what do you do (59)
BnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Postsmy apologies, I forgot to reference the appropriate post, the above was not pointed at OP but at some who tend to enter threads with venom pointed at all members of a group, when only a single meber of that group is doing something.
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Oh don't take things so seriously!
Of course we don't despise all men.....just that some women have had experience with this kind of thing. I posted because my daughter has experienced something similar very recently and it was hurtful to say the very least.
We had to keep our senses of humour intact when you and Ray were insulting our intelligence a few days ago didn't we?
Of course we don't despise all men.....just that some women have had experience with this kind of thing. I posted because my daughter has experienced something similar very recently and it was hurtful to say the very least.
We had to keep our senses of humour intact when you and Ray were insulting our intelligence a few days ago didn't we?
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I experienced a similar thing many years ago. I was seeing a guy for a few months and I actually relocated to (near sheffield) to live with him. At the time I also had a 2 and half year old and he had a 4 year old.
We actually lived together for about a year but I was always aware (even before I moved in with him) that he was friends with a woman at work. However, he always insisted it was just friendship which I believed as obviously I wouldn't have moved in with him if I'd thought otherwise.
Anyway, after 11 months he also started to go quiet and giving me all the crap about being confused and not knowing what to do. Then I found out that she had told him she had feelings for him.
It was obvious to me that his heart wasn't obviously fully with me if he was being so affected by her declaring her feelings for him..
Soo, the next week I kicked him into touch and moved back to my original town and that was the end of that
But, anyway... hopefully your story will work out differently for you...so I wish you good luck
We actually lived together for about a year but I was always aware (even before I moved in with him) that he was friends with a woman at work. However, he always insisted it was just friendship which I believed as obviously I wouldn't have moved in with him if I'd thought otherwise.
Anyway, after 11 months he also started to go quiet and giving me all the crap about being confused and not knowing what to do. Then I found out that she had told him she had feelings for him.
It was obvious to me that his heart wasn't obviously fully with me if he was being so affected by her declaring her feelings for him..
Soo, the next week I kicked him into touch and moved back to my original town and that was the end of that
But, anyway... hopefully your story will work out differently for you...so I wish you good luck
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the OP asks a very personal and serious question. seriously.
hardly a time for a sense of humor.
jmho
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Sometimes humour is the best medicine.
JMHO.
JMHO.
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I agree 
If we don't laugh we cry 
Humour keeps me sane
If we don't laugh we cry Humour keeps me sane
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going to get my funny pills ...
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that has the possibility of being construed and misconstured so many ways....
<---- jumping out at full speed.
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In my mind, if said person can indeed be taken away, than the reality is the relationship is in trouble anyway. While the short term might hurt, you're better off in the long-term. But perhaps that is just me. 
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You have just expressed a nagging feeling I've had about many of the good women folk of CS, and in excellent English too.
And for that, I thank you.
And for that, I thank you.
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Let them try their best, make your point properly and then do not force anyone.
But if its me, I will keep my doors open for them to come back to me, if at any stage of life they realize.
But if its me, I will keep my doors open for them to come back to me, if at any stage of life they realize.
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I am sorry you are going through this. It must be very painful for you.
You can't make someone be with you. He has to figure out what to do. But the question is, what do you want to do?
If you love him very much, I guess patience is your answer. However, in matters with the heart, that is very difficult to do. Let your heart be your guide. Good luck to you!
You can't make someone be with you. He has to figure out what to do. But the question is, what do you want to do?
If you love him very much, I guess patience is your answer. However, in matters with the heart, that is very difficult to do. Let your heart be your guide. Good luck to you!
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thankyou for your support tho, you'll soon learn to get off that bus dude
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Jan could you kindly point me in the direction of Ray's indignity, as I have entered into a discourse with him and have taken it upon myself to show him his wrongs and drag apologies out of him. The apology is not for you as you are not in need of it, it is for Ray so he will refrain from his mannerisms with others who are not strong enough to deal with him. I am 'policing' his actions here and would like to rub his nose in his error with you and I would assume others so as to train him to deffacate outdoors. He is just a young lad and his voice need not be contagious to others.
Mark
Mark
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This darn bus has the best views though, and I can stop any undersirables getting on with perfect ease!
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so be it..
you have learned well ...
sally forth you travelling fool. dont forget to send a post card now n then.
you have learned well ...
sally forth you travelling fool. dont forget to send a post card now n then.
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in some cases, it is not safe to let a person back into your life...no matter how much you love them...
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Men are just plain greedy!
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!(but not always)..
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!(but not always)..
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Want an "Old Man's" OPINION?????
What do YOU want for YOU? What do you deserve? Is this how YOU want to be treated?
Let it go, you deserve better. When one door closes, another opens and they are usually better quality doors.
In the meantime, look into the mirror, tell that beautiful human being looking back at you that you love her..
What do YOU want for YOU? What do you deserve? Is this how YOU want to be treated?
Let it go, you deserve better. When one door closes, another opens and they are usually better quality doors.
In the meantime, look into the mirror, tell that beautiful human being looking back at you that you love her..
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Absolutely.
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