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Feb 10, 2008 12:44 PM CST need your answer
ladysman07
ladysman07ladysman07mount maunganui, Bay of Plenty New Zealand6 Threads 39 Posts
well im new to this but i hav a question to ask you while i was going out with my ex we got into a little crap well heres the question when you break up with ur partner and you have a one night stand with your other ex partner and then you get back 2gether with her not the one that you had the one night is that called cheating when all along your not together?
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Feb 10, 2008 12:47 PM CST need your answer
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
It's just a little harmless extra on the side.....( the right side)


Like having dessert...you aren't actually having your main course meal so it's ok as long as you don't mix up all your dinner...


scold

Did they enjoy it? conversing
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Feb 10, 2008 12:54 PM CST need your answer
RedHeadedTaurus
RedHeadedTaurusRedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA17 Threads 1 Polls 8,455 Posts
If you aren't together anymore, you are 'broken-up', and that fact is crystal clear to both/all parties... Then my feeling is that what you or they do after the fact is not a substantial factor pertaining to any sort of "cheating".
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Feb 10, 2008 12:59 PM CST need your answer
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
Only your heart can tell you the truth in this case.
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Feb 10, 2008 1:31 PM CST need your answer
j_goose
j_goosej_goosenorthfield, Ohio USA49 Threads 3 Polls 1,239 Posts
ladysman07: well im new to this but i hav a question to ask you while i was going out with my ex we got into a little crap well heres the question when you break up with ur partner and you have a one night stand with your other ex partner and then you get back 2gether with her not the one that you had the one night is that called cheating when all along your not together?


Not cheating if you weren't together.

kinda like looking at other women (or men ). Just because you're on a diet, doesn't mean you can't look at the menu.

Or

Looking at the menu is ok, as long as you eat at home.
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Feb 10, 2008 1:33 PM CST need your answer
girlnextdormouse
girlnextdormousegirlnextdormouseMarietta, Ohio USA34 Threads 544 Posts
ladysman07: well im new to this but i hav a question to ask you while i was going out with my ex we got into a little crap well heres the question when you break up with ur partner and you have a one night stand with your other ex partner and then you get back 2gether with her not the one that you had the one night is that called cheating when all along your not together?


shock
Do you juggle for a living?
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Feb 10, 2008 1:36 PM CST need your answer
OverTheWindow
OverTheWindowOverTheWindowChicago, Paris, Marseille, Illinois USA6 Threads 1 Polls 635 Posts
wow confused smoking Well... What's on the menu? rolling on the floor laughing


j_goose: Just because you're on a diet, doesn't mean you can't look at the menu.

Or

Looking at the menu is ok, as long as you eat at home.
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Feb 10, 2008 1:37 PM CST need your answer
martyg
martygmartygDublin/Kildare, Dublin Ireland55 Threads 3 Polls 4,322 Posts
constanza: Only your heart can tell you the truth in this case.


His heart??...i dont know if thats whats telling him what to dorolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing


You just go for it manthumbs up
If your single...enjoy itcheers
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Feb 10, 2008 1:40 PM CST need your answer
ladysman07
ladysman07ladysman07mount maunganui, Bay of Plenty New Zealand6 Threads 39 Posts
no i dont
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Feb 10, 2008 1:41 PM CST need your answer
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
I have no idea what you are talking about...so I'll just say, If you are questioning your behavior, you obviously know something isn't right!! Being right, feels good! maybe these are questions you need to ask yourself
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Feb 10, 2008 1:43 PM CST need your answer
ladysman07
ladysman07ladysman07mount maunganui, Bay of Plenty New Zealand6 Threads 39 Posts
ok what im trying to say is is it called cheating wen you hav a one night stand when u hav broken up with your partner
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Feb 10, 2008 1:47 PM CST need your answer
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
ladysman07: ok what im trying to say is is it called cheating wen you hav a one night stand when u hav broken up with your partner




doh
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Feb 10, 2008 1:49 PM CST need your answer
ladysman07: ok what im trying to say is is it called cheating wen you hav a one night stand when u hav broken up with your partner


Cheating is relative sometimes.
You might even be Cheating yourself.

Don't forget: "We Lie Loudest when We Lie to Ourselves!"
conversing wave peace
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Feb 10, 2008 1:52 PM CST need your answer
ladysman07
ladysman07ladysman07mount maunganui, Bay of Plenty New Zealand6 Threads 39 Posts
good answer
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Feb 10, 2008 1:55 PM CST need your answer
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
Let me tell you about the birds and the bee
And the flowers and the trees
And the moon up above
And a thing called love

Let me tell you about the stars in the say
And a girl and a guy
And the way they can kiss
On a night like this...........................Sheesh!!
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Feb 10, 2008 1:57 PM CST need your answer
ladysman07
ladysman07ladysman07mount maunganui, Bay of Plenty New Zealand6 Threads 39 Posts
very good lol
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Feb 10, 2008 2:00 PM CST need your answer
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
martyg: His heart??...i dont know if thats whats telling him what to do You just go for it man
If your single...enjoy it
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Jodi time to take notes girlie wink on a more serious note only he knew his own motivations and how things happened between him and the other two women;

One's heart never lies. peace
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Feb 10, 2008 2:04 PM CST need your answer
ladysman07
ladysman07ladysman07mount maunganui, Bay of Plenty New Zealand6 Threads 39 Posts
thats true as well but what can you do wen ur partner wont touch u at all pushes u away when u get near her thats the reason why we broke up
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Feb 10, 2008 2:06 PM CST need your answer
ladysman07
ladysman07ladysman07mount maunganui, Bay of Plenty New Zealand6 Threads 39 Posts
ok il answer ur questions
(1) yes we did after ten years
(2) yes i had an one night stand with her after my partner (the one who i broke up with) pushed me away and so on
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Feb 10, 2008 5:28 PM CST need your answer
codecatz4
codecatz4codecatz4Madison, Indiana USA7 Threads 34 Posts
Try talking to her about how you feel if that don't work and you both are unhappy move on. Everyone wants to be loved and loved in return.
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