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Dec 23, 2007 6:34 AM CST what do you do
all_woman
all_womanall_womandouglas, England UK9 Threads 85 Posts
when somebody is trying to take someone away from yousanta waving christmas sad
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Dec 23, 2007 6:36 AM CST what do you do
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
Be yourself.. .. if he/she still goes elsewhere.. then they weren't even worth your time. (IMO)
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Dec 23, 2007 6:37 AM CST what do you do
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
I wouldn't WANT to be with someone that didn't want to be with ME.

if they were leaning elsewhere.. then they go bloody well GO.
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Dec 23, 2007 6:37 AM CST what do you do
FlowerOfTheSnow
FlowerOfTheSnowFlowerOfTheSnowMalaga, Andalusia Spain23 Threads 2,212 Posts
Depends who the someone is ... If you're taling abouta guy ... confused Don't think a guy can be "taken away" unless "he wants to let it happen". sigh
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Dec 23, 2007 6:38 AM CST what do you do
Sorry, but I agree with what Eupho said.

If you love them let them go
If they come back they were yours
If they don't they were never meant to be.

hug
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Dec 23, 2007 6:38 AM CST what do you do
Eupho
EuphoEuphoWild Wild South West, England UK49 Threads 12 Polls 6,581 Posts
yeah that's how I see it flower.
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Dec 23, 2007 6:39 AM CST what do you do
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
that would depend on if the person is really "with" you in the first place...


make sure that you are not being played by someone...it is very easy for someone to do on here...
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Dec 23, 2007 6:39 AM CST what do you do
FlowerOfTheSnow
FlowerOfTheSnowFlowerOfTheSnowMalaga, Andalusia Spain23 Threads 2,212 Posts
Sorry apologies by guy read "significant other" male or female
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Dec 23, 2007 6:42 AM CST what do you do
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
personally, I would contact the person that you think is making the attempt to take your S.O. away...could just be a misunderstanding...dunno
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Dec 23, 2007 6:43 AM CST what do you do
all_woman
all_womanall_womandouglas, England UK9 Threads 85 Posts
it is a guy , he made so many plans with me and says that the girl is just a friend, but he has gone quiet on me. he told me he loved me and i love him to bits. but he says he dont no what to do and to give him time. but she is still there
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Dec 23, 2007 6:44 AM CST what do you do
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
do you know who she is???
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Dec 23, 2007 6:47 AM CST what do you do
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
keep ur cool and don't let it b obvious if u r feeling insecure and jealous... u will b respected more by that person.. and hopefully that person will b shown for who they are.. hug
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Dec 23, 2007 6:48 AM CST what do you do
foreveryoung1
foreveryoung1foreveryoung1cartagena, Murcia Spain2 Threads 1 Polls 2,984 Posts
good reasoning

santa waving
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Dec 23, 2007 6:49 AM CST what do you do
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing

If he needs time that means he probably wants to string both of you along for awhile longer.

Men are just plain greedy!
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Dec 23, 2007 6:49 AM CST what do you do
Imasquirly1
Imasquirly1Imasquirly1Springfield, Illinois USA108 Threads 2,518 Posts
it could also be that the guy is playing both side against each other...

telling both girls what he thinks they want to hear....JMO
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Dec 23, 2007 6:58 AM CST what do you do
all_woman
all_womanall_womandouglas, England UK9 Threads 85 Posts
maybe your right and its hurting
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Dec 23, 2007 6:59 AM CST what do you do
all_woman
all_womanall_womandouglas, England UK9 Threads 85 Posts
yes i know who she is
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Dec 23, 2007 7:22 AM CST what do you do
Dusty45
Dusty45Dusty45Louisville, Kentucky USA54 Threads 2,642 Posts
It's just a guessing game.

We don't get to own or possess anyone anyway.

Surrender or let go. If it's going to work it would feel joyous.

Best Wishes.

gift
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Dec 23, 2007 7:26 AM CST what do you do
firstllight
firstllightfirstllightStrasburg, Virginia USA6 Threads 1 Polls 815 Posts
Oh my. They are "just friends" and he doesn't know what to do? Give him time? Oh please. He's stringing you along to see if this "friendship" takes off.
Don't let him use you like that.
Easy for me to say. Not as easy to do...I know, boy do I know!!
comfort
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Dec 23, 2007 8:11 AM CST what do you do
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
why is it when 'a' man asks for time to sort things out, there is all of a sudden this 'all men are jerks' assumption? Even 'he' is doing as you assume.

Such comments make it impossible for any man to find forgiveness, let alone a desire to be with you or any woman who responds hating all men as a group. If you see all men as the same ... then all men would be quite the fools to engage you in a relationship since you already despise them, who would want this? Perhaps a man who despises women and lumps all women as one as well?

confused
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