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Jun 4, 2008 3:13 PM CST Being on CS ...
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
We spend so much of our time on here .. chatting , discussing , arguing while trying to find someone special or making friends or just filling our time with some humor ... We get angry , offended , sad or happy ... learn , support and grow .

I wonder if at times it gets too heavy on your mind ? difficult to handle ? When someone close is sad or sick .... someone's going thro' unthinkable problems ... do you feel like you have grown a bond with this place and people ? Strange as it is .. a lot of people whom you know thro' their words and emotions .. have become a part of our daily life and existence.


Dont know why i am writing this ..dunno sigh
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Jun 4, 2008 3:14 PM CST Being on CS ...
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
riyablossom: We spend so much of our time on here .. chatting , discussing , arguing while trying to find someone special or making friends or just filling our time with some humor ... We get angry , offended , sad or happy ... learn , support and grow .

I wonder if at times it gets too heavy on your mind ? difficult to handle ? When someone close is sad or sick .... someone's going thro' unthinkable problems ... do you feel like you have grown a bond with this place and people ? Strange as it is .. a lot of people whom you know thro' their words and emotions .. have become a part of our daily life and existence.Dont know why i am writing this ..


Neither do I.. roll eyes

Sit down.. and have some cake instead.. cake

giggle
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Jun 4, 2008 3:16 PM CST Being on CS ...
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
Claayer: Neither do I..

Sit down.. and have some cake instead..


mumbling popcorn <-- thats cake

mumbling
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Jun 4, 2008 3:17 PM CST Being on CS ...
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
But yeah.. sometimes it does get a bit much... I just don't come on then.

Also I find it hard being so far from my 'Friends' when I think they could do with a hand with something.. or a bit of cheering up.. or I want to give them a big fat hug or a pep talk.. There are sooo many of them I would love to be able to socialise with .. be closer too .. just so we COULD all met up for dinner or what ever.

That would be FUN too.
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Jun 4, 2008 3:18 PM CST Being on CS ...
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Hi Riya and Claire..

alot of people have grown on me..and you all are just like Family...a daily thing that you do...

I feel sad when others are going through sickness...losing someone...or just having a bad day...

I will definately Miss you all here...

Riya you are inspiration..as is Claire..

Party on Girls..Be happyhug teddybear
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Jun 4, 2008 3:18 PM CST Being on CS ...
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
We could go shoe shopping Riya!

Then somewhere yummy to find the MOST gorgeous cakes.. giggle

(and whisper about men)


laugh
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Jun 4, 2008 3:19 PM CST Being on CS ...
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
kissmedeeply: Hi Riya and Claire..

alot of people have grown on me..and you all are just like Family...a daily thing that you do...

I feel sad when others are going through sickness...losing someone...or just having a bad day...

I will definately Miss you all here...

Riya you are inspiration..as is Claire..

Party on Girls..Be happy


Aaawww bloody hell woman! I wish you would stay. hug
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Jun 4, 2008 3:21 PM CST Being on CS ...
kurzita
kurzitakurzitaXaghra, Gozo Malta9 Threads 1,019 Posts
How funny.......

When i want to kill an hour or so, have a break, automatically i come on to these forums.....and feel 'at home' by finding names that have now become 'the gang'.

In days gone by, I would probably get in the car and pop in to my local drinking hole to do that. Now it's my desk and the lap top.

So far away, yet so many on here are in effect so close. Humanity has the need to belong. To be part of something. Wether one looks for love, a relationship, a partner, or like myself, is content to be single, yet we all share one need......

Not to stand alone.....



wine
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Jun 4, 2008 3:21 PM CST Being on CS ...
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
riyablossom: We spend so much of our time on here .. chatting , discussing , arguing while trying to find someone special or making friends or just filling our time with some humor ... We get angry , offended , sad or happy ... learn , support and grow .

I wonder if at times it gets too heavy on your mind ? difficult to handle ? When someone close is sad or sick .... someone's going thro' unthinkable problems ... do you feel like you have grown a bond with this place and people ? Strange as it is .. a lot of people whom you know thro' their words and emotions .. have become a part of our daily life and existence.Dont know why i am writing this ..


I know where you're coming from, Riya...please don't take that the wrong way, but I do.

I was just thinking that I've made a few really close friends here, and they seem every bit as real and solid as anyone I know. In fact, I fell in love with someone here, so I'd say there's something all-too-real about this experience...wine
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Jun 4, 2008 3:21 PM CST Being on CS ...
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Claayer: Aaawww bloody hell woman! I wish you would stay.
you are such a sweetie Claire..

i wont say much more..dont want to ruin ur bad/naughty girl reputationlaugh tongue
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Jun 4, 2008 3:22 PM CST Being on CS ...
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
Claayer: We could go shoe shopping Riya!

Then somewhere yummy to find the MOST gorgeous cakes..

(and whisper about men)


you bet !!!

