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Dec 19, 2007 12:51 PM CST Three of the most difficult questions EVER
Jaxson78
Jaxson78Jaxson78San Marcos, Texas USA4 Threads 1 Polls 36 Posts
1. The first is the concept of love at first sight. Do you think its possible? Please explain.

2. The second deals with soul mates. Do you believe that such thing exists in which two people who are meant to be together? Your opinions are welcome.

3. Is it better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all? Think about it.

Answer all one, it's up to you. No wait, I changed my mind, answer all or your computer will self destruct in 10 seconds.
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Dec 19, 2007 12:56 PM CST Three of the most difficult questions EVER
curlywolf
curlywolfcurlywolfmontreal, Quebec Canada402 Threads 7,052 Posts
laugh

Yes I believe in love at first sight or conversation,but it's a rare thing.

Soul mate is a phrase that has become easy to throw around but hard to stand by......soul mates don't cheat,lie or betray each otherlaugh
I do believe that some people are 'meant ' to be together,if it lasts forever all the better.

As for loving and losing,it depends on the relationship,the good ones leave us with fond memories and lessons learned,the bad ones,sometimes with scars and lessons learned.Both help us become who we are.


JMOwave
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Dec 19, 2007 1:00 PM CST Three of the most difficult questions EVER
lenababi
lenababilenababiSanta Barbara, California USA216 Threads 14 Polls 1,746 Posts
1. I don't know about love at first site but i believe you can see someone and right off the bat have off the chart chemistry, but falling in love at first site doubtful.

2. I don't believe that there is only one person out there for you, if that was the case everyone would be miserable. I believe that there is many people out there that you could connect with whether it be male or female.

3. I would say i'd rather not find love at all rather than loose it.
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Dec 19, 2007 1:03 PM CST Three of the most difficult questions EVER
bubbles69
bubbles69bubbles69Inverness, Highland, Scotland UK17 Threads 1 Polls 1,984 Posts
YES.

YES.

YES.
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Dec 19, 2007 1:07 PM CST Three of the most difficult questions EVER
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
confused

I do not believe your answer Bubbles...this would entail either a seismic shift in your hard heartedness, or too much champers being sipped!laugh
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Dec 19, 2007 1:10 PM CST Three of the most difficult questions EVER
sharina
sharinasharinadublin, Dublin Ireland38 Threads 2 Polls 3,166 Posts
1. i dont know about love at first sight.. how can you love someone you dont know??? now lust at 1st sight yes deffinately.. there you can get to know someone and let it develop or not.

2.soul mates... i do think there is someone out there for every one, wether its your soul mate i duuno! but if you find someone who you connect with in every aspect of your life, try to hold onto them.

3.no way.. i have loved and lost and i would never ever want to feel that pain again, i would have rather that i never met him. the physical pain is too much to bear....
hug
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Dec 19, 2007 1:10 PM CST Three of the most difficult questions EVER
lovebandit
lovebanditlovebanditsomewhere, USA1 Threads 171 Posts
oh no. bubbles always means what she says.laugh roll eyes
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Dec 19, 2007 1:15 PM CST Three of the most difficult questions EVER
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
(1.) Always lust at first sight.

(2.) Soulmates? No.
Meant to be together? As what??? There are many types of "togetherness".

(3.) I always vote for love cheering
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Dec 19, 2007 1:19 PM CST Three of the most difficult questions EVER
1. yeh i'm sure its happened, not to often however. it takes more work for me to fall in love with someone...but the thought of love at first sight is always nice.

2. soul mates, my opinion tends to change on this. maybe everyone has a soul mate, i just dont think they always are able to find them. i think can fall in love and have a successful relationship, without it being a soul mate.

3. "smile cause it happens, dont cry cause its over" .. so yeh i think its better to love and lost then to have never loved at all. everyone should have the experience of truely loving someone and being loved...even if its just once in a life time
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Dec 19, 2007 1:19 PM CST Three of the most difficult questions EVER
bubbles69
bubbles69bubbles69Inverness, Highland, Scotland UK17 Threads 1 Polls 1,984 Posts
My answers were honest. Though I will admit to one or two glasses of bubbly today.angel drinking
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Dec 19, 2007 1:21 PM CST Three of the most difficult questions EVER
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
Then I was right about you all along...dancing
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Dec 19, 2007 1:32 PM CST Three of the most difficult questions EVER
bubbles69
bubbles69bubbles69Inverness, Highland, Scotland UK17 Threads 1 Polls 1,984 Posts
I think you were quite wrong, but I have my street cred to consider. So please continue to think Im as hard as nails.

rolling on the floor laughing tongue rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 19, 2007 1:34 PM CST Three of the most difficult questions EVER
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
Love
.. at first sight... possible precognition (spiritual knowing) and most likely its lust at first sight without anyprecognition but doubtful overall on the love part.

Soulmates
Not sure they should be labelled that way but its just a word so assuming its acceptable ... and knowing (after the fact) it happened, which is the only time you would know the two are soulmates ,then how could I argue that is was not meant to be. It was, factual.

#3 .. with that all the way and back again

grin
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Dec 19, 2007 1:35 PM CST Three of the most difficult questions EVER
EsquireX
EsquireXEsquireXBellingham, Washington USA3 Threads 137 Posts
1 and 2. I do believe in love at first sight even though it's never happened to me. I feel it's one of those very rare things like finding a soulmate or even true love.

3. I'm a bit divided over. Because I had love, I know how good a relationship can be and it gives me something to shoot for. Not having that love, I would be a lot less interested in considering marriage, children and sharing life. I hate to admit it but I even think the love you lost could very well have been your soulmate.sigh
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Dec 19, 2007 1:37 PM CST Three of the most difficult questions EVER
yoursuperman
yoursupermanyoursupermanLynchburg, Virginia USA34 Threads 3 Polls 838 Posts
you go girl awesome answers!!!!!!!
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Dec 19, 2007 1:42 PM CST Three of the most difficult questions EVER
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
yes to all... I wouldn't have thought it was possible but for the fact that I experienced it.. I would have qualify 'love at first sight' tho to 'begin falling in love at first sight'.... and always believe that its better to have loved and lost etc.... because even though being in love can be hell... its a kinda bitter sweet.... and its kinda soul enriching to experience that level of caring for a person
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Dec 19, 2007 1:44 PM CST Three of the most difficult questions EVER
Oslojente
OslojenteOslojenteOlso, Oslo Norway142 Threads 1 Polls 4,992 Posts
No
No
Yes...
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Dec 19, 2007 1:45 PM CST Three of the most difficult questions EVER
foreveryoung1
foreveryoung1foreveryoung1cartagena, Murcia Spain2 Threads 1 Polls 2,984 Posts
1. yes

2. yes

3. yes

santa waving
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Dec 19, 2007 3:07 PM CST Three of the most difficult questions EVER
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
1) I do think that "love at first sight" is not impossible but is something that's easily confused with "lust at first sight".
So, it only truly happens rarely.

2) I do believe such thing as soulmates or kindred spirits exist.
Soulmates can sense and feel things when apart.
Also, if they are together they can communicate without words. If they're apart for too long they start pining for each other.

The big drawback about soulmates is because you know each other so well boredom can set in. So. I'm not sure that just because they are soulmates that it means they are meant to be together and will be compatible for the rest of their lives...

3) Yes, it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all... reindeer

cold
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Dec 19, 2007 3:24 PM CST Three of the most difficult questions EVER
Zeloniy
ZeloniyZeloniyRichmond, Virginia USA51 Threads 1 Polls 1,863 Posts
That was my answer blues
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