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Dec 22, 2007 1:35 AM CST ? for the ladies:
HuskyRomantic
HuskyRomanticHuskyRomanticSalt Lake City, Utah USA36 Threads 367 Posts
If a guy you worked with flirted with you but never asked you out would things become awkward if he never asked you out? And how long would it be until you got frustrated and gave up?
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Dec 22, 2007 1:41 AM CST ? for the ladies:
flirting is so much more fun..
wouldnt ever feel awkward...
dont think i would get flustrated
would never start so wouldnt have to give up, i wouldnt want to date someone from work...cuz then it would be awkward.
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Dec 22, 2007 1:44 AM CST ? for the ladies:
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
No, it wouldn't be awkward, I don't get embarrassed easily.

"And how long would it be until you got frustrated and gave up?"

Not long!!!

I have no time for men with no back-bone....!! I am too long in the tooth to waste valuable time pining after someone who simply can't get his act together......... I'd move on!!

santa waving
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Dec 22, 2007 10:46 AM CST ? for the ladies:
HuskyRomantic
HuskyRomanticHuskyRomanticSalt Lake City, Utah USA36 Threads 367 Posts
Interesting. But what if it was just idle flirting?
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Dec 22, 2007 12:29 PM CST ? for the ladies:
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA57 Threads 8 Polls 7,227 Posts
been there, done that, it lasted as long as the job did. Made time go by and it was fun! I don't think either of us really wanted to go out with each other. The attraction was strong-why wreck a good thingwink
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Dec 22, 2007 12:41 PM CST ? for the ladies:
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
I would prefer he never asks; don't mix business with pleasure.
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Dec 22, 2007 12:44 PM CST ? for the ladies:
Poppa2Divas
Poppa2DivasPoppa2DivasIn The Mountains, USA4 Threads 242 Posts
DON'T ever make your honey where you make your money...
very wise words, i have seen many failures that turned into unemployeement.

I would say in the work place... Unless you are the owner... keep it fun and light but no relations beyond friendships.handshake cheers
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Dec 22, 2007 2:55 PM CST ? for the ladies:
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
this happened to me... when I was a student I had a part-time job and got on really with the boss... there was flirting going on for ages and one night we ended up talking right through the nite until 7am in the morning.. and he still didn't ask me out.. I ended up asking him out, cause I knew nothing would happen otherwise smile.. it worked out in the end though as we were together for 6 years smile wink
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Dec 22, 2007 2:56 PM CST ? for the ladies:
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
I would just flirt back and keepit easy. No date necessary. But, as I've confessed in another thread, I'm a shameless flirt.

batting
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Dec 22, 2007 2:57 PM CST ? for the ladies:
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
The workplace is a lot like CS sometimes, lots of flirting but no real action!
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Dec 22, 2007 3:29 PM CST ? for the ladies:
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
About 5 of the guys at work flirt with me but they never ask me out
because they are married or living with their girlfriends and no there's no awkwardness involved.. ..

snowman
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Jan 10, 2008 2:35 PM CST ? for the ladies:
LindaC
LindaCLindaCPuyallup, Washington USA1 Posts
It really depends upon your relationship with this person. A lot of time, guys flirt but girls will think of this as being a friend. So, if you have a fun, outgoing relationship she may just think you are her friend and think nothing else about it. If you want to try to be more than friends but not make it awkward, invite her to a group outing when you are going somewhere with a group of friends. If she is interested, you will find out that night.
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Jan 15, 2008 12:03 PM CST ? for the ladies:
st712
st712st712Cheshire, UK149 Posts
I have no time for men with no back-bone....!! I am too long in the tooth to waste valuable time pining after someone who simply can't get his act together......... I'd move on!!




...I have the same opinion of women
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