Absolutely not... I have been on both sides of the issue myself and know that weight has nothing to do with the person... it just gives you more to love
Going on my own here and prepared for the hate mail.
Although a guy doesn't have to be Mr. Universe...and could have a few extra pounds, I am more physically attracted to men that are height-weight proportionate.
No!!! Even if he didn't have EVERYTHING going for him, I would still be interested in him. There are so many facets to a person and how they are made up in varying combinations, it would be ridiculous to think you would get remotely near to everything! We are only human, I could forgive a few little flaws......... of course!
"What I am looking for"?? Not sure what that is...... not looking for anything in particular, I guess I'll just know it when I see it! So being a lovely surprise as well would be a bonus...
How much weight are we talking here? Is he 300 pounds, 600, what?
It all depends on his demeanor. Like a lot of women, men too have problems with the weight issue. No matter how much he weighs, he needs to have self confidence, humor, be able to laugh at himself as well.
I cannot lie, I have never met a man that was really overweight that had issues I didn't feel like dealing with.
Of course, there are skinny ones who have excess baggage that I don't bother dealing with as well. I guess it depends on the individual.
i think "chubby" men are like teddy bears lol.. im a dork, but i have never met a guy with a great personality that i wouldn't give a chance to, if i was asked to.
No, would go out with him. As long as he is wonderful on the inside it's all good.I've gone out with guys that are overweight, scrawny, average, etc. It is whats on the inside that counts.
Who I am attracted to has nothing to do with his weight. My first, (and only) love was 5'5" and weighed about 230...it was his smile and personality that made me fall in love with him. Even when he lost weight, he was the same person inside, and that is what mattered.
Some physical traits kind of matter to me. Weight does not. It's all how the man makes you feel.
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