starr: It's happened to me. But ended cause of restritive immigration laws. Ouch
I know the feeling. Things were going great until I crossed the border. First there were all those felony convictions (like robbing a bank under the influence of peyote should be against the law!) As though that weren't enough, there was an additional issue when they found out I was going to meet someone I'd met on the internet. "We have a policy against letting predators in to see 12 year old girls," the immigration officer sternly informed me. I told her that wasn't a problem, since my girlfriend's mom had told she just turned fifteen.
You know, the holding cells at the Canadian border really aren't that comfortable after a few days...
Aries01: I sometimes wave at blank pencil drawings too... Hiya
Man, you really know how to hurt a guy, girlfriend. First, I look drunk, and now I'm a blank pencil drawings. Looks like it's time to change my main photo...once again.
Ambrose2007: I know the feeling. Things were going great until I crossed the border. First there were all those felony convictions (like robbing a bank under the influence of peyote should be against the law!) As though that weren't enough, there was an additional issue when they found out I was going to meet someone I'd met on the internet. "We have a policy against letting predators in to see 12 year old girls," the immigration officer sternly informed me. I told her that wasn't a problem, since my girlfriend's mom had told she just turned fifteen.
You know, the holding cells at the Canadian border really aren't that comfortable after a few days...
Did the mom and the 15 year old at least have the courtesy to visit?
Ambrose2007: I know the feeling. Things were going great until I crossed the border. First there were all those felony convictions (like robbing a bank under the influence of peyote should be against the law!) As though that weren't enough, there was an additional issue when they found out I was going to meet someone I'd met on the internet. "We have a policy against letting predators in to see 12 year old girls," the immigration officer sternly informed me. I told her that wasn't a problem, since my girlfriend's mom had told she just turned fifteen.
You know, the holding cells at the Canadian border really aren't that comfortable after a few days...
Where was her dad? Don't tell me, he works with immigration.
Ambrose2007: Man, you really know how to hurt a guy, girlfriend. First, I look drunk, and now I'm a blank pencil drawings. Looks like it's time to change my main photo...once again.
... u look hungover... but I ASSURE you... you don't look like a pencil drawing
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
Yes its possible..I met Eric here online...we talk on the forums for awhile then on phone and we fell in love...we met in person in March and felt the same as we did when we met on here..
kissmedeeply: Yes its possible..I met Eric here online...we talk on the forums for awhile then on phone and we fell in love...we met in person in March and felt the same as we did when we met on here..
Kissme... How did you know?... what made what you guys had, stand out above any normal interaction...
I was chatting to a guy here that I thought was the bees knees... but he turned out totally different... maybe its instinct or something.. cause as great as I thought he was (and I did) I never 'fell in love with him'... I kept something back instinctively...
suew75hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK554 posts
Aries01: Well anything is possible I suppose, though I imagine fairly rare.... developing an attachment to a person can involve so many factors.. so until you meet the person its hard to know... e.g. most people need to feel attracted to a person physically, or there might be certain things that would completely turn them off the person like being rude to waiters or being mean..
I think someone who is capable of falling in love with someone without meeting them, would want to be very lucky and extremely non judgmental and openminded
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
Aries01: Kissme... How did you know?... what made what you guys had, stand out above any normal interaction...
I was chatting to a guy here that I thought was the bees knees... but he turned out totally different... maybe its instinct or something.. cause as great as I thought he was (and I did) I never 'fell in love with him'... I kept something back instinctively...
Hope u don't mind me askin..... just curious
we never held anything back..we carefully study each other post...we were totally honest..talk about our past..interest..likes..dislikes..kids..futures past relationship,,,didnt just meet up quickly..wanted to learn all i could..even eric wanted to meet right away...we didnt try to impress each other just being us..no expectations..going with the flow...and then we met...it was all that we said it would be...hi looks..hi attitude...humor...kindness..sweet..loving..even met his girls as well..i quess it boils down to TIME...take your time and just let it fall in place
I think you can fall in love with aspects of people you have never met (and I have), but to fall in total love with them without meeting I do not think it will happen. You may mistake those little bits and pieces for the whole but it will not be so until you meet them.
Hello Aries! Been meaning to write you but I cannot seem to get enough time. May need a date for a wedding in Athboy or Trim next spring. They have not told me which location it will be in yet.
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I sometimes wave at blank pencil drawings too... Hiya