It Hurts So Bad ( Archived) (27)

Oct 8, 2007 1:02 PM CST It Hurts So Bad
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Just be patient, D. Don't show any anger toward your daughter. The tide will change -- loving her as much as you appear to will guarantee that.

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Oct 8, 2007 1:11 PM CST It Hurts So Bad
Scottrssll
ScottrssllScottrssllNorfolk, Virginia USA12 Threads 266 Posts
I agree and would take that even further. I was the child of a divorce, and my parents sucked at parenting for most of my life (long story short), but, they were always there. Always. Now, I'm really close with both of my parents. The trick is, even when it hurts and is a struggle to stick it through..... Be there. Just being there for her, even if she doesn't respond well at first, will mean the world to her in the long run. Just make sure she understands that you're there for her forever. A 4 year old could easily misunderstand a divorce for you leaving her and mommy, not just mommy. You have to prove you didn't.
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Oct 8, 2007 1:41 PM CST It Hurts So Bad
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
That's my story, too, Scott -- from the parents' side. I sucked at parenting -- started too young (for me, at least) -- but just kept hanging in there, always letting me know that I loved them and was interested in their lives, and helping them when needed. And the result...we get along better now than we ever did then.

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Oct 8, 2007 2:49 PM CST It Hurts So Bad
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
i agree w/ babs

greatly encouraging to hear this stuff from men

the growing up and the screwing up

guys sharing about feelings go figger

(you know chicks dig that right?)

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Oct 8, 2007 2:54 PM CST It Hurts So Bad
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Aww. She's still very young so please try not to take it to heart. Things will get better as she grows older. You'll see.
I'll say a little prayer for you.


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Oct 8, 2007 2:57 PM CST It Hurts So Bad
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
innocent
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Oct 8, 2007 3:06 PM CST It Hurts So Bad
terabyte
terabyteterabytelewisburg, Tennessee USA2 Threads 236 Posts
have the florist deliver a balloon bouquet with candy or a stuffed toy to her house with one of those cards you can record a msg on and tell her she's the sweetest thing in your life and you miss her and will see her when she's ready
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