My heart still breaks (226)
tessie07dublin, Dublin Ireland129 Threads 4,323 Posts
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Love is the only way.
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Well said my friend
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I can love a man but not be able to find a compromise with distance or other personal stuff so i guess that isn't all for me.
To each his own!
To each his own!
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Maybe your emotional outpouring was just too much for them to handle.
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Sorry to hear of your heart ache......I thought things were going great since you two met.......
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lusciousmile true love overcomes all obstacles.. it makes both people work together and let nothing stand in their way.. but it takes two..
When the right one finally does come along and truly loves you you will see and know there will be nothing that will stand in your way, and if something does it won't be for long..
If I ever find my true love I would remove mountians if I had to just to be with her..
When the right one finally does come along and truly loves you you will see and know there will be nothing that will stand in your way, and if something does it won't be for long..
If I ever find my true love I would remove mountians if I had to just to be with her..
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If the word love could talk, it would
. It has been given/burdened with all these responsibillities that ultimately should end in perfection.
I take love as life. There are up and downs and it's beauty fades away. Sometimes it even ends/dies !
Hoping for the best, i always keep it real!
Call me cynical but if i was realllllllly in love with someone right now, i wouldn't quit school in the name of love. I don't look at only the present, i'm long sighted!
. It has been given/burdened with all these responsibillities that ultimately should end in perfection.I take love as life. There are up and downs and it's beauty fades away. Sometimes it even ends/dies !
Hoping for the best, i always keep it real!
Call me cynical but if i was realllllllly in love with someone right now, i wouldn't quit school in the name of love. I don't look at only the present, i'm long sighted!
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Wow didn't mean to make you throw up... I won't say anymore to you about it...
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Don't be so emotional Daniel. You didn't make me throw up and i don't know what you are on about.
I was merely explaining my view on 'love' and sorry if the emoticons were misleading.
I was merely explaining my view on 'love' and sorry if the emoticons were misleading.
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Ok I misunderstood you then sorry.. all I can say is, there were two times in my life I was truly in love.. and I gave whatever it took to make things work.. unfortunately for me such was not the case on their part.. and in the end I got hurt very badly.. but I can and would love again if I knew in my heart that this new lady was the right one..
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And sometimes loving someone too much is a turn off also.Having someone who wants to be with you 24/7 or gets crazy because you don't answer a phone call is as much a deal breaker as someone who isn't there. Sometimes you don't want sappy or romantic, you just want straight forward. And then you have the ones who just don't know what they want.
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Please do not misunderstand ..but I myself would be mighty skeptical of someone who claims that type of afection for me and does not have my number memorized, An e-mail I"m sorry but with the different avenues of communication available she has a right to place you in that catagory you hate.
hours and hours on the phone and you still could not convince her your reason was geniune? "OH your phone number and e-mail addy was unavailable to me"...
Yeah sorry guy, you and her m
I will not lower myself to that level where i apologize for hours and hours and hours then get hung up on
but consider this if she is this stubborn and unresponsive to your pleas of innocence what will occur next time you ruffle her feathers....
does not have my number memorized, An e-mail I"m sorry but with the different avenues of communication available she has a right to place you in that catagory you hate.hours and hours on the phone and you still could not convince her your reason was geniune? "OH your phone number and e-mail addy was unavailable to me"...
Yeah sorry guy, you and her m
I will not lower myself to that level where i apologize for hours and hours and hours then get hung up on
but consider this if she is this stubborn and unresponsive to your pleas of innocence what will occur next time you ruffle her feathers....
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hate to be the bearer of bad tidings etc but it's occurred to me that perhaps SHE is the one being unfaithful and the reason she doesn't want to listen to you is because she's really more interested in what's happening in her own life and wants to move on. jmo though, sorry if it sounds harsh
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Lay down on the sofa and get some sleep, it will help a little.
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I know what you are going through. It is like banging your head against a brick wall. You try to understand the situation, but the more you think about it, the more pain it causes you.
I have been doing the same thing for a month now. I have decided to let her go. I have decided to try to get on with my life. You need to take a break from your own thoughts. Take a short vacation, start to do something you really like to do. I walk alot, and I have been doing alot of that lately. It clears my head and makes me feel better physically, and emotionally.
Allow her some time to think about things also. She has been hurt in the past, so it might take some time and understanding for her to realize she can trust you. Take a week or 2 and then try again.
Good luck!!
