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Dec 7, 2007 2:57 PM CST what is a real man
howboutu
howboutuhowboutuDecatur, Alabama USA3 Threads 796 Posts
A real man is not defined by words but his actions.

A real man does'nt lie , cheat or steal. Beause even if no one else knows, he will.

A real man is confident but will listen to the advice of others before making decisions.

A real man treats others with respect and from his actions is respected by others.

A real man is not bound by contratual agreement, he is bound by his word.

A real man will come to the aid of others in need,and will have an army of friends and loved ones behind him willing to help if needed.

A real man takes care of his family and loved ones, it is not a burden to him but a blessing.

A real man will show unconditional love towards his children, but he knows that with that love comes the responsibility of decipline.

A real man will stand for what is right,because from within him comes a sence of what is fair and just.

A real man will provide for his spouse and make her feel like she is the most important thing on this earth, because his heart will not allow him to do otherwise.
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Dec 7, 2007 3:02 PM CST what is a real man
hug comfort hug
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Dec 7, 2007 3:02 PM CST what is a real man
howboutu
howboutuhowboutuDecatur, Alabama USA3 Threads 796 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing


One of these days I am going to buy a combine...you know just for dateslaugh

Those things seem to be chick magnets.

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 7, 2007 3:03 PM CST what is a real man
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
No clue, what you see is what you get smile
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Dec 7, 2007 3:04 PM CST what is a real man
howboutu
howboutuhowboutuDecatur, Alabama USA3 Threads 796 Posts
Oh and thanks doh

Was too busy cracking up over the combine thing.laugh
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Dec 7, 2007 3:46 PM CST what is a real man
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
A real man to ME.....

He is fairly confident (though not TOO confident, I don't do arrogant, and my raison d'etre is certainly not to stroke egos!). He MUST have a brain, no single-celled amoeba for me, thanks). He must be strong enough to make decisions, even tough ones, but bright enough to realise that "masculine" and "macho" don't necessarily equate, and doesn't translate "assertiveness" in a woman as "aggressive" .

He must have a softer, more sensitive side and not be afraid to show it. He would be a gentleman and, above all else, the key word here is.......... respect!
smitten

cheers
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Dec 7, 2007 4:19 PM CST what is a real man
pearl777
pearl777pearl777Plovdiv, Bulgaria242 Threads 33 Polls 4,812 Posts
A real man - Robbie thumbs up
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Dec 7, 2007 4:20 PM CST what is a real man
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
I've heard a description of what a "real man" is , but I don't think I'd ever post it here...blushing


Using that description, I'll confess I'd never be a real man. frustrated
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Dec 7, 2007 4:27 PM CST what is a real man
RobbieM
RobbieMRobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK115 Threads 6 Polls 4,553 Posts
Bless you dear, i'll just rush out and wrestle a bear for you!

cheers
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Dec 7, 2007 4:30 PM CST what is a real man
pearl777
pearl777pearl777Plovdiv, Bulgaria242 Threads 33 Polls 4,812 Posts
I don't play the hypocrite, you're one of the most real and sensible here and therelaugh cheers
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Dec 7, 2007 4:34 PM CST what is a real man
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
A guy who shows up in my driveway rolling on the floor laughing



















I know...I'm just feeling silly tonight laugh
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Dec 7, 2007 4:34 PM CST what is a real man
RobbieM
RobbieMRobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK115 Threads 6 Polls 4,553 Posts
I'm just harmless!! What is commonly called "a pillock"

I'm real though, a real pillock!!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 7, 2007 4:34 PM CST what is a real man
bluebabsie
bluebabsiebluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK14 Threads 4,836 Posts
you are a real




man xxxhug
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Dec 7, 2007 4:35 PM CST what is a real man
bluebabsie
bluebabsiebluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK14 Threads 4,836 Posts
u can be silly babe]



its good fun grin laugh hug
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Dec 7, 2007 4:36 PM CST what is a real man
pearl777
pearl777pearl777Plovdiv, Bulgaria242 Threads 33 Polls 4,812 Posts
What pillock means?confusedlaugh
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Dec 7, 2007 4:38 PM CST what is a real man
bluebabsie
bluebabsiebluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK14 Threads 4,836 Posts
like an idiot or fool



but robbie aint.....no way hes a hunni xcheers
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Dec 8, 2007 12:46 AM CST what is a real man
omkeerpunt
omkeerpuntomkeerpuntBenoni, Gauteng South Africa1 Threads 268 Posts
Defnitely talking of two different guys here.
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Dec 8, 2007 2:48 AM CST what is a real man
spiceygamble
spiceygamblespiceygambleNola, Louisiana USA36 Threads 3 Polls 4,493 Posts
A real man listens.
He tries to help out my male friends.
He watches out for me & know I will be doing the same.
He knows I don't need frilly things but is still good at surprising me with goodies.
He makes me smile, especially when I really need it.
A real man is willing to be patient.
A real man can still be kind to strangers, even when they ask the dumbest questions.
He is not afraid of being affectionate, intimate, or adoring.
He is strong enough to be gentle, honest & trustworthy... even around his friends.

(thanks Alex, for being a real man)
:)
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Dec 8, 2007 4:40 AM CST what is a real man
a_l_e_x
a_l_e_xa_l_e_xlondon, Greater London, England UK62 Threads 1,813 Posts
anytime
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Dec 8, 2007 7:40 AM CST what is a real man
dreamer_too
dreamer_toodreamer_tooTransplanted to, North Carolina USA4 Threads 208 Posts
Now I know why I venture into these forums from time to time. Everyone here just restored my faith in humankindness. This was a topic at another site I belong to, and it became an all out verbal war on the definition of Real Men and Real Women. This obviously can be such a contraversial topic and here it was handled with kindness that shows how unique everyone is.

People are funny but life does have it's twists & turns. About the time you think you know what you want, life will show up and present just the opposite and it turns out alright. Just remember, opposites often attrack. Does that mean as much as I hate arrogance that I will end up being totally attracked to someone who is obnoxiously arrogant? I guess I will just have to see what life has in future plans for me.
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