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karezPrineville, Oregon USA5 Threads 38 PostsIs having high morals and being a security gurd an instant turn off for women????
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no its a great thing/no doesnt matter either..jmo
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High Morals,imo very good thing.Hey,you got a job right?
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Absolutly not! Who wants to drink out of the same glass the whole town has drank from?
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karez: Is having high morals and being a security gurd an instant turn off for women????
Depends on the woman.
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karez: Is having high morals and being a security gurd an instant turn off for women????
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karez: Is having high morals and being a security gurd an instant turn off for women????
By high morals i mean no cheating, i dont look at other women, i take my time and move forward cautiously, and don't do the whole pre maradble "mating" stuff.. i don't see the problem with waiting till the second or third date to kiss a girl.. i dont drink very much and when i do its at home or where i am staying for fallowing 24 hours, and i dont wont and cant stand the use of drugs... (unless your doctor prescribes them) i open the door for girls, and i NEVER take advantage of a "easly" score induced by achohol..
and just cause i dont think its propper to go out bar hopping for what ever i can get; i mean is there somthing wrong with that? cause it seems that most girls that i my self "incounter" dont think its such a good thing they just seem to want to jump staight to third and skip the sitting up all night just talking to one another.. and if she is impressed by the fact that i have such high morals; she is instantly turned away by the fact that i am a security guard (yes i work over 40 hours a week) why is that? (and yes i have hand cuffs 2 pair to be exact but they arnt the nice ones they hurt when in use (no i didnt have a girl put them on me it was a fellow oficer showing us how to take someone down and cuff them...just so clarafy that)
Is somthing wrong with me or is it just cenral oregon?
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terabyte: Absolutly not! Who wants to drink out of the same glass the whole town has drank from?
not me... i prefer to drink at home with close friends, where it dosent cost five dollars for a drink.. and we can skip the "intoxicated stove pipes" (women who are drunk and are chain smokeing)
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karez: Is having high morals and being a security gurd an instant turn off for women????
Are you talking about a combination of the two?? If so, I'm not sure I grasp the connection..... can you clarify please?
If you are meaning separately.... surely having high morals is a good thing?? And being a security guard.... why should that have any bearing on turning women on OR off?? Or are we talking uniforms here??
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Depends on the glass.... is it half empty ?
or half full?
or half full?
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karez: Is having high morals and being a security gurd an instant turn off for women????
I don't know why it should be, Karez, but I wouldn't want to go out with a woman with high morals whether she was a security guard or not. (Sorry, I couldn't resist. Please don't' hate me.)
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karez: not me... i prefer to drink at home with close friends, where it dosent cost five dollars for a drink.. and we can skip the "intoxicated stove pipes" (women who are drunk and are chain smokeing)
Maybe you're just being overly critical, the perfect woman does not exist, neither does the perfect man.
Sorry I'm not being more sympathetic here but there are so many threads lately bemoaning the fact that men or women don't seem interested and this appears to give the right to criticise these people just because of their indifference!
How can anybody give a truthful answer without knowing what you're really like. not just your own glowing reference?
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Skeptikos: I don't know why it should be, Karez, but I wouldn't want to go out with a woman with high morals whether she was a security guard or not. (Sorry, I couldn't resist. Please don't' hate me.)
Being a former security guard. The ones I were involved with didn't mind what I did. It was me, the person, that mattered to them. We all have to work to survive, most of us.
If they have a problem with being a guard, then they aren't worth the effort.
High morals? Society defines morality. Stick with your beliefs.
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i am not trying to critasize any one or be jugmental.. its just that ushuly women seem turned off to the fact that they come on to me and i turn them down with a polite decline.. and i live by thease morals like a Knight of king Aurthur would his king....
and as far as my job it always seems that in a conversation all is well up the "I am a security Guard" point..
so i guess what i am saying is I won't abandon my morals for Pleasure... and i am good at my job so why base me off that?
I was raised up with the storys where the good guys always did the right thing.. and I try to be like them.... I am not perfect by along shot, but just like every other human on this planet i have flaws.... but who dosen't? what i want to know is why it is that people man or woman, christain or athiest treat one another with such disrespect, weather it be based off of curent fasion style, religoin, job, personality, life style, looks, music, race... and it all seems to hapen within the first five minutes of meeting someone....
One will never get ahead in this world due to this stuff... ok so yes now i am ranting but it has to come out.... ok I feel better now
and as far as my job it always seems that in a conversation all is well up the "I am a security Guard" point..
so i guess what i am saying is I won't abandon my morals for Pleasure... and i am good at my job so why base me off that?
I was raised up with the storys where the good guys always did the right thing.. and I try to be like them.... I am not perfect by along shot, but just like every other human on this planet i have flaws.... but who dosen't? what i want to know is why it is that people man or woman, christain or athiest treat one another with such disrespect, weather it be based off of curent fasion style, religoin, job, personality, life style, looks, music, race... and it all seems to hapen within the first five minutes of meeting someone....
One will never get ahead in this world due to this stuff... ok so yes now i am ranting but it has to come out.... ok I feel better now
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karez: what i want to know is why it is that people man or woman, christain or athiest treat one another with such disrespect, weather it be based off of curent fasion style, religoin, job, personality, life style, looks, music, race...
But can't you see you did exactly that in your post criticising "intoxicated stovepipes"????
If somebody doesn't like your job or your high morals, so what, there's plenty more people around who will accept you for what you do and who you are.
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karez: i am not trying to critasize any one or be jugmental.. its just that ushuly women seem turned off to the fact that they come on to me and i turn them down with a polite decline.. and i live by thease morals like a Knight of king Aurthur would his king....
and as far as my job it always seems that in a conversation all is well up the "I am a security Guard" point..
so i guess what i am saying is I won't abandon my morals for Pleasure... and i am good at my job so why base me off that?
