being single forever (59)

Mar 23, 2008 7:49 PM CST being single forever
midnight1
midnight1midnight1Jacksonville, Florida USA3 Threads 28 Posts
Being on this site made me ivisible,I guess I live in time of lonely people,so far away from love,I wish there is more people to love each other or to find the love of their life,I don't know,maybe I supposed to be happy being without relationship,being plain single,it seems to be impossible to find real man,and that one is simple one but catch is: he is real
Mar 23, 2008 7:52 PM CST being single forever
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia278 Threads 7,904 Posts
midnight1: Being on this site made me ivisible,I guess I live in time of lonely people,so far away from love,I wish there is more people to love each other or to find the love of their life,I don't know,maybe I supposed to be happy being without relationship,being plain single,it seems to be impossible to find real man,and that one is simple one but catch is: he is real


we are all real whether we are real for you and vice- versa that is more the point ymo
Mar 23, 2008 7:53 PM CST being single forever
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia278 Threads 7,904 Posts
should read ---mo- my opinion
Mar 23, 2008 8:10 PM CST being single forever
Fallingman
FallingmanFallingmanDublin, Ireland29 Threads 12 Polls 11,436 Posts
midnight1: Being on this site made me ivisible,I guess I live in time of lonely people,so far away from love,I wish there is more people to love each other or to find the love of their life,I don't know,maybe I supposed to be happy being without relationship,being plain single,it seems to be impossible to find real man,and that one is simple one but catch is: he is real


Have you been here a long time?
Mar 23, 2008 8:55 PM CST being single forever
midnight1
midnight1midnight1Jacksonville, Florida USA3 Threads 28 Posts
Fallingman: Have you been here a long time?








Does that meter,long enough to be unnoticed,maybe I am to naive
Mar 24, 2008 2:02 AM CST being single forever
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
midnight1: Does that meter,long enough to be unnoticed,maybe I am to naive


If you just join CS, and stay in the background, then unless someone is "searching" - you may go un-noticed. By joining in on the forum discussions people get to know you. Just like in real life - if you stay in your house no-one is going to see you and they cant talk to you - unless they phone you - an is a stranger going to phone?

Anyway, a big warm welcome to you .... hope you stay on the forum and let people get to know you!cheers
Mar 24, 2008 7:35 AM CST being single forever
Manolito
ManolitoManolitoa strfilled galaxy far faraway, Greater London, England UK19 Threads 1 Polls 1,611 Posts
smoky: If you just join CS, and stay in the background, then unless someone is "searching" - you may go un-noticed. By joining in on the forum discussions people get to know you. Just like in real life - if you stay in your house no-one is going to see you and they cant talk to you - unless they phone you - an is a stranger going to phone?

Anyway, a big warm welcome to you .... hope you stay on the forum and let people get to know you!


Also, i would like to add that it is probably not a good idea to practice wise smoky's preaches on the EU forum, since you are from the USA... it would be a bit hard for any of us to actually ask you out laugh

But if you are looking for a few laught and some nice people to talk to, you are welcome to join us more often, we are a happy silly bunch here and we like americans! hug
Mar 24, 2008 7:57 AM CST being single forever
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
Manolito: Also, i would like to add that it is probably not a good idea to practice wise smoky's preaches on the EU forum, since you are from the USA... it would be a bit hard for any of us to actually ask you out

But if you are looking for a few laught and some nice people to talk to, you are welcome to join us more often, we are a happy silly bunch here and we like americans!


Yeah, but Midnight can participate in the Intl Forum! ... and here ... when and if anyone is actually online!

The world is a small village these days .... USA is not That far away! Maybe Midnight meets someone en route to USA? Ya gotta try all the routes - no good sticking to little one-way streets.......huh?cheers
Mar 24, 2008 8:39 AM CST being single forever
Manolito
ManolitoManolitoa strfilled galaxy far faraway, Greater London, England UK19 Threads 1 Polls 1,611 Posts
...but i still do so badly like the dimlighted backstreets... smitten grin
Mar 24, 2008 8:49 AM CST being single forever
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
Manolito: ...but i still do so badly like the dimlighted backstreets...


As my granny always said ... Whatever blows your ears back!
Mar 24, 2008 9:08 AM CST being single forever
smoky: As my granny always said ... Whatever blows your ears back!
A Hurricane??dunno laugh
Ain't that how it is supposed to happen?
Aw,forgat,"It's all in the Movies"sigh blushing blues
Mar 24, 2008 9:57 AM CST being single forever
twinself
twinselftwinself..., Majjistral Malta36 Threads 1,347 Posts
Manolito: ...but i still do so badly like the dimlighted backstreets...
.....


.... with cobbled stones....and stone statues which magically turn into water fountains.....and....

...aaahh forgive me, must have got carried away by my poetic streak..... or not?

grin wink smitten yay


Midnight:... You are not invisible... none of us really know exactly how, who, when or where..... you just need to stay * in the running *. Thinking it is IMPOSSIBLE, or saying NEVER for me.....might be creating that very thing which you don't want....

hug comfort
Mar 24, 2008 3:46 PM CST being single forever
midnight1
midnight1midnight1Jacksonville, Florida USA3 Threads 28 Posts
twinself: ......... with cobbled stones....and stone statues which magically turn into water fountains.....and....

