i dated him 'and' his sister ! ( Archived) (18)

ok so iv known this guy 4 years and found out just recently he liked me as much as i liked him (thank gawd i thot) we both decide 2 do food and cinema as we cudnt make up our minds but ended up leaving movie due 2 him not liking anything so food it was ,i told him id b in frm work at 7 so 2 make it easier wud he just meet me ther at 8 ? no problem 'he says' so after rushing round like a mad woman i finally get ther 2 find him seated at our table ,i took my seat and thot oh luvly hes poured me wine (how wrong was i) i heard a 'hi farley' behind me and turnd 2 c his sister ?with no explanation she sits her butt down in the seat beside me ! these r her words not mine 'i was bored n thot id come with u 2 make sure u had fun' ? after leaving in a cab home (myself) with no gudnite kiss i havent spoken 2 him since and 2 b honest hav no idea wot 2 say ,am i the only person who thinks this 'date' was rather weird ?i dont want him 2 think im being rude but surely a 'date' is 4 2 people ?not 3 lol

OMG!!!! that is so sad!! cant believe he let the sister do that!,,but no you are correct,,,this is to strange to spring a surprise like that.....it did happen to me one time a few years ago..I left as soon as I could....it was very similar except it was not a sister it was a younger person that for some reason was there and I just had a water and left as soon as I could... crazy !!
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im so glad im not alone in this lmao x

no you are not alone, and if he contacts you to meet up again, explain that when asked to go on a date. You assumed two people ie. couple not his family.....cause maybe next time he might bring his granny.....only jokin

Just as well to learn what he is like now and not waste anymore time, if your feelings were not considered in all of this date......

Wow...that really does suck....sorry to hear that.

Men huh whatcha gonna do??

words of wisdom indeed
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ohmigawd the granny thing wud just crack me up lmao

Words of wisdom!!!!!!!

reminds me kind of a date i had with my now ex. he brought along his family being his mom, dad and sister. they followed us everywhere. when we did escape them they called about 10 mins so he said to me well let's go find them. the date ended soon after cause his dad said was tired.