My heart still breaks (226)
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HAHA! what late and never!!!
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Hey,
What you said really touched me and only those who have gone through a simular sitution can understand. I had goosebumps while i read it. Ive been through a very simular 'experience' though your lucky you got an email, after a year and a half together...i just got told it was over. no explanation, nothing. Because he had met someone else and couldnt tell me like a man. Funny thing was e had always been the 1 chasing, e always made out he adored me, engaged, talk about kids....even a tattoo of my name on his hip. Then wanted me back almost a yr later....i still love him but i cudnt.
if anyone can treat you the way uve been treated, they cant care about you, they cant love you because if they did they wouldnt be able to c you in pain....
it takes time dont get me wrong but youll learn to live with it. you may not get over that person completely but ull be happy agen. no more crying down the fone, been there and it doesnt do you any good.
Good luck hunni x
What you said really touched me and only those who have gone through a simular sitution can understand. I had goosebumps while i read it. Ive been through a very simular 'experience' though your lucky you got an email, after a year and a half together...i just got told it was over. no explanation, nothing. Because he had met someone else and couldnt tell me like a man. Funny thing was e had always been the 1 chasing, e always made out he adored me, engaged, talk about kids....even a tattoo of my name on his hip. Then wanted me back almost a yr later....i still love him but i cudnt.
if anyone can treat you the way uve been treated, they cant care about you, they cant love you because if they did they wouldnt be able to c you in pain....
it takes time dont get me wrong but youll learn to live with it. you may not get over that person completely but ull be happy agen. no more crying down the fone, been there and it doesnt do you any good.
Good luck hunni x
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Oh brother, you didn't read this whole thread did you?
"The same holds true for a callous and selfish fiend like the one you gave yourself to!"
BTW Shinedown isn't even here anymore so your talking to .....The Cheshire Cat.
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Well, whether I'm talking to the Cheshire Cat or to Shinedown, there's a very valuable lesson to be learned here. Probably more than one.
You seem to me like the rebound guy. She was waiting for a different person, who never showed up. Then all of a sudden, you two are an item. Love cannot come that quickly. I am sorry that you are so wrecked over this, but you must realize that love comes slowly. Not over emails and nights on the phone with one meeting. All good things take time.
Your disappointment is harsh, for sure, but life is full of them. The best thing that you can do is just to understand what happened. IT WAS TOO QUICK, for anything permanent. I read her post, and it seemed to me that it was just a bunch of excuses wrapped into a way to bow out and look reasonable. You need to read between the lines my friend.
I am sorry that this happened to you, and also the posts that were not quite favorable. They all have a point, albeit, said very bluntly. I think that they were just trying to get you to listen to them.
So, pull yourself up by your bootstraps, realize that disappointment comes, and NEXT time take time to get to know the person. You don't know her, even though you think that you do.
My condolences go out to you for what you went through, and for what you are putting yourself through.
Getting a grip would be a good thing.
You seem to me like the rebound guy. She was waiting for a different person, who never showed up. Then all of a sudden, you two are an item. Love cannot come that quickly. I am sorry that you are so wrecked over this, but you must realize that love comes slowly. Not over emails and nights on the phone with one meeting. All good things take time.
Your disappointment is harsh, for sure, but life is full of them. The best thing that you can do is just to understand what happened. IT WAS TOO QUICK, for anything permanent. I read her post, and it seemed to me that it was just a bunch of excuses wrapped into a way to bow out and look reasonable. You need to read between the lines my friend.
I am sorry that this happened to you, and also the posts that were not quite favorable. They all have a point, albeit, said very bluntly. I think that they were just trying to get you to listen to them.
So, pull yourself up by your bootstraps, realize that disappointment comes, and NEXT time take time to get to know the person. You don't know her, even though you think that you do.
My condolences go out to you for what you went through, and for what you are putting yourself through.
Getting a grip would be a good thing.
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