...aaahh forgive me, must have got carried away by my poetic streak..... or not?

Midnight:... You are not invisible... none of us really know exactly how, who, when or where..... you just need to stay * in the running *. Thinking it is IMPOSSIBLE, or saying NEVER for me.....might be creating that very thing which you don't want....




Yes,I need to stop having negative thoughts,they become my reality...now I will reverse situation by projecting good things into my life,how about that,the same tehnic,only different approach.As for this Europian forum,am born in Europe,proud of that,and live here in Usa last ten years
Mar 24, 2008 4:04 PM CST being single forever
womble
womblewomblevarna, Varna Bulgaria19 Threads 153 Posts
midnight1: Yes,I need to stop having negative thoughts,they become my reality...now I will reverse situation by projecting good things into my life,how about that,the same tehnic,only different approach.As for this Europian forum,am born in Europe,proud of that,and live here in Usa last ten years



Love is just around the corner....you simply have to take the right turning!comfort cheers
Mar 24, 2008 4:26 PM CST being single forever
Lionheart1211
Lionheart1211Lionheart1211Malta, Majjistral Malta5 Threads 152 Posts
womble: Love is just around the corner....you simply have to take the right turning!
Well said...which side should you turn again confused
Mar 24, 2008 4:36 PM CST being single forever
womble
womblewomblevarna, Varna Bulgaria19 Threads 153 Posts
Lionheart1211: Well said...which side should you turn again




Make the effort......and destiny will lead you to the right path !cheers
Mar 24, 2008 4:41 PM CST being single forever
antcus
antcusantcusSt Paul's Bay, Majjistral Malta17 Threads 948 Posts
midnight1: Being on this site made me ivisible,I guess I live in time of lonely people,so far away from love,I wish there is more people to love each other or to find the love of their life,I don't know,maybe I supposed to be happy being without relationship,being plain single,it seems to be impossible to find real man,and that one is simple one but catch is: he is real



Hi Midnight, From the way you wrote your contribution it is difficult for me to understand what you actually wanted to say. Most of the replies you got made reference to you being visible or invisible. But if I understood right, you tried to make a point of being single. You said that being single really gives you the possibility of meeting the right man. If you were not single, this would exclude it. But you said, can you stay single forever in the hope of finding the right man in your single state. That is what I understood....... is that it?

Well, my comments are that being single does not mean staying alone. I am single, that is I am not married or engaged, but I am not alone. I have been in a relationship for over a year now, and find that this is the way which is most convenient to both. If we should quarrel, and decide to split, there are no divorce bills, no expensive engagement rings to be returned, no houses to be sold, nothing. In fact it is the purest of love, love for its own sake, not tied up with a piece of paper in some dark filing cabinet, which is the civil marriage contract.

Whether it is better to be single or be with somebody in a seroius relationship, is the 100,000 dollar question. The Italians have a saying that literally translated reads: better alone than with the wrong person!

I hope I have understood your contribution, purposely not commenting on your invisibility or otherwise, because, you have had comments from others about that!
Mar 24, 2008 4:50 PM CST being single forever
Lionheart1211
Lionheart1211Lionheart1211Malta, Majjistral Malta5 Threads 152 Posts
womble: Make the effort......and destiny will lead you to the right path !
you will be the first to know when that happens
Mar 24, 2008 5:11 PM CST being single forever
womble
womblewomblevarna, Varna Bulgaria19 Threads 153 Posts
Lionheart1211: you will be the first to know when that happens




Am on a 'Path' at the moment, and am having great fun!.........The journey's only just begun!cheers handshake
Mar 24, 2008 6:57 PM CST being single forever
midnight1
midnight1midnight1Jacksonville, Florida USA3 Threads 28 Posts
You said You are not married,engaged,but You are in relationship,pure...,just for it's sake.
I asked myself queston,what it is to take you to get noticed,on this site or any other situation,for example my immediate suroundings,becouse sometimes you can meet somebody moment you get out of your house,I admit my mailbox(on this site) is empty most of the time,i did have few writings,meaningles,from people around the world,they have no intentions for relationship,only chat,and i don't mind distance if there is something to happen ok..
Let me get back to You Antcus and Your queston,am suprised how things are actually considering my look and i might say quality amount of inteligence,soooo when I posted tread here,I was honest in many ways:I am single,never been married,I am not engaged,I am not in relationship,I am not in proces of divorce that's gona get me hundred thousand dollars,if there was one only one thing from above,activly involved in my life,then I wouldn't post my profile here trust me,until I get my situation resolved,one way or the other.This site is for people who are singles like I am in an attempt to meet somebody,If You are in relationship,doesn't matter if it's paper coverage or not, You have relationship,then what are You doing on this site
that is for us without relationship at all,I can't understand people searching for relationship,when they are already in one!?
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