I think you make a good point, Babsie. The distance thing is a killer here. I have strong feelings for a CS lady, but she lives in a different country. I also see other possible "mates" here -- have considerable affection for a number of women here -- but distance once again rears its hideous head.
Without that consideration, I would be highly puzzled by why decent, good-looking guys like Detente and Zel. aren't being showered with offers. And Robert could doubtless charm the snake off a female rattler and sell it back to her for twice the price -- and he's handsome, to boot -- so that is doubly puzzling.
Ah, but such mysteries make life interesting, right?
And Robert could doubtless charm the snake off a female rattler and sell it back to her for twice the price -- and he's handsome, to boot -- so that is doubly puzzling.
Well, when you fall for someone even his grey hair looks wow !! so there is no particular format to follow .. say ok.. he has this .. and this .. and this ..
No !!! Its the entire package .. its the person as a whole you should be charmed by if its a long term plan. Uhh... otherwise the next hunk might just make this guy your ex pretty soon.
That and 10 dollars would buy you half a cup of coffee and Starbucks.
But thanks, Eupho. I realize you haven't been exactly "frantically scrambling" in my direction - mentally or otherwise - but I think I've heard a soft scrabbling coming from you...or maybe a very slow creeping...and to be honest, I find it a tad sinister..
PILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK4,804 posts
Of course appearances are important and we find certain people attractive. However men initially i didn't find attractive, become very attractive once i got to know them and this i think is a longer lasting attraction
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