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D. Let's talk about it.
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If you're still in love with them, maybe think about giving it a go?
Other than that, I'd move on personally...just stay as friends.
Other than that, I'd move on personally...just stay as friends.
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Well first it depends on what he did to you..but i do think everyone deserves a second chance
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I don't know. I guess I would have to see, if it ever happened, what my reaction would be. She was the greatest thing ever to walk into or out of my life, but the "out of" part was so devastating that I just don't think I would set myself up to go through that again. But I might, I really just don't know.
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My ex? Definately Screw u
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TIME !!!!!!!!
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considerate a possible computer glitch
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Sorry guys...I am going to whine and cry some.
I just went back and read alot of posts I made 8 months ago when I was on here with my last girlfriend. I am crying like a baby now. I miss her so much, and if she wanted to get back together, I would be totally lost on what to do.
The incredible times we had on CS and in person are so special. She was the one for me, and I just can't get over that we broke up a month ago.
I even noticed I was more glib back then. Now I am so depressed, half the forums here go over my head. I know, how can tickle the butt of the one above you, be over my head? Well it is because I have an empty heart which matches my empty head now.
I just miss Suzy so much!! To answer the thread question is impossible for me now.
Ken
I just went back and read alot of posts I made 8 months ago when I was on here with my last girlfriend. I am crying like a baby now. I miss her so much, and if she wanted to get back together, I would be totally lost on what to do.
The incredible times we had on CS and in person are so special. She was the one for me, and I just can't get over that we broke up a month ago.
I even noticed I was more glib back then. Now I am so depressed, half the forums here go over my head. I know, how can tickle the butt of the one above you, be over my head? Well it is because I have an empty heart which matches my empty head now.
I just miss Suzy so much!! To answer the thread question is impossible for me now.
Ken
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Im sorry
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have to agree with the prettylady once again...
It depends on the person and the events that lead to the first ending...it also depends on whos willing to change andwhos willing to forgive and whether or not the person has truely changed...
Im a pretty forgiving person...
It depends on the person and the events that lead to the first ending...it also depends on whos willing to change andwhos willing to forgive and whether or not the person has truely changed...
Im a pretty forgiving person...
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Depends on the circumstances and if you have ever given this person a second chance before.
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i use to be more of B and have stayed friends with one of my exes. but now i am more for a cause to many have played with me and broken my heart. i no longer believe in giving a second chance.
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Hi sweetie...
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Hi cutie
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yes i agree...
also have to say from experience when you love them soooo much and they have your heart you will most likely give more than a second chance...
Until they destroy you over and over until you cannot go any further...
If let to get by once it will happen again... sometimes more sneaky...
in my case it was purposefully unhidden to me...
Just being friends... Thats a big one ... how could you really be friends with someone who apparently has no respect for you or your feelings.
take the pain now and suffer through it... if you give in to it you will only repeat it over and over with the one who would defile you in the beginning.
JMO
also have to say from experience when you love them soooo much and they have your heart you will most likely give more than a second chance...
Until they destroy you over and over until you cannot go any further...
If let to get by once it will happen again... sometimes more sneaky...
in my case it was purposefully unhidden to me...
Just being friends... Thats a big one ... how could you really be friends with someone who apparently has no respect for you or your feelings.
take the pain now and suffer through it... if you give in to it you will only repeat it over and over with the one who would defile you in the beginning.
JMO
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Okay so I have experienced this one recently. My answer wasn't in the multiple choice answers available. Here's what happened.
About 2 months ago my ex (been apart for 1 year) told me he wanted to try to work on things because he realized that he made "the biggest mistake of his life" when he walked out on me because I was "the greatest thing that ever happened to him" and "the best friend he ever had." Ok so maybe he did make a mistake, and maybe I was the best friend he could have ever had, but I made sure he knew I wasn't the greatest thing that ever happened to him, that would be his son (not my child).
I told him that I had taken the time to work out my pain and couldn't work things out on him because despite me being his best friend, he didn't know how to be a friend at all. I told him that if he wanted me in his life at all he would need to learn how to be a friend, but thats all I could give him.
Nevertheless, he still hasn't learned how to be a friend, or made any attempt, so we don't talk anymore.
About 2 months ago my ex (been apart for 1 year) told me he wanted to try to work on things because he realized that he made "the biggest mistake of his life" when he walked out on me because I was "the greatest thing that ever happened to him" and "the best friend he ever had." Ok so maybe he did make a mistake, and maybe I was the best friend he could have ever had, but I made sure he knew I wasn't the greatest thing that ever happened to him, that would be his son (not my child).
I told him that I had taken the time to work out my pain and couldn't work things out on him because despite me being his best friend, he didn't know how to be a friend at all. I told him that if he wanted me in his life at all he would need to learn how to be a friend, but thats all I could give him.
Nevertheless, he still hasn't learned how to be a friend, or made any attempt, so we don't talk anymore.
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Yes I have been there and it is miserable. I have been through it recently and there are days you just don't feel like getting out of bed. It does depend on how much he meant to you and how long you were together. If I had the chance I'd take the chance. Everyone makes mistakes sometimes in their life, and if they learn from them then maybe it's worth a chance, but realize that if it doesn't work this time you just have to work through the pain and go on with your life. I know it really sucks.
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I'm sorry Ken. If I were there I'd give you a big hug. Try not to spend all your time alone. Surround yourself with friends. I've just been through it too so I know how bad it can hurt. Also, don't torture yourself by going over things you did together, or not looking at things that constantly remind you of those good times. I know it's hard, but it helps.
Good luck and hugs and kisses.
Good luck and hugs and kisses.
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i have...i'm sure evry1 here too...
how do you over come a broken one? especially when u hurt really bad...what happend if that some1 wich boroken ur heart sooooo bad want to come back waht would u say....
would u say:
a. srew u
b. lets just be friends
c. i'll take the chance