc) to go live with someone else in a distant city or another state.
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I feel awful...sorry...I like to look at the person and their profile before answering, especially if I have not made their aquaintance before...,
Distance sucks...let me tell you...I live five hours away from anywhere here in Australia, and I live on the flipside of most of the posters here on CS.
So really it comes down to the greater good of all, and you and your partner may need to look at all the pros and cons together for all of you, and make your decisions then. Negotiation counts most in a relationship...and compromise...
Distance sucks...let me tell you...I live five hours away from anywhere here in Australia, and I live on the flipside of most of the posters here on CS.
So really it comes down to the greater good of all, and you and your partner may need to look at all the pros and cons together for all of you, and make your decisions then. Negotiation counts most in a relationship...and compromise...
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I kind of thought deep sea or extreme temperature diving, or cave diving, but the head gear threw me...I was so busy looking at that I forgot the question...shallow woman
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A pilot? The hat thingo has me beat though...
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You're making it sound like a hostage situation!
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You first have to know they are the person for you and if they truly are for you it is not the ultimate sacrifice. It's a choice. Love doen't keep score.
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The children have to come first!!
No self-respecting parent of any child under the age of 16 should consider this unless the child is deemed to be better off with the move.
Children need continuity, and if the relationship between the two adults is strong enough, then seasonal visits, holidays, work around the children's holidays ... etc
You cannot uproot children for the selfish sake of the adult.
Sorry ... no one will convince me otherwise ... and I dont have kids!
No self-respecting parent of any child under the age of 16 should consider this unless the child is deemed to be better off with the move.
Children need continuity, and if the relationship between the two adults is strong enough, then seasonal visits, holidays, work around the children's holidays ... etc
You cannot uproot children for the selfish sake of the adult.
Sorry ... no one will convince me otherwise ... and I dont have kids!
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oh ... the thing on his head?
Its his underwear! he got up in the morning and just got confused!
Its his underwear! he got up in the morning and just got confused!
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have a meeting half way.. maybe on a barge,,,,,if you are on either sides of large bodies of water that is!!
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A barge??? Ok...I thought Africa was kind of halfway...or even somewhere in the Pacific....but a barge sounds kind of cool....wanna meet???
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you know!! I woud meet you on a barge, I would meet you in the dark , I would meet you in the air!,, I would meet you anywhere
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Ah, the good old coin toss. Or perhaps paper, rock, scissors. Take your pick and choose wisely.
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Well ... before you, both of you will take a decision, make sure that a person that you THINK!!!! is the one and forever. 
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