trish123: Yep, its a bit creepy isnt it - Ive seen it time and again too - older guy with the gift of the gab making a bee line for a vulnerable younger woman who they can then influence and control........
Trish.....it's such a lonnnggg thread i need to take a careful look through all the posts before commenting ( otherwise i risk to plagiarize smb )
Emanuellla: Trish.....it's such a lonnnggg thread i need to take a careful look through all the posts before commenting ( otherwise i risk to plagiarize smb )
Trish, "definitely not older" may have soooo many reasons behind it. Although usually i don't give attention to this age thing i have noticed it does matter a lot. Generally the notion of "old" reminds us of wisdom and calm attitude and peace and the desire to just walk instead of running.Those who are not ready for just "walking" will never look for smb older than them coz they feel like hurrying somewhere , doing things fast, risking and not thinking too much before acting. First of all there needs to be harmony in a relationship and age has its importance....( though there are so many exceptions that this idea might not be taken into account at all haha).
But except what i said above, there can be thousands of reasons for "definitely not older". We all know there are plenty of old ppl who never took care of their health and are practically ruined...i don't blame women of 45 trying to stay away from 50 years old men...(there are some of them who look like 70).
But as smb said so nicely before me...when there comes love all these limits and conditions are simply deleted
I hope i never get to be confronted with such a problem
well im 18 so the only way i could seriously date an older woman is if she doesn't mind the age diff either. that's hard to find because women think that younger guys have immature attitudes and such.
well as for my view? im all down for an older woman even though my profile doesn't say so. there's nothing wrong with older people. i just suppose im thinking in terms i would go at first is all.
trish123: Ive noticed when looking at guys profiles that quite a few of you still prefer to go for nobody older than themselves and in some cases up to maybe 5 or so yrs younger - whats this about? My own preference is sort of the same age give or take maybe 5 yrs or so - Im not into the toy boy thing but am just trying to understand this attitude of 'definitely not older'
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Trish.....it's such a lonnnggg thread i need to take a careful look through all the posts before commenting ( otherwise i risk to plagiarize smb )