My heart still breaks (226)
have a few beers, you should be off to the land of nod in no time
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Sorry for what you are going through.
From most of the things i see here, i've learnt not to hurry into dating with CS members. If i do someday, it won't be public.
Again, i'm really sorry you have to go through what you are right now.
From most of the things i see here, i've learnt not to hurry into dating with CS members. If i do someday, it won't be public.
Again, i'm really sorry you have to go through what you are right now.
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Yeah get a couple of 6 pacs down your neck. Or some knockout drops and you'll soon be sleeping like a baby 
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Shine if you truly love this woman then work it out.. talk to her and tell her.. I am sure the two of you can come to an understanding if you both discuss this calmly.. if mistakes have been made overcome them, life is to short to let whatever problem the two of you have get in the way of your happiness..
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bless you. you just got to think and no your better than them and no your worth more.
one day you will find a person who listens and is there for you always.
one day you will find a person who listens and is there for you always.
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Daniel, you should know that sometimes 'love' is not enough. And you can't always try to make things work just because you feel you are 'in love'
Things aren't always what they seem and if they bring you nothing but pain and misery then i say loose them!
JMO.
Things aren't always what they seem and if they bring you nothing but pain and misery then i say loose them!
JMO.
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The only time love is not enough is if it is one sided
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Which it seems is the case.
Oh well, enough analysing from me.
Oh well, enough analysing from me.
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I tried but she doesn't seem too concerned. I really don't get it. Before all this happened, I was very concerned about something that was going on in her life and tried to step in. I was constantly on the go and didn't talk nearly as much. Then in the middle of it, I had some problems with living arrangements, got locked out of the house and had no access to her cell number or the internet which was the reason I was gone.
She doesn't trust me because of a**hole in her past. Now because of those players, us real guys are left to suffer.
I was not on CS, and I was not on any of my other forums. I get accused of cheating though and when I explain everything, she still doesn't care. I have even offered her all my passwords to sites I visit so she can see my login times and post times if I really need to clear up my innocence due to accusations.
She doesn't trust me because of a**hole in her past. Now because of those players, us real guys are left to suffer.
I was not on CS, and I was not on any of my other forums. I get accused of cheating though and when I explain everything, she still doesn't care. I have even offered her all my passwords to sites I visit so she can see my login times and post times if I really need to clear up my innocence due to accusations.
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Why do they fill your head with words of marriage, children and love if they don't mean them?
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Alright Shine.. this matter between the two of you can be cleared up.. the problem is that you are both pointing fingers and saying well you did this and you did that or you didn't do this or you didn't do that.. Ok so now you can get online, and now the two of you can talk on the phone.. it's time for you both to be understand.. and get past it..
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Shine...I know you are hurting right now...and I am so sorry that this happened to you ...
Do you really want the only way for her to trust you being that she can check up on you? That is no way to live my friend...I have been there doing the checking....the resentment will always be there no matter if you are telling the truth or not...that is how it happened for me....it ended in divorce....
Just think about what you really want in life...is it to be under a microscope for every little thing you do...or you miss one of her phone calls and are accused of god only knows what....
all of this is just from my experience....and is my opinion....
I wish you the best of luck and hope all works out for you in the end...
Lynn
Do you really want the only way for her to trust you being that she can check up on you? That is no way to live my friend...I have been there doing the checking....the resentment will always be there no matter if you are telling the truth or not...that is how it happened for me....it ended in divorce....
Just think about what you really want in life...is it to be under a microscope for every little thing you do...or you miss one of her phone calls and are accused of god only knows what....
all of this is just from my experience....and is my opinion....
I wish you the best of luck and hope all works out for you in the end...
Lynn
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I understand. I am always willing to give the benefit of the doubt though and never back down from what I believe in. I honestly think that if we could somehow get over this, maybe she will realize that she can trust me and that I have never done anything to her.
I don't know. I am going to lay down I guess. Probably wont be for long though because every time I try, I completely lose it after a while and come back on here.
I will keep the phone close though and pray to god that she calls me
I don't know. I am going to lay down I guess. Probably wont be for long though because every time I try, I completely lose it after a while and come back on here.
I will keep the phone close though and pray to god that she calls me
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The two of you should read my post about pointing fingers.. just like the song says... Love will find a way..... believe in it..
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I don't kmnow the full situation but i would cut my loses and move on
it seems like she's playing you for what ever reason move on even if it hurts which i'm sure it does but you've got to be content with someone not lied to i'm sure you could find better, you don't need this
it seems like she's playing you for what ever reason move on even if it hurts which i'm sure it does but you've got to be content with someone not lied to i'm sure you could find better, you don't need this
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Sorry to hear what you are going through Shine...you really seem like a decent fellow. But offering all your passwords etc would not work, if she doesn´t trust you it doesn´t matter what you do....
Come and see me over in Spain.....have a hol and a chat and we´ll cheer you up!
Come and see me over in Spain.....have a hol and a chat and we´ll cheer you up!
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Sorry thought you are happy with some nice girl from this site,was I wrong????
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You tell me!
One guy on here told me he'd be glad to have me as his girlfriend or wife someday.
Weeks later i casually say " i like you lots" and he flips saying that kind of stuff should be said way much later!
Told him he was too uptight for me and that was that! Freakshow this is!
I'm glad to say, i'm glad i'm single because men can sometimes be just as
Hey, shine, don't let anyone get you down. They aren't worth it!
One guy on here told me he'd be glad to have me as his girlfriend or wife someday.
Weeks later i casually say " i like you lots" and he flips saying that kind of stuff should be said way much later!
Told him he was too uptight for me and that was that! Freakshow this is! I'm glad to say, i'm glad i'm single because men can sometimes be just as
Hey, shine, don't let anyone get you down. They aren't worth it!
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I'm so sorry to hear you a hurting Shine, but try to remember that what i mean't for you won't pass you by......!!!!!! communication is the key, and time. I really hope it works out for you.
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They make a million excuses and are distrusting when you never gave them a reason not to trust you. They speak of marriage and children, leading you on by words and kisses and touches, all of which were either only true for the moment or never real to begin with.
You have your heart broken and your hopes dashed by someone too selfish to care. Then you spend countless nights awake, dissecting every word and syllable and inflection in her speech while sitting on some message board. Thinking about how you tried doing things for them only to have it blown up in your face and left with an email breakup.
You think about nights they've reassured you that you are beautiful and wonderful. And that you are truly worthy of a great person only to later on feel the regret as you sat in the aftermath of your tears, knowing that that night the only companionship you'd have was with a pillow after you hear the phone hang up on you as you are pouring your heart out to them. I don't know if I can really face that pillow so now on to day three with no sleep.