Privacy ( Archived) (17)

Nov 17, 2007 2:07 PM CST Privacy
Dominatrix
DominatrixDominatrixDomiville, England UK61 Threads 2 Polls 1,065 Posts
how much privacy do you need in your life?

where does it start to annoy you in your relationship, friendship, family life?

where is the border line you set for yourself and others?
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Nov 17, 2007 2:09 PM CST Privacy
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
I am an open book to people I am friends with, or may be interested in.
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Nov 17, 2007 2:22 PM CST Privacy
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
I am a very open and transparent person but I am aware that discretion is the better part of valour. I am open with people because I certainly don't have anything to hide and happy to share, but I am a private person as in "on a need to know basis", if they don't need to know......??

Bloody good thread though, love!! thumbs up cheers
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Nov 17, 2007 2:24 PM CST Privacy
Tiffanie
TiffanieTiffanieNijkerk, Gelderland Netherlands40 Threads 1,324 Posts
With most things I have plenty of privacy, except when sitting behind my computer. Someone whose name I won't mention is always barging in to see what I am up to. It really hacks me off.

I give those around me plenty of space and expect the same in return. I have no other complaints, well that is a lie but something I can't do anything about at the moment.

I might have to start locking the door, but didn't want to go that far but it seems I have no choice.
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Nov 17, 2007 2:30 PM CST Privacy
Dominatrix
DominatrixDominatrixDomiville, England UK61 Threads 2 Polls 1,065 Posts
well in a lot of things i love being private,

for some reason i love every now an then just shutting down completely

yet other times ....... i need to be around ppl
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Nov 17, 2007 2:42 PM CST Privacy
ericthall
ericthallericthallAsheville, USA7 Threads 1,284 Posts
open book her
have no idea what privacy is.. single dad of 2 daughters, i understand what there privacy is... but have not seen any of minerolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 17, 2007 2:45 PM CST Privacy
The_NuttyTart
The_NuttyTartThe_NuttyTartexeter, Devon, England UK2 Threads 127 Posts
it depends what mood i'm in...and my privacy varies depending on the person i'm dealing with...and how close we are

also everyone has their own boundaries too...so i may discuss something with one person but not another because they may not like the convo
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Nov 17, 2007 2:47 PM CST Privacy
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
can't be too much privacy for me. I am a loner...a lonely lonersigh
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Nov 17, 2007 2:48 PM CST Privacy
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
I really don't like someone just stopping by. I don't do it to others and appreciate the same respect.

No one on here's to private. I could write a biography on most. A few might be best sellers. rolling on the floor laughing I include myself in the mix.

laugh
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Nov 17, 2007 3:37 PM CST Privacy
Fellfrosch
FellfroschFellfroschLeipzig, Saxony Germany94 Threads 4 Polls 774 Posts
I need a little bit privacy. I like it to meet ppl, but I need also time to close the door behind me. I think, I´m very open, but a few things in my life are only for me. I think, in a relationship is it good o be open, but every partner need space, to do things alone. Before starting a relationship, everybody was a single with a own life. And it is not good, to give all up.
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Nov 17, 2007 3:43 PM CST Privacy
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
I'm a very private person...I like to have the option of sharing stuff with people when I feel ready.

And I need some time just to myself...just a little...all for me!
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Nov 17, 2007 3:50 PM CST Privacy
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
I am quite a reserved and private person needing time to let people know about me. But more easy going and casual in a general or friendly conversation.

With family and close friends depending on my feelings for them , i can give them all the freedom they need or rather more than that.So its annoying only when i am not secure about them.

Somethings tucked away deep in my heart are just for me ... if someone does make his way that far , i am an open book.
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Nov 17, 2007 4:19 PM CST Privacy
totallytopside
totallytopsidetotallytopsideIronton, Minnesota USA5 Threads 524 Posts
I live in the country surrounded by deep dark forest. I enjoy my privacy, but at times crave to be social. That is what I like about this site, you can just watch or you can participate. But in real life, I spend most of my time with family. They are important, but there is still plenty of time for me and my privacy. I would say it is a fairly even balance.

cheers
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Nov 17, 2007 4:20 PM CST Privacy
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
hello ... wave good to see you around !!
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Nov 17, 2007 4:24 PM CST Privacy
totallytopside
totallytopsidetotallytopsideIronton, Minnesota USA5 Threads 524 Posts
Hey! Quit butting in! I'm looking for a little privacy!

laugh

Good to see you out and about Riya. You're always welcome in my bailiwick!

grin
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Nov 17, 2007 4:26 PM CST Privacy
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
grin
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Nov 17, 2007 4:36 PM CST Privacy
Well,I don't blab my innermost Thoughts and Secrets to anyone in the first five minutes we meet.
I don't usually wear my Heart on my sleeve.
The exception are when I am starting to get comfortable and at ease with someone.
I wish that were more often.
Well,maybe some day........daydream
Unless I run out of frigging time.shock hole
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