Separated (71)
I ask for an esplanation of what seperated means for them. I have no dramas with corresponding with someone who is "separated", doesn't just mean no longer joined?
I have no religious connections to marriage and divorce, (although, have been both) so am not stressed if someone who is separated, is not legally divorced.
I have no religious connections to marriage and divorce, (although, have been both) so am not stressed if someone who is separated, is not legally divorced.
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I am in agreement, here.
I do have freinds that are separated, though.
I do have freinds that are separated, though.
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It's the legal bond that can really complicate things.
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Yes friends but not anyone from a singles site who is looking for a romantic interest is what I meant. :)
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No. Never.
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Never for me, if they are only separated..
One reason is legally.
Children may be involved.
Some are separated in hopes of working it out..
I don't ever want to be the cause of someone making that decision to divorce.
One reason is legally.
Children may be involved.
Some are separated in hopes of working it out..
I don't ever want to be the cause of someone making that decision to divorce.
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I agree with Susie. Of course if they persist, I just tell them to leave me alone until the paperwork is final.
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Some of us might have a good reason for noting separated in our profiles.
First it is honest and that is what my status is right now. After 2 years of being in limbo land and having worked thru my feelings it is time that I got on with my life.
Divorces can take time in some states, and I also have health benefits right now that I can't afford to pay for if I was truly single at this time.
My former husband (now called wasband) has been civil enough to allow me enough time to get back on my feet again before I lose the benefits.
First it is honest and that is what my status is right now. After 2 years of being in limbo land and having worked thru my feelings it is time that I got on with my life.
Divorces can take time in some states, and I also have health benefits right now that I can't afford to pay for if I was truly single at this time.
My former husband (now called wasband) has been civil enough to allow me enough time to get back on my feet again before I lose the benefits.
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I have been sperated for going on 14 years the only thing between me and a divorce is about 1500.00 only because we weren't married in Canada and neither of us can afford a divorce. He has moved on and become engaged and has a much better paying job beleive me if I could get the money divorce would be done and it would all be over. In saying that if the seperation is recent then I can understand your point of view in not wanting to become involved!!!
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I have been separated for 16 months. My 2bx and I are working through the financial aspect of divorce. Kids are grown so there's no custody issues. We live states apart and both want the divorce. It simply takes time to work through the legal process. I posted as separated because I think it's important to be honest. On the other hand, I'm ready to move on with my life and know that takes time also to build a lasting relationship. I would hope that any man interested in me would be as honest as I am.
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Ask the person, some people do just seperate to get apart but get back together. Others though are in a seperation status awaiting court (like it germany, takes forever and one has to be seperated for one year normally).
Legally bound....unfortuately in divorce there is still a "legal bond". Oh maybe not in who sees who but if there are kids there is custody or visitation, can be alimony....
Some divorce, see someone else and then decide to go back.
As far as you being a cause for any break up don't be. No one puts a gun to the others head. If someone would try to blame you such as "if not for you...." don't be. We all make our choices.
Legally bound....unfortuately in divorce there is still a "legal bond". Oh maybe not in who sees who but if there are kids there is custody or visitation, can be alimony....
Some divorce, see someone else and then decide to go back.
As far as you being a cause for any break up don't be. No one puts a gun to the others head. If someone would try to blame you such as "if not for you...." don't be. We all make our choices.
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I feel the same way, as far as any kind of romantic interest...but I don't have a problem being buddies with a person who is separated...that is as far as it will go, though, until legally divorced.
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I dated 2 women who were separated. They both went through the divorce and then became separated from me
I think I was there to be a hand-holder more than anything, so be careful. Rebounds often bounce badly.
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"wasband" good one.
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when are you no longer considered a rebound?
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I would say when you have dealt with and resolved all the issues within yourself about your past relationship!!!!!
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I dealt with mine so long ago there were still dinosaurs running around.
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