why do people judge? ( Archived) (128)

Dec 21, 2007 6:17 AM CST why do people judge?
littleangel75
littleangel75littleangel75Dudley, West Midlands, England UK1 Threads 35 Posts
Hi i'd like to know why people judge others by their looks, doesn't personality come first? i know i'm not that nice looking but as long as i get peoples votes and i can chat to nice honest and trusting people then that's ok. Judging people by their looks is silly because they could have a bad personality so i think looks can be decieving, as i say don't judge a book by it's cover. anyone got an opnion then feel free to message me
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Dec 21, 2007 6:19 AM CST why do people judge?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Looks everntually fade....personality lasts a lifetime!!!!!!!

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Dec 21, 2007 6:21 AM CST why do people judge?
littleangel75
littleangel75littleangel75Dudley, West Midlands, England UK1 Threads 35 Posts
true looks grow old personalities don't
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Dec 21, 2007 6:24 AM CST why do people judge?
FlowerOfTheSnow
FlowerOfTheSnowFlowerOfTheSnowMalaga, Andalusia Spain23 Threads 2,212 Posts
Agree with you about looks fading, however personnality sometimes also "fades" and some people turn into "bitter grumpy old sods" as they grow older uh oh grin

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Dec 21, 2007 6:34 AM CST why do people judge?
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
Well, in that case, we are all doomed rolling on the floor laughing



In reply to the OP...

Yes, on here looks count,,,and youth counts.

But who cares what people think.

If you are happy and proud of yourself, THAT is what counts applause
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Dec 21, 2007 6:36 AM CST why do people judge?
littleangel75
littleangel75littleangel75Dudley, West Midlands, England UK1 Threads 35 Posts
that's true we all have our downfalls but hey like you said if you're proud of who you are then sod everyone else, some guys go for looks and some go for personality
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Dec 21, 2007 6:37 AM CST why do people judge?
Scottishlass
ScottishlassScottishlassKnoxville, Tennessee USA491 Threads 23 Polls 3,324 Posts
first of all, we really do not have the right to judge others, only GOD does.
if a person judges others based on looks then that person is not worth knowing, people like that are usually shallow & vain & have no consideration for others. i like to tell people like that "if you don't like the way i look, then don't look at me"
inner beauty is more important than outer beauty.

santa waving
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Dec 21, 2007 6:39 AM CST why do people judge?
shyatfirst
shyatfirstshyatfirstcobourg, Ontario Canada22 Threads 1,462 Posts
I think the reason why people judge is because their own insecuritys or because they have too much time on their hands!

As long as you feel good about who you are! That is what matters.....
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Dec 21, 2007 6:41 AM CST why do people judge?
littleangel75
littleangel75littleangel75Dudley, West Midlands, England UK1 Threads 35 Posts
yes beauty comes from within, it's like all this wearing make up i don't see the point because it don't show the true person underneath that's why i won't wear the stuff
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Dec 21, 2007 6:43 AM CST why do people judge?
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
This is true.

But not just here on CS, we live in a world where appearance seems to be more important than anything else unfortunately.

I blame the advertising media!


santa waving
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Dec 21, 2007 6:44 AM CST why do people judge?
littleangel75
littleangel75littleangel75Dudley, West Midlands, England UK1 Threads 35 Posts
i can't see why people go for looks though i think it's ridiculous and i don't really agree with the pics voting on here it can hurt someones feelings if rated low and if they are sensitive it can hurt more
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Dec 21, 2007 6:48 AM CST why do people judge?
EastbayRay
EastbayRayEastbayRayLimassol, Cyprus10 Threads 1 Polls 781 Posts
I would refer you to a study of 'Physiognomy' - and it will explain everything.
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Dec 21, 2007 6:56 AM CST why do people judge?
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
Initially we r visual creatures... what else do we have to go on? if we haven't spoken to the person yet.. but it is definitely and ultimately a persons personality and their spirit that makes u fall for them... also beauty is in the eye of the beholder.. i have never gone out with a traditionally good looking guy and I have certainly never fallin in love with one..

And littleangel... who says ur not good lookin ?.. I'll bet u get a lot of looks without realising it hug

cheers santa waving santa
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Dec 21, 2007 8:01 AM CST why do people judge?
Dusty45
Dusty45Dusty45Louisville, Kentucky USA54 Threads 2,642 Posts
A good exercise:

Try going a hour without expressing any judgementalism in any form.

Try it.

Happy Holidaysgift
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Dec 21, 2007 8:01 AM CST why do people judge?
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
heck look at my picture... blank expression, strong masculine chin, cool hair, mainstream features ... I think the opposite is true because I look marvelous, yet people tell me its not enough rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 21, 2007 8:04 AM CST why do people judge?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
ANd some of us change into "Old Buzzards" looking for Young Chicks..rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing


devil



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Dec 21, 2007 8:58 AM CST why do people judge?
foreveryoung1
foreveryoung1foreveryoung1cartagena, Murcia Spain2 Threads 1 Polls 2,984 Posts
but I have the true portrait

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Dec 21, 2007 9:03 AM CST why do people judge?
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
Grumpy old buzzards!

rolling on the floor laughing

hug
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Dec 21, 2007 9:04 AM CST why do people judge?
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
yes and your amazing sense of honour will keep it that way yes uh oh
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Dec 21, 2007 9:05 AM CST why do people judge?
foreveryoung1
foreveryoung1foreveryoung1cartagena, Murcia Spain2 Threads 1 Polls 2,984 Posts
blackmail here, whats its worth??????reindeer
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