I have been doing the same thing for a month now. I have decided to let her go. I have decided to try to get on with my life. You need to take a break from your own thoughts. Take a short vacation, start to do something you really like to do. I walk alot, and I have been doing alot of that lately. It clears my head and makes me feel better physically, and emotionally.
Allow her some time to think about things also. She has been hurt in the past, so it might take some time and understanding for her to realize she can trust you. Take a week or 2 and then try again.
Good luck!!
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I don't know. Some people just seem to have this switch on their emotions they can cut off at any time it's no longer convenient to feel them.
I am digging through the ashes of my latest crash and burn.
Someone that a year ago would have given most anything to be with me.
Someone who only a few months ago, swore they would love me forever and that I was the most wonderful and important person to them.
Only a few days ago said they loved me very very much and wanted me to be happy.
Then suddenly "it just can't work".....end of story.
You can sift through email, and remember what was said during every conversation you had on the phone, skype, or wherever, and try to decipher every word they said, looking for clues to when things went wrong, and why this happened.
But as in my case, sometimes once someone makes up their mind it's over, you can try, but you probably will never change their mind.
And the more I think about it, why would I even want to. If he could build me up only to jerk the cover right out from under me, what's to stop him from doing it again if we did get back together.
In your case, it sounds like she doesn't trust you. And if you honestly have done nothing to make her doubt your trust, then you are probably fighting a losing battle. People who have been hurt badly sometimes have trust issues and it takes a while for them to feel that they can trust you. I know because I am one of them. It's not something I enjoy, but it is something that I find hard to change. And some people can never learn to trust at all.
I wish you luck and hope the pain gets easier for you soon.
I am on day 5, I can sleep but it's hard to get through a single hour without thinking about this.
Just keep in mind, that you may never understand why..but in time the hurt will fade. I keep telling myself that a lot. Hope it works soon.
I am digging through the ashes of my latest crash and burn.
Someone that a year ago would have given most anything to be with me.
Someone who only a few months ago, swore they would love me forever and that I was the most wonderful and important person to them.
Only a few days ago said they loved me very very much and wanted me to be happy.
Then suddenly "it just can't work".....end of story.
You can sift through email, and remember what was said during every conversation you had on the phone, skype, or wherever, and try to decipher every word they said, looking for clues to when things went wrong, and why this happened.
But as in my case, sometimes once someone makes up their mind it's over, you can try, but you probably will never change their mind.
And the more I think about it, why would I even want to. If he could build me up only to jerk the cover right out from under me, what's to stop him from doing it again if we did get back together.
In your case, it sounds like she doesn't trust you. And if you honestly have done nothing to make her doubt your trust, then you are probably fighting a losing battle. People who have been hurt badly sometimes have trust issues and it takes a while for them to feel that they can trust you. I know because I am one of them. It's not something I enjoy, but it is something that I find hard to change. And some people can never learn to trust at all.
I wish you luck and hope the pain gets easier for you soon.
I am on day 5, I can sleep but it's hard to get through a single hour without thinking about this.
Just keep in mind, that you may never understand why..but in time the hurt will fade. I keep telling myself that a lot. Hope it works soon.
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Sorry for your break-up. You are right..time does make it better. Good luck to you!
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I know how badly this hurts and I am so sorry, but is "understanding" not the very essence of love? Love is PATIENT, Love is KIND. Remember that? Apparently she has not. I could see her frustration in emailing about why she hadn't heard from you and her thinking that maybe you were no longer interested or blowing her off, but if she does not trust you when you tell her the truth and you never gave her a reason NOT to trust you, something is going on wiht her. Either she is trying to let you down easy, she's interested in soemone else...or she's just mental. You are a great guy and as much as you try to explain yourself, the more she is going to act this way toward you. Sadly, if you have offered all you have and have offered the passwords to your accounts and she is still not trusting you, then she has issues that you can not fix. Do you really want to be involved with someone who has no reason not to trust you but refuses to anyway? I have been there and Imasquirly1 is right...it ends in divorce. You deserve someoen that is going to treat you right and be there for you and TRUST you unless you give them a reason not to. I know that there is a feeling that you can't stop feeling, but in time you will stop feeling it. It is not worth selling yourself short over.
Don't settle for a hot dog when you can have filet mignon my friend!!!!!!!!
Don't settle for a hot dog when you can have filet mignon my friend!!!!!!!!
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I agree with Mbcasey. IMO, it's sound advice... Best of luck to you....
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