Realize that me letting it out here really helps the tears go away. I have had a couple other breakups on this site, posted about it for a few days to help me heal and then it would start to get better. I would move on. Never before have I been treated in this manner though.
vitaminehugHelsinki, Southern Finland Finland97 posts
Something you gotta realize is, nobody is responsible for your feelings but yourself. You are, ultimately, the one who feels, so it's really up to you, in the end. I tried to tell you that grieving is a process, but then it's a process that has a beginning and an END. And it really is up to you. It's also up to you to have dignity and self-respect, a firm knowledge of your value and select your partner accordingly - and also, not letting her walk all over you. But this would be a new and very long discussion, and I kinda should go back to study.
Anyway, this thread is now officially awesome, it just needs a few
Because you started this circus. None of this would have happened if you didn't stick your nose in this thread, my thread talking about missing her and my thread telling people not to think bad about her.
I was getting close to being done posting about it. Also nothing was said by me about any of it today until you brought these threads back up.
Well done BG - Not only did you insult Shinedown, but the lady in question and everybody who posted on this thread Good job, I am sure it helped the situation - Are you A or B?
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including me.
Its a crap place to be.
But you wont be there for ever.
However, how long you dwell there
is entirely up to you.
Good luck