One could be very attractive....and as soon as they start talking........the personality overshadows the looks.....and vise verse......I really don't give a crap if your hot ......can you make me laugh???? ? That's the question.......that goes for mates and pals.....I have no tolerance for certain personalities.
I think that both matter. I think that physical attraction tends to happen first because honestly when you see a hot guy don't you say "ooo he's cute" not "wow! i bet he has a great personality!" Sure it would be great to know that men judged us for who we are not what we look like but you have to see from their point of view too. It also helps to be physically attracted to someone to help you get to know the person. Sight is one of the major senses we have so it's obvious which would come first. But i agree it would be so much nicer if we were judged after we opened our mouths not before.
LiveWyre: One could be very attractive....and as soon as they start talking........the personality overshadows the looks.....and vise verse......I really don't give a crap if your hot ......can you make me laugh???? ? That's the question.......that goes for mates and pals.....I have no tolerance for certain personalities.
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