Claayer: But yeah.. sometimes it does get a bit much... I just don't come on then.
Also I find it hard being so far from my 'Friends' when I think they could do with a hand with something.. or a bit of cheering up.. or I want to give them a big fat hug or a pep talk.. There are sooo many of them I would love to be able to socialise with .. be closer too .. just so we COULD all met up for dinner or what ever.
riyablossom: We spend so much of our time on here .. chatting , discussing , arguing while trying to find someone special or making friends or just filling our time with some humor ... We get angry , offended , sad or happy ... learn , support and grow .
I wonder if at times it gets too heavy on your mind ? difficult to handle ? When someone close is sad or sick .... someone's going thro' unthinkable problems ... do you feel like you have grown a bond with this place and people ? Strange as it is .. a lot of people whom you know thro' their words and emotions .. have become a part of our daily life and existence.Dont know why i am writing this ..
I am only going to say that I have had Serenity on my mind all day today. We have experienced a very strong connection the last three weeks over the phone. We usually talk anywhere from 3-5 hours everyday (Skype, it's free). Of course our connection started here in this forum in many threads. We noticed that we had almost duplicate minds, humor, and perceptions with our posts. We almost agree on everything. It's like she would have posted what I would have, and vice versa...in some serious threads of course. We are kinda like soul twins. So of course the connection/bond grew only stronger over the phone. So it has been extremely difficult to handle....despite not meeting her yet.
riyablossom: We spend so much of our time on here .. chatting , discussing , arguing while trying to find someone special or making friends or just filling our time with some humor ... We get angry , offended , sad or happy ... learn , support and grow .
I wonder if at times it gets too heavy on your mind ? difficult to handle ? When someone close is sad or sick .... someone's going thro' unthinkable problems ... do you feel like you have grown a bond with this place and people ? Strange as it is .. a lot of people whom you know thro' their words and emotions .. have become a part of our daily life and existence.Dont know why i am writing this ..
Bonds are bound to happen .................. think that's why people get so emotional and upset at times ........... if you are expressing your thoughts/emotions/feelings its bond to happen.
I just think that sometimes people forget their manners - the way that they respond to others sometimes .... would they act like this in "real life" if the person was face to face with them?
Kinda reminds me of people driving in their cars. They feel safe and secure and entitled to drive however they choose. Doesn't make it right - but sometimes they do it anyways.
When i want to kill an hour or so, have a break, automatically i come on to these forums.....and feel 'at home' by finding names that have now become 'the gang'.
In days gone by, I would probably get in the car and pop in to my local drinking hole to do that. Now it's my desk and the lap top.
So far away, yet so many on here are in effect so close. Humanity has the need to belong. To be part of something. Wether one looks for love, a relationship, a partner, or like myself, is content to be single, yet we all share one need......
StressFree: I am only going to say that I have had Serenity on my mind all day today. We have experienced a very strong connection the last three weeks over the phone. We usually talk anywhere from 3-5 hours everyday (Skype, it's free). Of course our connection started here in this forum in many threads. We noticed that we had almost duplicate minds, humor, and perceptions with our posts. We almost agree on everything. It's like she would have posted what I would have, and vice versa...in some serious threads of course. We are kinda like soul twins. So of course the connection/bond grew only stronger over the phone. So it has been extremely difficult to handle....despite not meeting her yet.
I know how that feels.
At one instance when i thought i knew this person so much so as to agree on almost everything ... but to later know i cant be sure if it was true even. To knowing another someone whom i hardly thought i would get along with but has influenced me so positively.
I hope she gets well soon . Its beautiful to experience that sort of a connection with someone .. strangely soothing.
StressFree: I am only going to say that I have had Serenity on my mind all day today. We have experienced a very strong connection the last three weeks over the phone. We usually talk anywhere from 3-5 hours everyday (Skype, it's free). Of course our connection started here in this forum in many threads. We noticed that we had almost duplicate minds, humor, and perceptions with our posts. We almost agree on everything. It's like she would have posted what I would have, and vice versa...in some serious threads of course. We are kinda like soul twins. So of course the connection/bond grew only stronger over the phone. So it has been extremely difficult to handle....despite not meeting her yet.
SF, I have thought about you as well and how difficult this situation must be for you. I pray that Serenity will be okay and come back to us. If you even know her a little you have to admire her intelligence, beauty and conviction. Sending positive thoughts and energy for Serenity and for you and hope that you two will meet.
StressFree: I am only going to say that I have had Serenity on my mind all day today. We have experienced a very strong connection the last three weeks over the phone. We usually talk anywhere from 3-5 hours everyday (Skype, it's free). Of course our connection started here in this forum in many threads. We noticed that we had almost duplicate minds, humor, and perceptions with our posts. We almost agree on everything. It's like she would have posted what I would have, and vice versa...in some serious threads of course. We are kinda like soul twins. So of course the connection/bond grew only stronger over the phone. So it has been extremely difficult to handle....despite not meeting her yet.
I'm happy and sad for you at the same time, brother. I can only hope she'll get through this so you two can continue to expand on what you've clearly already found...
langleygirl: Bonds are bound to happen .................. think that's why people get so emotional and upset at times ........... if you are expressing your thoughts/emotions/feelings its bond to happen.
I just think that sometimes people forget their manners - the way that they respond to others sometimes .... would they act like this in "real life" if the person was face to face with them? Kinda reminds me of people driving in their cars. They feel safe and secure and entitled to drive however they choose. Doesn't make it right - but sometimes they do it anyways.
At one instance when i thought i knew this person so much so as to agree on almost everything ... but to later know i cant be sure if it was true even. To knowing another someone whom i hardly thought i would get along with but has influenced me so positively.
I hope she gets well soon . Its beautiful to experience that sort of a connection with someone .. strangely soothing.
opalbeauty: SF, I have thought about you as well and how difficult this situation must be for you. I pray that Serenity will be okay and come back to us. If you even know her a little you have to admire her intelligence, beauty and conviction. Sending positive thoughts and energy for Serenity and for you and hope that you two will meet.
Ambrose2007: I'm happy and sad for you at the same time, brother. I can only hope she'll get through this so you two can continue to expand on what you've clearly already found...
Thank you
I will add that I have felt a strong bond with a lot of people here in this forum in the exchanges of posts and opinions...especially the laughs....looking right at you Ambrose...
You are all my internet friends that I would love to meet one day....I love CS. There is only tremendous upside here.
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