sounds like a robbie williams song i know .........called supreme
Oh it seemed forever stopped today All the lonely hearts in London Caught a plane and flew away And all the best women are married All the handsome men are gay You feel deprived
The good guys are always taken because once you find one you don't let them go. maybe they are all tied up and someone is keeping them all for themselves.
Wilki, I think you've got a chip on your shoulder, my man.
Naturally every long-term 'single' man thinks he's a good man and then wonders why he is not 'taken' - maybe he needs to start wondering if his idea of a 'good man' is the same as a woman's idea of one.
On the inverse, you sit at a Starbucks and see all the girls your instinct says are good with all the guys a single girl's instinct says are good.
So the naff guys and the naff girls left over get together and naff out - and they're the good ones with all the good qualities, are they? Hmmm . . .
Natural selection - people forget about nature and that humans are animals!
What is 'good' is strong, healthy, rich, genetically prime, virile - practically giving off pheromones.
What is 'bad' instinctively has always been what is weak, unhealthy, carrying bad genetics, sickly . . . singled out for extinction and thus 9 times out 10 ten SINGLE.
Also, my friend, on 'the good guy rap' - happiness equals instinct.
Strong, healthy, intelligent, genetically prime, stand out, unique - constitutes 'good' to the instinct.
Nice, kind, caring, soft and gentle: are feminine qualities men project at woman expecting them to be attracted to - what? Their own good inner qualities?
Woman wants MAN. Man wants WOMAN.
All that other rubbish is moral rubbish contrary to true human nature and nature itself and is designed by the weak to save the weak by making the stronger less appealing to the genetically prime partner.
And to presuppose that someone possessing these qualities - the alpha male - cannot be a good partner and everything a woman dreams of - a good man -
is perhaps YOUR dream. All due respect.
The strong, wealthy, intelligent and rich, rule. And have always been the most attractive. Have always constituted 'good' to the instinct.
How many woman walk down the street with a beggar if they are not beggars themselves? Life is instinct; those who go against instinct for the ‘moral good rap’ go to it to their own folly and against their own instincts. Let them not complain! Indeed it will be called ‘good’ – by the beggars!
But the strong and rich will frown at the beautiful woman with beggar! Just as the beggar frowns in contempt at the rich man with the beautiful woman. At the unfairness of life!
All the rest is fact AFTER the fact. Fact, then, AFTER instinct! Qaulities, then, that are revealed later and are not initial attractions to a woman.
You attempt, then, to attract women on the grounds of secondary attractions because – what – they are greater than what initially attracts a woman? You attract her initially and then you affirm the attraction – you validate it – with the secondary attractions.
What many single men seem to lament is the fact that hot woman are not with average guys. And would then come up with a phoney rap that says if a woman really wants a good man she should seek the average man!
Hah! How noble . . . how noble of the average man! He must truly be ‘the good man’ that woman is looking for!
There is no good man; good is subjective – it’s a matter of subjective (personal) opinion.
But instinct, instinct is the objective (impersonal) truth.
No! To think like this is not only to be subjectively bias but to prejudge a person or people without prior investigation on the grounds of one’s own physical endowment (or lack thereof) and I look down on the utter subjectivity of this bias opinion.
I see a beautiful girl and she is stunning and beautiful, and I want her because she is stunning and beautiful, and I will NOT presuppose that because she is stunning and beautiful – indeed an ‘alpha female’ – it means she will be shallow or hollow or have no character or personality and is by her true nature ‘ugly’ inside. A gorgeously beautiful . . . ‘harlot’? A harlot by implication of what – being gorgeously beautiful? I am repulsed by this! Sickened! Come on! What utter stereotyping trite! Sounds like a rejects rap on beauty to justify his rejection by it and its supposed worthlessness. THAT is the justification of the genetically inferior man who has already condemned himself, has no self-confidence left and has a load of excuses to try to win precisely such a woman on the grounds that if such a woman will seek an alpha male (as her instinct is inclined to) it will be a disaster but if she seeks him – in his big coke-bottle glasses and with his church-dogmatised mind - she will find what she is looking for in a relationship. A true individual! I wear glasses myself, by the way. And I have been rejected plenty. I am being objective here.
If I want a ‘good’ woman I should go for the girl in the corner with the braces, the big nose, the poor-posture and the flat chest. I should go AGAINST my instincts? Because she will be ‘a nice’ person – but a beautiful person will not – because she’s beautiful and stunningly so? And that will make her by association of physical beauty ‘a bad person’. ‘ugly’ a ‘harlot’. And these are – what? Warning signs of the lack of inherent good qualities to what, Wilkis . . . ‘THE INSTINCT’?
Ha-ha. That outlook is almost tantamount to nihilism to a free thinking mind and a life-affirming spirit. To de-evolution! I live in affirmation of the laws of nature and I find myself pleasantly unsurprised by the way the world works and how to operate in it to attain success and happiness in so far as I can, according to my own strengths and weaknesses, attain them.
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Read some Nietszche