In Total Disgust (18)
ninamooshaSt. Ignace, Michigan USA146 Threads 1,285 PostsMy ex just stopped by here and asked me to Marry him....of all things.....I feel numb of all feelings toward him....a big null and void....I always gave in before(in the past three years) went back over and over...now I feel absolutely nothing....does this mean I am finally over it....???? Oh to have only had those words years ago....too late now....I would have given anything to have had those words years ago....and to know that he was sincere....and willing to be faithfull...
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You did absolutely the right thing! Nobody deserves to be a plan B. I bet he has some respect for you now!!!!
Smile all day today, you deserve it!!
Smile all day today, you deserve it!!
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I was absolutely honest and told him I feel nothing towards him anymore....no remorse , no regrets, nothing just numb...when he left I told him "Have Fun"
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wooohoooo you so rock ..
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Good for you Nina!!!
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Good for you Nina!!! Now you need never open the door to him again.
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Nina,
congratulations! you now can move forward with out
wondering...Best to you now..as you go on your new path
to the future...smile your a wonderful and honest lady..
my best to you....Chance...
congratulations! you now can move forward with out
wondering...Best to you now..as you go on your new path
to the future...smile your a wonderful and honest lady..
my best to you....Chance...
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Nina, I know how you felt. I waited for 3 years to have the ex come home and ask to work things out. He never did and I wasted so much of my life chasing someone that would never change. Now, I am glad that he didn't. He became a worse drunkard than before and quite frankly someone else will have to deal with his abusive nature.....as for me time to have my life..........
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That's so good Nina, you have moved on in your head and your heart, you are free of him. That is wonderful for you.
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freedom is a good thing, eh?
I had to ask someone at first, too... thought it wasa coping thing. Nope!
you are moving on...=o)
I had to ask someone at first, too... thought it wasa coping thing. Nope!
you are moving on...=o)
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Being truly over a relationship is only something that you can answer for yourself. My understanding would be that if you can see and/or spend time with someone and there are just neutral feelings that come up for you... then I would think that this would be a pretty clear indicator that you have moved on.
It has strike me though that your thread title is "In Total Disgust" - I am wondering you would choose that title.
It has strike me though that your thread title is "In Total Disgust" - I am wondering you would choose that title.
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I have revulsion for my ex for thethings he continues to do...and, when he looks at me... when we speak, I feel nothing...
You can be repulsed by someones behavior and be beyond them...yes?
You can be repulsed by someones behavior and be beyond them...yes?
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she asked Nina ya goof lol
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TabooN, Your right about being repulsed by his actions....he lies so much and I catch him everytime...Like last night....bare in mind this is a very small town....only three entities open to buy cigarettes...and I pass by all three....plus his place....he said today "come and see me"....just to hear an answer I said "oh I did but you were not home" this was at 11:38 p.m. He thought I would be at Kareoke(which I usually am) He looked real white stammered finally said "Oh I went to the Holiday to get cigarettes....well people the Holiday is two places down from where I had just picked up my son from work....right...tell it to the next one please......I wasn't really going to see him at all....just wanted to let him know he's still a liar....and I am not his fool anymore....
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you deserve so much better nina..............
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don't even have to look for lies from mine, lol. He just opens his mouth...
Just evry other word...I think he is pathological, really... And, a theif, and a donor...
Just evry other word...I think he is pathological, really... And, a theif, and a donor...
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you know nina i went through the same thing. After 20 years of being miserable, I finally left. I have no feelings for the man anymore and glad he's out of my life. I'm moving forward and hoping to find a man that loves me for who I am. You deserve better hon. Like always say be sure the next man is your bestfriend.
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Definatly shows that you have major self confidence now and that you are finaly getting over him. I do not know the history but I take it he is not a good guy and I am proud of you for sticking up for yourself this time.
Hugs to you!
Tracy :o)
Hugs to you!
Tracy :o)
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