Sometimes i find it so taxing i dont come on here and next step is take a break esp. when theres cribbing or fighting all over .. sigh

Me too .. there are people whom you feel a bonding with and i would llovee to be closer to them .. so we could catch up on the little things in life .. fun that would be.
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Jun 4, 2008 3:22 PM CST Being on CS ...
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
riyablossom: We spend so much of our time on here .. chatting , discussing , arguing while trying to find someone special or making friends or just filling our time with some humor ... We get angry , offended , sad or happy ... learn , support and grow .

I wonder if at times it gets too heavy on your mind ? difficult to handle ? When someone close is sad or sick .... someone's going thro' unthinkable problems ... do you feel like you have grown a bond with this place and people ? Strange as it is .. a lot of people whom you know thro' their words and emotions .. have become a part of our daily life and existence.Dont know why i am writing this ..


I think it can when things in out RL's are already heavy....I know the negativity gets to me at times and I find myself getting negative along with it.....and yes it's hard when good friends are sick and there is nothing we can do for them....I think the bonds we form here are a little thicker than we like to let on because as soon as someone is missng....everybody notices and wonders about them....this is much more than a singles site in my mind and in fact I stopped thinking of it as such a long time ago....I think we get used to each other being part of our daily existence and it's comforting to come here and see friends and familiar faces.....hug teddybear hug teddybear bouquet
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Jun 4, 2008 3:24 PM CST Being on CS ...
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
Ambrose2007: I know where you're coming from, Riya...please don't take that the wrong way, but I do.

I was just thinking that I've made a few really close friends here, and they seem every bit as real and solid as anyone I know. In fact, I fell in love with someone here, so I'd say there's something all-too-real about this experience...


ohh Ambrose i love this pic of you and noo i wont mind what you say.
hug

you stole my words ... its soo real .. thats it .. thats what i am thinking .. rather its so real its scary at times..

Am so happy you found that person and she is soo lucky .. hug
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Jun 4, 2008 3:24 PM CST Being on CS ...
pvictoria
pvictoriapvictoriaVictoria, Gozo Malta17 Threads 1,044 Posts
riyablossom: We spend so much of our time on here .. chatting , discussing , arguing while trying to find someone special or making friends or just filling our time with some humor ... We get angry , offended , sad or happy ... learn , support and grow .

I wonder if at times it gets too heavy on your mind ? difficult to handle ? When someone close is sad or sick .... someone's going thro' unthinkable problems ... do you feel like you have grown a bond with this place and people ? Strange as it is .. a lot of people whom you know thro' their words and emotions .. have become a part of our daily life and existence.Dont know why i am writing this ..



AAAWWWW so much on your mind.comfort Have a cake with Clayer,a large glas of milk and badmouth guys.laugh You will feel better afterwads.wave
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Jun 4, 2008 3:27 PM CST Being on CS ...
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
kurzita: How funny.......

When i want to kill an hour or so, have a break, automatically i come on to these forums.....and feel 'at home' by finding names that have now become 'the gang'.

In days gone by, I would probably get in the car and pop in to my local drinking hole to do that. Now it's my desk and the lap top.

So far away, yet so many on here are in effect so close. Humanity has the need to belong. To be part of something. Wether one looks for love, a relationship, a partner, or like myself, is content to be single, yet we all share one need......

Not to stand alone
.....


wow .. true.

It feels so much like that.

Gradually, Its not about what we are looking for or who we know .. slowly its like a big group .. diverse and versatile in its own way .. each adding by their presence a different flavor.
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Jun 4, 2008 3:28 PM CST Being on CS ...
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
kissmedeeply: you are such a sweetie Claire..

i wont say much more..dont want to ruin ur bad/naughty girl reputation


you dont need to go really .. i know you dont want to ... just stay.
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Jun 4, 2008 3:29 PM CST Being on CS ...
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: I think it can when things in out RL's are already heavy....I know the negativity gets to me at times and I find myself getting negative along with it.....and yes it's hard when good friends are sick and there is nothing we can do for them....I think the bonds we form here are a little thicker than we like to let on because as soon as someone is missng....everybody notices and wonders about them....this is much more than a singles site in my mind and in fact I stopped thinking of it as such a long time ago....I think we get used to each other being part of our daily existence and it's comforting to come here and see friends and familiar faces.....


thumbs up bouquet hug
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Jun 4, 2008 3:29 PM CST Being on CS ...
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
pvictoria: AAAWWWW so much on your mind. Have a cake with Clayer,a large glas of milk and badmouth guys. You will feel better afterwads.


Wa wa wa Whooaaaa there Buddy... I never said 'Bad mouth the guys'..

I SAID 'Whisper about men' devil


laugh hug
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Jun 4, 2008 3:30 PM CST Being on CS ...
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
Cake cake cake cake chocolate please yummy
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Jun 4, 2008 3:32 PM CST Being on CS ...
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
morganlee: Cake chocolate please yummy


joy cartwheel thankuu ...
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