why do people judge? (128)
littleangel75Dudley, West Midlands, England UK1 Threads 35 Postslooks attract yes but why judge someone when they could be a total sleeze bag underneath?
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I dont understand why this is bothering you so much. Why do you care so much what ppl think of you????
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I enjoy looking at eye candy. But looks don't mean much,if they have no personality.
I also agree, the older one gets the less and less looks matter at all.
Money either, I could not care less how one has in their wallet, if there is a 200lb crab attached to one end.
I also agree, the older one gets the less and less looks matter at all.
Money either, I could not care less how one has in their wallet, if there is a 200lb crab attached to one end.
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because a few people on here seem to only go for looks and not personality and i'm sorta self concious about my looks which aren't that nice by the way
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I agree, I'm sorry you're feeling down, but I think you've had all the responses and opinions you're going to get and you're starting to sound a bit desperate now. That too isn't very attractive.
Sorry I don't mean to hurt your feelings, just another woman's point of view.
Sorry I don't mean to hurt your feelings, just another woman's point of view.
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i aint deperate hun just self concious but not had many guys respond to this
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first most guys prolly wont post on it..their dont want to be singled out like that. If I was you, I would try and get more pics of yourself on here. Cuz the ones you have arent great quality and its hard see you very well. Your profile reads very well tho.
Second...confidence comes within, you have to become self-confident in who you are...it will show up in your pictures. If you dont think your beautiful how can anyone else. You dont have to look like a "!0" to be a 10.
Third, come on guys are guys. You seem to be putting in as much thought into looks as your asking them not too.
JMO
Second...confidence comes within, you have to become self-confident in who you are...it will show up in your pictures. If you dont think your beautiful how can anyone else. You dont have to look like a "!0" to be a 10.
Third, come on guys are guys. You seem to be putting in as much thought into looks as your asking them not too.
JMO
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cuss typos
You dont have to look like a "10" to be a 10...sorry
You dont have to look like a "10" to be a 10...sorry
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I have to agree with that, WhiteAsh.
I also have to say that the most attractive women never really attracted me. I have seen average looking women who have something extra in their personality who wholeheartedly exceed the attractiveness of a physically beautiful woman.
I myself look and dress the way I do as a shield, so to speak. For those whom do not want to get past my physical appearance and into my mind and soul, are not worth talking to.
I also have to say that the most attractive women never really attracted me. I have seen average looking women who have something extra in their personality who wholeheartedly exceed the attractiveness of a physically beautiful woman.
I myself look and dress the way I do as a shield, so to speak. For those whom do not want to get past my physical appearance and into my mind and soul, are not worth talking to.
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I hear ya on the shield part. The uglier one can make themselves the better.
I some times think we would all be better if blind, but I suppose there will always be a way to judge others without taking the time to find out who they really are.
I some times think we would all be better if blind, but I suppose there will always be a way to judge others without taking the time to find out who they really are.
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In my experience personalities can definitely grow old! In fact, mine's growing more cranky by the moment. 
Welcome, LA!
Welcome, LA!
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my pic i have on my files are ok til i try and put them anywhere eg on here because since i got vista my pic quality has gone down hill goodness knows why. finally we get a guy appearing on here and thanks for your feedback. Onlypics i have are with my daughter so douby guys would want to see those
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I don't think it's a matter of "judging." It's simply finding someone initially more appealing. I find many things to attract or repel me in a profile besides the photos - but they're generally one of the first things I look at.
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Sure. What fun would having them be if they weren't?
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Definitely!
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You hit the nail on the head. Fortunately, we do judge, but maybe we don't use good judgment???
I guess the challenge would be when voting for a president, if you couldn't use your judgement to assess their appearance, candor, opinions, etc...then what would you use? I think the same applies to other situations. We all judge. Of course, maybe some of us are shallow too to appreciate the true quality of a person.
I guess the challenge would be when voting for a president, if you couldn't use your judgement to assess their appearance, candor, opinions, etc...then what would you use? I think the same applies to other situations. We all judge. Of course, maybe some of us are shallow too to appreciate the true quality of a person.
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