I was raised up with the storys where the good guys always did the right thing.. and I try to be like them.... I am not perfect by along shot, but just like every other human on this planet i have flaws.... but who dosen't? what i want to know is why it is that people man or woman, christain or athiest treat one another with such disrespect, weather it be based off of curent fasion style, religoin, job, personality, life style, looks, music, race... and it all seems to hapen within the first five minutes of meeting someone....
One will never get ahead in this world due to this stuff... ok so yes now i am ranting but it has to come out.... ok I feel better now
and as far as my job it always seems that in a conversation all is well up the "I am a security Guard" point..
so i guess what i am saying is I won't abandon my morals for Pleasure... and i am good at my job so why base me off that?
I was raised up with the storys where the good guys always did the right thing.. and I try to be like them.... I am not perfect by along shot, but just like every other human on this planet i have flaws.... but who dosen't? what i want to know is why it is that people man or woman, christain or athiest treat one another with such disrespect, weather it be based off of curent fasion style, religoin, job, personality, life style, looks, music, race... and it all seems to hapen within the first five minutes of meeting someone....
One will never get ahead in this world due to this stuff... ok so yes now i am ranting but it has to come out.... ok I feel better now
Karez, if a woman turns a man down, he's usually learned to live with it, but if a man turns a woman down, then you're insufferable or gay or don't know a good thing when you see it.
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karez: i am not trying to critasize any one or be jugmental.. its just that ushuly women seem turned off to the fact that they come on to me and i turn them down with a polite decline.. and i live by thease morals like a Knight of king Aurthur would his king....
and as far as my job it always seems that in a conversation all is well up the "I am a security Guard" point..
so i guess what i am saying is I won't abandon my morals for Pleasure... and i am good at my job so why base me off that?
I was raised up with the storys where the good guys always did the right thing.. and I try to be like them.... I am not perfect by along shot, but just like every other human on this planet i have flaws.... but who dosen't? what i want to know is why it is that people man or woman, christain or athiest treat one another with such disrespect, weather it be based off of curent fasion style, religoin, job, personality, life style, looks, music, race... and it all seems to hapen within the first five minutes of meeting someone....
One will never get ahead in this world due to this stuff... ok so yes now i am ranting but it has to come out.... ok I feel better now
and as far as my job it always seems that in a conversation all is well up the "I am a security Guard" point..
so i guess what i am saying is I won't abandon my morals for Pleasure... and i am good at my job so why base me off that?
I was raised up with the storys where the good guys always did the right thing.. and I try to be like them.... I am not perfect by along shot, but just like every other human on this planet i have flaws.... but who dosen't? what i want to know is why it is that people man or woman, christain or athiest treat one another with such disrespect, weather it be based off of curent fasion style, religoin, job, personality, life style, looks, music, race... and it all seems to hapen within the first five minutes of meeting someone....
One will never get ahead in this world due to this stuff... ok so yes now i am ranting but it has to come out.... ok I feel better now
There are things i look for in a man ,let's forget professions for a second even.
Don't you have certain expectations and criteria for chosing a partner? If you don't then....i'll be quiet now.
Just being a man (speaking from anatomy) alone, doesn't cut it for us women, that's life, accept it.
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Jan1305: But can't you see you did exactly that in your post criticising "intoxicated stovepipes"????
If somebody doesn't like your job or your high morals, so what, there's plenty more people around who will accept you for what you do and who you are.
If somebody doesn't like your job or your high morals, so what, there's plenty more people around who will accept you for what you do and who you are.
Thank you Jan.
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Jan1305: Maybe you're just being overly critical, the perfect woman does not exist, neither does the perfect man.
Sorry I'm not being more sympathetic here but there are so many threads lately bemoaning the fact that men or women don't seem interested and this appears to give the right to criticise these people just because of their indifference!
How can anybody give a truthful answer without knowing what you're really like. not just your own glowing reference?
Sorry I'm not being more sympathetic here but there are so many threads lately bemoaning the fact that men or women don't seem interested and this appears to give the right to criticise these people just because of their indifference!
How can anybody give a truthful answer without knowing what you're really like. not just your own glowing reference?
thats a good point but what i meant was as a general to every one with this kind of problem.. with me it seems people never give me the chance to show them the real me.. I have been told I am like a peridox as soon as you figure me out you get confused... but this is true with every one of us... you can spend your intire life with someone and never stop being confused by them... ehat i mean is "dont Juge a Book by its cover; Or its Titel (if it has a plain cover).. people do this to eachother... I ain't lookin for sypathy.. i am looking for the bridges between the falts and the better side of being an iduvidule... I may be being over critical but its due to discrimanation to the cover/title..... a good example is i critisised a frieand for reading the Lord Of the Rings in high school four years latter i apoligized cause i read them an liked them he told me about them for four years and i just looked at the covers.. as soon as i was inside.... you see the point? in five minutes yu can determine you dont like the cover but it can take a lifetime to understand the inside... it seems noone is willing to do it.... ????
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lusciousmile: There are things i look for in a man ,let's forget professions for a second even.
Don't you have certain expectations and criteria for chosing a partner? If you don't then....i'll be quiet now.
Just being a man (speaking from anatomy) alone, doesn't cut it for us women, that's life, accept it.
Don't you have certain expectations and criteria for chosing a partner? If you don't then....i'll be quiet now.
Just being a man (speaking from anatomy) alone, doesn't cut it for us women, that's life, accept it.
prefetion aside... its not that i am like "well you need to be perfict" its more like i want to get to know you better befor we move forward as friends or more! thats what i am saying.... but none seem to share this age old tradition that actuly works.... my granparents have been maried for close to 60 years.. and they still dont have each other figured out...
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