what matters more: looks or personality? (200)
Ambrose2007: I seem to recall my warped humor not sitting terribly well with you at one point, too, X.
Try living in a trailer in the middle of BFE, South Dakota, and I think more of you would understand my plight...
Try living in a trailer in the middle of BFE, South Dakota, and I think more of you would understand my plight...
Moi???
I have always loved you, A!!!
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Ambrose2007: Thanks, E! You are laughing *with* me and not *at* me, right??
Yep- always with you
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Jan1305: I agree Lagoona.
People often say they don't care about looks, but IMO that's rubbish. We all need to be physically attracted as well as emotionally bonded.
That's not to say chunky or skinny people cannot find love. Of course they can. However, the most interesting person in the world without the physical attraction would more likely be my friend rather than my lover.
We all have different views about physical attractiveness, thank goodness and that, combined with a personality we can relate to and love makes for the ideal partnership.
The problem is, it's not easy to find both in one person.
People often say they don't care about looks, but IMO that's rubbish. We all need to be physically attracted as well as emotionally bonded.
That's not to say chunky or skinny people cannot find love. Of course they can. However, the most interesting person in the world without the physical attraction would more likely be my friend rather than my lover.
We all have different views about physical attractiveness, thank goodness and that, combined with a personality we can relate to and love makes for the ideal partnership.
The problem is, it's not easy to find both in one person.
Well said, Jan.
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It's personality, for sure..with the looks to match. 
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Looks........I have to wake up beside him every morning dont I......
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mandapanda4u: be honest too!
I've been chunky my entire life, so i always thought that personality matters more, but some people don't agree.
please be brutality honest!
manda
I've been chunky my entire life, so i always thought that personality matters more, but some people don't agree.
please be brutality honest!
manda
i gotta say it's 50% / 50% default , maybe it's what she say's ? how she moves? perhaps something she wrote that sparked interest it's time spent with that person that really should alter the default 50/50
or 0/0 for both man or woman but thats wishful thinking LOL normally it's 1 thing RIGHT NOW that gets it going and when it gone for some reason, hey game over man
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w0w i cant believe how many responded to that...
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For me.. honestly.. personality first.. looks second. 
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i know and feel it every time i reply to a profile, they dont even take the time to answer,after showing and telling them how you think and feel,an honest response would be much better than hitting the delete button,so as far as i can say its most definetly looks .
when will poeple realise that it only works that way on tv. in the movies the good looking poeple always running of into the sunset,in real life the run into the fire pit and get burned.
i know my heart is true and honest and to me that is more important and one day shell figure tat out,besides if you have a good looking partner,he or she is looked at by other poeple and lusted over ,hense the divorce rate around the planet.
when will poeple realise that it only works that way on tv. in the movies the good looking poeple always running of into the sunset,in real life the run into the fire pit and get burned.
i know my heart is true and honest and to me that is more important and one day shell figure tat out,besides if you have a good looking partner,he or she is looked at by other poeple and lusted over ,hense the divorce rate around the planet.
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Claayer: For me.. honestly.. personality first.. looks second.
Hey, anyone can have plastic surgery or go on a diet or work out, Claire, but what you do if you have little or no personality? Just seems unfair to me somehow...
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I just wanted to reply to this forum and accidently sent mandapanda4u an email, sorry about that hope you don't mind. But anyway, I beleive that an honest person with a great personality will get further in life, than most people that are so superficial. I've only met a couple of people on this site, that can truly step outside themselves. me,me,me, it's allabout me!!!! ha!!!
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Looks gets you interested, but personality makes a match!
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Personality first and foremost, sense of humor second, looks last.
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I'd rather date a guy with a great personality than date a cute guy with the personality of drywall
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You can have personality without the looks,but looks without personality doesnt mean much.But it sure helps if u dont have to put a sack over their head.
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mandapanda4u: be honest too!
I've been chunky my entire life, so i always thought that personality matters more, but some people don't agree.
please be brutality honest!
manda
A little extra weight doesnt make u ugly,in fact ur very pretty.::hug:I've been chunky my entire life, so i always thought that personality matters more, but some people don't agree.
please be brutality honest!
manda
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I think its a balance between both..... First you have to be attracted to him.... If the personality attracts you first then great.... Sometimes we like the looks and there is no personality..... 
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Justme4uok: I think its a balance between both..... First you have to be attracted to him.... If the personality attracts you first then great.... Sometimes we like the looks and there is no personality.....
True, and ultimately it will be the personality that keeps us interested. I'll describe my friends by their personality - not their looks.
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I'm glad to see so many women say personality first. You can see from my pic that I have no looks.
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see u made me laugh!
Happy now?
Thanks, E! You are laughing *with* me and not *at* me, right??