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Jul 28, 2007 6:59 AM CST how do you know.....
Mummy
MummyMummyDrogheda, Louth Ireland177 Threads 1 Polls 2,380 Posts
How do you know.....

by chatting to someone that you really like on a dating site, that you will be good together...and that you could have a really marvellous relationship with each other.

is it the butterfly feeling in your tummy everytime you see a flower or a mail....or what?

N

xkiss
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Jul 28, 2007 7:02 AM CST how do you know.....
marie2
marie2marie2walterboro, USA25 Threads 693 Posts
sigh yep, I had it but then you watch who they talk with on the forums and as the gals get cuter, you realize you are being played and slowly the mail goes away...actions speak louder than words!hug Wish you luckhandshake
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Jul 28, 2007 7:03 AM CST how do you know.....
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
We do not know, really .... until we met



But those butterfiles and seeing a picture Oh yes, it makes us feel yay

Just my thought
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Jul 28, 2007 7:05 AM CST how do you know.....
Assets52
Assets52Assets52Littleton, New Hampshire USA125 Threads 2,174 Posts
I've never been able to figure this one out myself.



So much easier to detect compatibility in person. Perhaps that's why I have never been successful with relationships initiated online.
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Jul 28, 2007 7:09 AM CST how do you know.....
nuala
nualanualadublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 6,456 Posts
it takes time to get to know someone and you can get caught up in the moment but in time you do get to know the person. But the real test is meeting face to face. If there is no chemistry there well then it not a waste of time you will have made a good friend hug hug hug
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Jul 28, 2007 7:16 AM CST how do you know.....
Mummy
MummyMummyDrogheda, Louth Ireland177 Threads 1 Polls 2,380 Posts
that's true!
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Jul 28, 2007 7:19 AM CST how do you know.....
ColdInWisconsin
ColdInWisconsinColdInWisconsinR.L., USA3 Threads 551 Posts
It is so hard to know. I think you almost have to wait until it gets to the point where you can actually talk to one another. Then you have a better idea if you really feel attracted to them.

But it can be a long time to wait. And it is great fun to get mail and flowers! So, just enjoy it for what it is. I think you have to let go of a little bit of controll and just ride with it. That is the only way to see where it will end up.

Good luck!
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Jul 28, 2007 7:27 AM CST how do you know.....
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
no guarantees on this,
I find it comparable to purchasing a lottery ticket on a hunch bet.
You cannot win unless you play...thats what they say.anyway.

Many times the investment is great and returns are little if any... yep no guarantees and the butterflies in the stomach prove it.

But when its real the time and price invested is miniscule to the happiness and joy one feels.
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Jul 28, 2007 7:31 AM CST how do you know.....
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Indeed, Sir! grin



Never gamble with a Goverment but be persistent in your hopes.
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Jul 28, 2007 7:39 AM CST how do you know.....
Uniquemom61
Uniquemom61Uniquemom61Loveland, Ohio USA22 Threads 918 Posts
I am a firm believer in that...."action speaks louder than words"

And those few men that do that, makes the rest that don't, look pretty bad.professor

Those, are the ones that are called "playas" cause if they're doing on a website, don't you think they'd be doing it in real life too?

(and please, no haters for what I just said)

hug
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Jul 28, 2007 7:40 AM CST how do you know.....
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
I prefer to cut through the chase......

Shoot from the hip......

Meet up and it's either a yay or nay.......

Just my euro's worth......conversing
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Jul 28, 2007 7:42 AM CST how do you know.....
Uniquemom61
Uniquemom61Uniquemom61Loveland, Ohio USA22 Threads 918 Posts
What if they are a thousand miles away, makes it kinda difficult to do that....so you prefer someone that is close to you?
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Jul 28, 2007 7:45 AM CST how do you know.....
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Close or not.......

If two people really want to meet.....no Ocean is going to keep then apart.....

Good afternoon Sweetie Unihug
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Jul 28, 2007 7:48 AM CST how do you know.....
Uniquemom61
Uniquemom61Uniquemom61Loveland, Ohio USA22 Threads 918 Posts
I suppose......sigh I guess I just haven't found a love like that yet.....Even with my ex.....makes me wonder.


Good afternoon there Steph...lol it's 8:43 here and I am saying good afternoon.....that is wild.....rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 28, 2007 7:51 AM CST how do you know.....
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Yep sure is wild.......your in the zone girl......head banger
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Jul 28, 2007 7:52 AM CST how do you know.....
Uniquemom61
Uniquemom61Uniquemom61Loveland, Ohio USA22 Threads 918 Posts
LOL the twilight zone....LOL rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 28, 2007 8:04 AM CST how do you know.....
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
i definitely do.... sometimes it can become painful when you do develop a strong attraction to somone who is too far away. The agony of your lonliness and desire to be that person can cause one to make bad decisions in ones life.
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Jul 28, 2007 8:59 AM CST how do you know.....
CowgirlKammy
CowgirlKammyCowgirlKammyLucedale, USA3 Threads 17 Posts
I was talking to a man on a dating site that said he was talking only to me and he was saying such sweet things to me, so tricked him and made up another profile and contacted him in that other id. He said the same thing to the other me that he had said to me. lol That went on for a while when finally he said he had met someone else that he liked better. It was the other me. I finally told him what I had done and he was pissed to say the least that he was caught. He refused to speak to either of me then. rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 28, 2007 10:25 AM CST how do you know.....
airliner
airlinerairlinerCentral, New Jersey USA23 Threads 2 Polls 5,143 Posts
I will, in a very long time, make a somewhat controversial comment and "play" the Devil's Advocate here.

Although one might say "it is only a fair game" for what you did, doesn't your action, at least to certain extent, put you in the same "player" mode and make the setting equally insincere?

Sorry, if I am being too critical. I didn't intend to put you on the spot.

Just my humble point of viewrose
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Jul 28, 2007 10:27 AM CST how do you know.....
Roguecop
RoguecopRoguecopElko, Nevada USA218 Threads 3,885 Posts
You don't on here you can be water and dirt, but when you get together you make Mud.
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