Looks are the packaging, the bow & box so to speak. If you open it up & it's full of vinegar, no amount of frilly paper will make that better. If the delights inside are compelling, a brown paper sack could be on the outside.
It amazes me how delicate the egos have been around here lately. I continue to read threads crying of male/female discontent(not totally referring to yours Detente). What strikes me oddly, is if "you"(paraphrasing to the sulky droves) continue to harp on these subjects, how do you expect to attract a partner? It's like a flood of woe, even when it's subtle or hidden behind a general questionnaire thread. it's very simple... to attract one of the opposite gender, we must all present well. Attitudes will get a person further than wit, charm & looks combined.
(NOT a personal attack. NOT meant to upset. Just a little noteworthy mention on what I've been observing lately)
I can say from personal experience, but I'm more into the personality. I have about 2 times, dated men that were more than 250lbs. (big boys). But they had such a great personality that the dates were just great. They were funny and such and had a good time.
I've dated "pretty boys" too and they are too much on themselves. I didn't like them.
I'm more into the personality. Just because someone is gorgeous doesn't mean their personality is good. Some of those "pretty boys" I had gone out with had a self-centered, uncaring, no chivalry about them...
You see, there's several good blokes who post on these here forums and who are lookin for a lady friend. Real nice gents...decent, sensitive, intelligent and well mannered.
If what you ladies is sayin' is true (and I ain't doubting is isn't), why aren't they being fought over like crazy???
Because, in my opinion, everybody likes something different in their partners. We don't all want exactly the same, and there has to be an element of physical attraction too.
I happen to like someone on this site, and he is not what you would think I would go for at all, but he is sweet, funny, caring, and a terrible flirt. I am sure I am not the only lady who thinks so too!
I know exactly what you mean, Spicey, but still if only all women weren't so demanding, needing, controlling, and punching-baglike, life sure would be easier for us guys, don't you think?
Damn, that's disappointing, Euphoria. And here I thought all the women here were frantically scrambling (if perhaps only mentally) over the lovely, sensitive bloke that is me.
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If you open it up & it's full of vinegar, no amount of frilly paper will make that better.
If the delights inside are compelling, a brown paper sack could be on the outside.
It amazes me how delicate the egos have been around here lately.
I continue to read threads crying of male/female discontent(not totally referring to yours Detente).
What strikes me oddly, is if "you"(paraphrasing to the sulky droves) continue to harp on these subjects, how do you expect to attract a partner? It's like a flood of woe, even when it's subtle or hidden behind a general questionnaire thread. it's very simple... to attract one of the opposite gender, we must all present well. Attitudes will get a person further than wit, charm & looks combined.
(NOT a personal attack. NOT meant to upset. Just a little noteworthy mention on what I've been observing lately)