Why! Why, Why does some one come with direct false information? ( Archived) (58)

Not the end of the world for me either, but I don't have to play along either.
I just act a fool most of the time, if my acting silly makes someone smile, I have done well!
I work hard and play hard.
But I have both feet on the ground. And I have nothing to be ashamed of.
Either people like me for what I really am or they don't.
Their loss if the latter!

But I still say... How can anyone be serious about finding a partner if it is based on lies and deceit?[/quote]Because, my dear gumby, plain and simple, they aren't serious about finding a partner. They're just here to mess around with folks, it's how they get off or something.
I'm not talking about the ones who post pics where they're 10 yrs younger or 100 lbs heavier than they are now, that's just wishful thinking, that maybe you'll fall in love with them and not care.
I'm talking about the players that just mess around with everyone, chatting online and getting things serious sounding when they're really just full of it. Or the married ones that just want a good time.
That's why they lie, they just like to hurt others, or they don't care if they do. This hasn't happened to me, everyone I've met was pretty much as they presented themselves. But I've heard too many stories not to be cautious about anyone I meet, you never know till you get to know them if they're even real.

G'morning all.....just gone half eight am here.....

quick note that came to mind.....


It's all about psycohology isn't it?

A lot of people seem to have problems with feeling at ease with themselves and thier surrounding. Know fact, not only here, but in real life too I guess.

Therefore they create a cyber image of themselves, that which they would like to be, and that which they want others to believe they are.

Althou it may cause probelms for others who are here, however, that is one of the most common on line factors that exist, cyber personalities, i.e. people whjo on line are acting out an image, whereas in real life they are totally different persons.

Accepting that as being 'normal', one therefore ventures into these territories with an eye open. You are even warned on every page here on CS, beware, beware, beware. In other words, no, you really cannot trust fully anybody on here unlessyou have met them personally and can vouch for them. Always retain that 'if' as a safety limit.

Other then that, enjoy, I have, and I have also met some wonderful honest people who I am now in contact with along the way.

Would you care to elaborate on that? I'm Kenyan and rather interested to know what you mean exactly.

I think that makes a lot of sense. I should see things, like you do. Very wise!

absolutely I agree...it would be a matter of basic caution that a girl not say anything that will indicate her whereabouts... until she knows and is more confident with the person..... if she lied and totally elaborated though I would be a little suspect however.. JMV

Hi
Well-said, you have a very good and positive attitude. I believe if a person prefer to lie about everything then he/she will have to continue to lies for the rest of the life. Can long term relationship or marriage survive through lies? Everybody know the answer I am sure!

In this wonderful Universe, we attract what we are most of the times. If we are sincere and honest, people who are attracted to us would likewise be the same too. I have total faith in the forces of the Universe bringing people of like-mindedness or levels together most of the times. Just surrender yourself, there is no need to look hard for anything you seek. In life, it's like chasing the butterfy, the more you chase the farther it will fly away from you.

Have a great weekend

Hi,
Great advice. Being cautious is being prudent and wise, otherwise one should just relax and enjoy this site while waiting for the Mr Right/Miss Right to surface in due course.

Regards

Who really expects truth, on the internet? My pics are mine. I'm 43, broke and in college. I think I say that in my profile. A guy I like asked me about my pic. Yep, I'm broke, in college, but I paste a fake photo, with my profile? Nah, it's me. Some people tell the truth.

I tell the truth, even if it hurts.

I'm not sure I want a relationship. I usually run from the mention! I don't lie. One guy knows I'm honest. We chat.

He scares me to death. He kinda knows me. That's attractive.