DO I WAIT OR MOVE ON (43)
Sounds like he is wasting your time, I'd forget him.
------ This thread is Archived ------
He was being honest.
He said he wasn't ready to be with anyone.
Believe him.
If you like him, it will be at the 'friend' level.
He can be friends with you, just not a serious lover.
He has already made a decision.
You will not be able to change his mind.
Accept that.
He said he wasn't ready to be with anyone.
Believe him.
If you like him, it will be at the 'friend' level.
He can be friends with you, just not a serious lover.
He has already made a decision.
You will not be able to change his mind.
Accept that.
------ This thread is Archived ------
this gentleman sounds like a dog that bark all the time but wwhen its offered attention in tucks it tail and runs..use indifference if you insistent on "having" this man. no response until he offers more then just flirting. Your time is to valuable to chasing a neurotic barking dog..let him know you think he's all bark and no bite in a humorus way.
you might well intimidate this bloke more than you realize... if thats the case grab dog by collar and take him home
you might well intimidate this bloke more than you realize... if thats the case grab dog by collar and take him home
------ This thread is Archived ------
"you might well intimidate this bloke more than you realize... if thats the case grab dog by collar and take him home"
or let him out ....... He will come back when he is tired and hungry lol
But what the point to let him in ....... There is plenty another owners awaits
or let him out ....... He will come back when he is tired and hungry lol
But what the point to let him in ....... There is plenty another owners awaits
------ This thread is Archived ------
I think its time you moved on hun. U are only stressing yourself out. It seem like mind games to me and you deserve much more
------ This thread is Archived ------
sometimes the best ones needed to be lead by the nose or scruff of the neck, then once they see the affection and attention is not a passing whim they'll be well worth the effort.
sometimes the time invested pays off enormously....sometimes
Personnaly speaking, thats probably my greatest dilemma, I do not have the inclination or pateince to chase, train, or rescue someone from their own fears of committment.
sometimes the time invested pays off enormously....sometimes
Personnaly speaking, thats probably my greatest dilemma, I do not have the inclination or pateince to chase, train, or rescue someone from their own fears of committment.
------ This thread is Archived ------
yup ... you got it ... The same here ...
It is like dancing with a wolves ... you never know ... Right?
So why for the Hell's sake to waste our lifes on training and leading human beings ( i mean in personal relationships)
We have brains that we ought to use Aren't we?
It is like dancing with a wolves ... you never know ... Right?
So why for the Hell's sake to waste our lifes on training and leading human beings ( i mean in personal relationships)
We have brains that we ought to use Aren't we?
------ This thread is Archived ------
some do not use that part of their anatomy as much as others. sometimes dispite all the good logical books on the subject...
some women just like to be in charge of the relationship
as for the dancing issue, its the thrill of it... the joy of it, and yes the fear of dancing with the devil and by the end of the dance you have that wolf or devil eatin out of your hand or purring like a declawed house cat. yeah some enjoy a challenge, if it was too easy I'd sit at home and phone it in
some women just like to be in charge of the relationship
as for the dancing issue, its the thrill of it... the joy of it, and yes the fear of dancing with the devil and by the end of the dance you have that wolf or devil eatin out of your hand or purring like a declawed house cat. yeah some enjoy a challenge, if it was too easy I'd sit at home and phone it in
------ This thread is Archived ------
you call it challenge? Well ... i think it is a pure stupidity to train and dance with the Devil ... He will drag you with him down, down, down until you are complitely exhausted and have no clue how come you turned out to be in a place where no sun, no wind, no skies ...
You know what happenes to those challenged people ... Do you?
They ending up being totaly destroyed (emotional Hell ) or on a Dating Site whining and teering their eyes off Why nobody loves me? or Where all Good men or women gone to ?
Do you wish for a chalenge ... Climb a Mountains, Sail to an Ocean ... Dang it? At least climb a tree ... the highest one
You know what happenes to those challenged people ... Do you?
They ending up being totaly destroyed (emotional Hell ) or on a Dating Site whining and teering their eyes off Why nobody loves me? or Where all Good men or women gone to ?
Do you wish for a chalenge ... Climb a Mountains, Sail to an Ocean ... Dang it? At least climb a tree ... the highest one
------ This thread is Archived ------
Run girl, run!
------ This thread is Archived ------
We can only act accordingly to the dictates of our hearts. Sooner or later something has to give and what is meant to be will be. But from a man's perspective, it sounds to me that he may have been hurt in the past and is very cautious. True frienship is really the deepest kind of love and couples that were true best friends at the begining will remain togther. I hope this helps
------ This thread is Archived ------
From my personal experiences:
my advice: " leave him to be"
most important
"u are the special one"
my advice: " leave him to be"
most important
"u are the special one"
------ This thread is Archived ------
He was being honest.
He said he wasn't ready to be with anyone.
Believe him.
If you like him, it will be at the 'friend' level.
He can be friends with you, just not a serious lover.
He has already made a decision.
You will not be able to change his mind.
Accept that.
These are your words: "but the problem is i am so attracted to him its not funny. "
When you realizie that it was YOU that used your free will to pursue this then you
will be ahead of the game for next time.
YOU chose this.
He's not holding a gun to your head. If YOU don't like the way you FEEL with all this
choose to look for someone different. Unless you want more of the same.
It isn't his responsibility It's YOURS. YOU choose.
He said he wasn't ready to be with anyone.
Believe him.
If you like him, it will be at the 'friend' level.
He can be friends with you, just not a serious lover.
He has already made a decision.
You will not be able to change his mind.
Accept that.
These are your words: "but the problem is i am so attracted to him its not funny. "
When you realizie that it was YOU that used your free will to pursue this then you
will be ahead of the game for next time.
YOU chose this.
He's not holding a gun to your head. If YOU don't like the way you FEEL with all this
choose to look for someone different. Unless you want more of the same.
It isn't his responsibility It's YOURS. YOU choose.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Move on. They are too wishy washy. There's someone I really care about, but...he's just like that too. Even though we broke up 12 years ago, we are still friends, but it will never go anywhere because of that indecisiveness.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Personal, I think he is toying with your emotions. How about you pull away for awhile. I am sure that will get his attention one way or another.
------ This thread is Archived ------
walk away sweetie...
there is someone better out there for ya!
x
there is someone better out there for ya!
x
------ This thread is Archived ------
ok
------ This thread is Archived ------
dont wait for to long you might set roots and be stuck move on as if you were a leaf in a strong breeze and dont look back. Forward motion
------ This thread is Archived ------
This Thread is Archived
This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.
« Go back to All Threads
« Go back to All Threads
More Threads
your personality
everything is changing
Don Shits-In-Pants!!!
Nature
other can see but not you
Common Issues with the BMW X1
How far is too far?
Salami, Salami, Baloney
1830's Music
Icebergs Still Around
More Threads
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
U wanna know what I think?No disrespect but this guy is playing u.I don't realy think he likes u..I mean..just think about it..he said he is not ready 2 be with anyone..so he basicaly made understand that he doesnt want to have anything with u.Another issue..u say he flirts with u...(when he wants?!)hmm..sory sweetie but that is kinda odd..I mean...do u realy think he likes u?he plays u..I am not trying to be rude or ruin your dreams...but you are blind...all you see is love..and you can't realise that he is not interested in you..or maybe u don't want to see that.
Put your self this question...why is he rejecting you when you flirt with him?
Sory but he is plaing you..your are the pupet and he is the pupetier..
My advice 2 you is 2 move on with your life and find a man that worths your love and attention.
Never forget:we all have ops and downs...we just have 2 look in the future with optimism and never give up.
Best regards Dya