The attraction dilemma ( Archived) (105)

Nov 28, 2007 11:25 AM CST The attraction dilemma
spiceygamble
spiceygamblespiceygambleNola, Louisiana USA36 Threads 3 Polls 4,493 Posts
Looks are the packaging, the bow & box so to speak.
If you open it up & it's full of vinegar, no amount of frilly paper will make that better.
If the delights inside are compelling, a brown paper sack could be on the outside.

It amazes me how delicate the egos have been around here lately.
I continue to read threads crying of male/female discontent(not totally referring to yours Detentewink).
What strikes me oddly, is if "you"(paraphrasing to the sulky droves) continue to harp on these subjects, how do you expect to attract a partner? It's like a flood of woe, even when it's subtle or hidden behind a general questionnaire thread. it's very simple... to attract one of the opposite gender, we must all present well. Attitudes will get a person further than wit, charm & looks combined.

(NOT a personal attack. NOT meant to upset. Just a little noteworthy mention on what I've been observing lately)

hug
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Nov 28, 2007 11:43 AM CST The attraction dilemma
bluebabsie
bluebabsiebluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK14 Threads 4,836 Posts
wave hi sweetie xxxhug




yes i go for the all round package......





of course looks matter a bit to most people.....but i hat moody guy svery mad cheers
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Nov 28, 2007 11:43 AM CST The attraction dilemma
Leana76
Leana76Leana76Prescott Valley, Arizona USA39 Threads 918 Posts
I can say from personal experience, but I'm more into the personality. I have about 2 times, dated men that were more than 250lbs. (big boys). But they had such a great personality that the dates were just great. They were funny and such and had a good time.

I've dated "pretty boys" too and they are too much on themselves. I didn't like them.

I'm more into the personality. Just because someone is gorgeous doesn't mean their personality is good. Some of those "pretty boys" I had gone out with had a self-centered, uncaring, no chivalry about them...
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Nov 28, 2007 11:45 AM CST The attraction dilemma
gatoraidkitty
gatoraidkittygatoraidkittyCharleston, West Virginia USA13 Threads 467 Posts
as i said "pretty is as pretty does" I used to tell my ex, his looks got him in he door, but his mouth got him booted out it.....rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 28, 2007 11:48 AM CST The attraction dilemma
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
All comments gratefully accepted.

BUT! I feel I must clarify...I had no pic up when I posted this thread...hence the posing of the question...only my personality had been on view.wine
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Nov 28, 2007 11:50 AM CST The attraction dilemma
bluebabsie
bluebabsiebluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK14 Threads 4,836 Posts
hey babe ur lovely



hug wave
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Nov 28, 2007 11:56 AM CST The attraction dilemma
curlywolf
curlywolfcurlywolfmontreal, Quebec Canada402 Threads 7,052 Posts
I agree.
Beauty is truely in the eye of the beholder and is something that fades in time,a good soul and kind heart are forever there.
JMOangel
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Nov 28, 2007 11:56 AM CST The attraction dilemma
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
and.. on the flip side..

I remember once being drawn to a chap I used to bump into often.. he was Chinese and about 300lbs +

He was so sweet and kind and funny. I thought he was very attractive.

dunno
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Nov 28, 2007 11:57 AM CST The attraction dilemma
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Ab-soo- LOOT-ley. thumbs up
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Nov 28, 2007 11:58 AM CST The attraction dilemma
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Yup thumbs up
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Nov 28, 2007 11:58 AM CST The attraction dilemma
curlywolf
curlywolfcurlywolfmontreal, Quebec Canada402 Threads 7,052 Posts
wave
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Nov 28, 2007 11:59 AM CST The attraction dilemma
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
I'm really confused.

You see, there's several good blokes who post on these here forums and who are lookin for a lady friend. Real nice gents...decent, sensitive, intelligent and well mannered.

If what you ladies is sayin' is true (and I ain't doubting is isn't), why aren't they being fought over like crazy???confused
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Nov 28, 2007 12:00 PM CST The attraction dilemma
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
Average appearance (I consider myself pretty average), and a decent income won't get you an empty Starbucks cup here.

Jeepers. I am SO jaded. uh oh
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Nov 28, 2007 12:01 PM CST The attraction dilemma
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
But that's YOUR opinion of them... we all have our own.
Maybe the women aren't thinking the same about the same men YOU are.

If that made sense.. haha
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Nov 28, 2007 12:03 PM CST The attraction dilemma
curlywolf
curlywolfcurlywolfmontreal, Quebec Canada402 Threads 7,052 Posts
Have THEY been contacting the people that interest them?
Wanting to talk to someone and doing it are 2 different things.grin
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Nov 28, 2007 12:05 PM CST The attraction dilemma
Because, in my opinion, everybody likes something different in their partners. We don't all want exactly the same, and there has to be an element of physical attraction too.

I happen to like someone on this site, and he is not what you would think I would go for at all, but he is sweet, funny, caring, and a terrible flirt. I am sure I am not the only lady who thinks so too!

blushing
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Nov 28, 2007 12:05 PM CST The attraction dilemma
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
I know exactly what you mean, Spicey, but still if only all women weren't so demanding, needing, controlling, and punching-baglike, life sure would be easier for us guys, don't you think?innocent devil
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Nov 28, 2007 12:07 PM CST The attraction dilemma
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
haha I bet I know who that is.. laugh
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Nov 28, 2007 12:08 PM CST The attraction dilemma
bluebabsie
bluebabsiebluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK14 Threads 4,836 Posts
hey they all live too far away from me



I agree they are great guys.....but its the distance for me....wave peace
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Nov 28, 2007 12:08 PM CST The attraction dilemma
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Damn, that's disappointing, Euphoria. And here I thought all the women here were frantically scrambling (if perhaps only mentally) over the lovely, sensitive bloke that is me. crying
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