NOT ALL WOMEN R LIKE THAT, MOST ARE SATISFIED WITH WHAT THEY HAVE, THEY DONT NEED TO GO AND DO THINGS LIKE THAT. U MUST OF HAD BAD EXPERIENCE IF THATS WHAT U THINK OF US WOMEN....
Here's my point. Most women - naturally - are attracted to good looking men who have money.
If a man is handsome - then he will usually have a lot of potential suitors.
A mate will generally come easily to him because he already has a foot in the door. This will have a tendency to make him overly confident if not arrogant to some extent.
If he can easily acquire mates - he will value them less, because they are NOT at a premium. A king's banquet to a wealth glutton is garbage, but a cracker to a starving man is a feast.
If a man has money - he will have it because of his ambition. Ambition requires a certain measure of aggressiveness. SUCCESSFUL ambition requires a lot of aggressiveness.
Therefore - most women are attracted to the Alpha male, who by nature is surely arrogant, self centered, and aggressive. ALSO - more likely to cheat because of his self centered nature combined with the availability of mates open to him.
Women claim to seek qaulities that would NOT typically be found in the Alpha male, namely sensitivity, generosity, and tenderness. Despite this -They still gravitate towards mates that are as close to the Alpha model as they can obtain - which is practically gauranteed to shatter more than a few pairs of rose coloed glasses.
Then - having repeated failures in these relationships by virtue of their own lack of wisdom in mate selection - these women then make assumptions about the entire male gender by virtue of their own bitterness, and "swear off" marriage, or even long term permanent relationships other than marriage.
These women have failed to see that the qaulities that they seek CAN NOT BE FOUND IN THE TYPE OF MAN THAT THEY ARE TYPICALLY ATTRACTED TO - but are found usually in THE TYPES OF MEN THAT THEY ARE "NOT" ATTRACTED TO!
The perfect man is out there ladies, he's just the homely church going lad in the big coke bottle glasses that you generally either would only think of as a "friend" - or not even think of at all.
We men are not devoid of blame also. We are attracted to the "Alpha female" - whose true nature is also quite ughly and typical of the maccevellian narcissism responsible for ripping relationships asunder by virtue of apathy and unfaithfulness / abandonment. WE TO overlook that nice little ughly lady with a heart of gold to go running after the gorgiously beautiful harlot who on the inside - is a man eatng harpy.
Both genders overlook the good people - because the false light of vanity can be blinding to ignorant eyes.
HOLD IT DUDE! WE MEN ARE ALSO "NASTY" - Because we go after the same types of people who are most likely to stomp on our hearts - BOTH GENDERS ARE AT FAULT!
P.S, I agree with most of the above, too. In fact that is some penetrating insight.
I think there is a huge gulf in the understandings between male and female. But that's just stating the obvious.
Woman as a race need a large talking too, in fact. Men generally pander to all of woman's whiles because to be critical of woman is adverse to our base aims.
But woman as a whole have a lot to answer for, in fact.
For instance, why if I go up and talk to a girl does she role her eyes, when no girl who ever comes up and talkes to me will cause me to roll my eyes as if i am too good for her or something?
Too good for her what - firendship?
Woman have a lot to answer for. Maybe a lot comes from their presupposition of an action to denote a certain kind of man; when it is in fact also the inverse equally if not more so.
We know the male race is on the whole a bunch of bloody idiots who think with their little head instead of their big one . . .
but what about the female race . . . could they be even worse?
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