Dunno.. but I totally disagree. If you've never loved, you have the luxury of being ignorant of what you're missing. I can't think of anything worse than having loved and lost.
Tennyson wrote a number of phrases that have become commonplaces of the English language, including: "nature, red in tooth and claw", "better to have loved and lost", "Theirs not to reason why,/Theirs but to do and die", and "My strength is as the strength of ten,/Because my heart is pure".
this reminded me of this Beatles song.................
In My Life
(Lennon/McCartney)
There are places I remember All my life though some have changed Some forever not for better Some have gone and some remain All these places have their moments With lovers and friends I still can recall Some are dead and some are living In my life I've loved them all
But of all these friends and lovers There is no one compares with you And these memories lose their meaning When I think of love as something new Though I know I'll never lose affection For people and things that went before I know I'll often stop and think about them In my life I love you more
Though I know I'll never lose affection For people and things that went before I know I'll often stop and think about them In my life I love you more
I wrote a hypothetical/analytical essay on this once.......from a christian point of view. (even though I am not a christian)
The essay pertained to the love we have for our children. The hypothetical was this:
Suppose God said to you, "I have this gift to give you....to love unconditionally...to protect and guide and teach the ways of life. But, some years from now, I won't say how many, I must take back this gift. Will you accept this gift, knowing you will love him with the purest of hearts and will be devestated when I take him back?"
I posed that question. There are very few people who would turn down this gift, even knowing it is highly likely that "the gift" would be taken away from them.
Love is, after all, one common denominator we all share. We all seek it....need it....crave it.......
My own quote: "it is far better to have touched the face of true love, if only for a moment in time, than to have never known it at all"
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I feel it, when I sorrow most;
'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all.