Whats with the age thing.......... ? (167)
trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 PostsIve noticed when looking at guys profiles that quite a few of you still prefer to go for nobody older than themselves and in some cases up to maybe 5 or so yrs younger - whats this about? My own preference is sort of the same age give or take maybe 5 yrs or so - Im not into the toy boy thing but am just trying to understand this attitude of 'definitely not older' 
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trish123: Ive noticed when looking at guys profiles that quite a few of you still prefer to go for nobody older than themselves and in some cases up to maybe 5 or so yrs younger - whats this about? My own preference is sort of the same age give or take maybe 5 yrs or so - Im not into the toy boy thing but am just trying to understand this attitude of 'definitely not older'
they are just afraid by older women coz they are wiser and they wouldn't feel comfortable being on the 2nd place
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trish123: Ive noticed when looking at guys profiles that quite a few of you still prefer to go for nobody older than themselves and in some cases up to maybe 5 or so yrs younger - whats this about? My own preference is sort of the same age give or take maybe 5 yrs or so - Im not into the toy boy thing but am just trying to understand this attitude of 'definitely not older'
statistically
women live 5 years longer than men , so this way we all kick the bucket at the same time ..
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trish123: Ive noticed when looking at guys profiles that quite a few of you still prefer to go for nobody older than themselves and in some cases up to maybe 5 or so yrs younger - whats this about? My own preference is sort of the same age give or take maybe 5 yrs or so - Im not into the toy boy thing but am just trying to understand this attitude of 'definitely not older'
I notice that.. I see some 2-5yrs up... and 10-15yrs DOWN.
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Claayer: I notice that.. I see some 2-5yrs up... and 10-15yrs DOWN.
I have to question if its some kind of image consciousness
they can just about bear to be seen with somebody of their own age - any older, even by one year is a no no for them - dont nkow but it seems a bit sus to me 
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mindfful:
i am crazed at the mo
i am crazed at the mo
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I Wish I Was 18 Again!!!Damn,would I be a Toy-Boy!!
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jeeezus trish
i just realized i unabashedly took over this thread
im not real conscious of what im doing-i wish i were SCREAMING-lol
i am soooo sorry
k-no one speak about it again
i just realized i unabashedly took over this thread
im not real conscious of what im doing-i wish i were SCREAMING-lol
i am soooo sorry
k-no one speak about it again
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mindfful: em i am recovering from a spinal cord injury
i did a bit too much today
i would take pain pills if i had a prescription
damn-i thot id be ok-
actually its been way worse b4
i just forgot-since its been awhile.
this too shall pass
*gun is in lock box thank goodness*
its that kind of insane pain
i did a bit too much today
i would take pain pills if i had a prescription
damn-i thot id be ok-
actually its been way worse b4
i just forgot-since its been awhile.
this too shall pass
*gun is in lock box thank goodness*
its that kind of insane pain
I had some severe pain one time when I injured my coxix (sp?) you have my total symapthy
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mindfful: jeeezus trish
i just realized i unabashedly took over this thread
im not real conscious of what im doing-i wish i were SCREAMING-lol
i am soooo sorry
k-no one speak about it again
i just realized i unabashedly took over this thread
im not real conscious of what im doing-i wish i were SCREAMING-lol
i am soooo sorry
k-no one speak about it again
Its no prob hun - I did see but pain is pain and I do understand
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trish123: I have to question if its some kind of image consciousness they can just about bear to be seen with somebody of their own age - any older, even by one year is a no no for them - dont nkow but it seems a bit sus to me
Same here..
Also.. it something that small that will stop me in my tracks on a profile.. It really puts me off if for example their age says.. 45.. and the age they want.. is 25- 40..
that's all i need to know right there..
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I don't place any limits based on age or image. I'm rather comfortable as friends with older women, and they all LOVE me. 
My limits come from a romantic standpoint. I've not the life-exerience to relate to the things women older than about ten years refer to...
Haight-Ashbury=before my time.
Kennedy assassination=before my time.
Woodstock=before my time.
Ed Sullivan Show=cancelled before I was cognitive...
You get the pic. I'm not unhappy learning about these things from an older woman. It's just, I don't get the cultural refs. they often make, and its the same for someone extremely younger than me. I say something about Welcome Back Kotter and they're like, "Who?"
My limits come from a romantic standpoint. I've not the life-exerience to relate to the things women older than about ten years refer to...
Haight-Ashbury=before my time.
Kennedy assassination=before my time.
Woodstock=before my time.
Ed Sullivan Show=cancelled before I was cognitive...
You get the pic. I'm not unhappy learning about these things from an older woman. It's just, I don't get the cultural refs. they often make, and its the same for someone extremely younger than me. I say something about Welcome Back Kotter and they're like, "Who?"
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Claayer: Same here..
Also.. it something that small that will stop me in my tracks on a profile.. It really puts me off if for example their age says.. 45.. and the age they want.. is 25- 40..
that's all i need to know right there ..
Also.. it something that small that will stop me in my tracks on a profile.. It really puts me off if for example their age says.. 45.. and the age they want.. is 25- 40..
that's all i need to know right there ..
yup, exactly what I was trying to figure Claayer
I find it really bizarre!lots of profiles I just skip over but in reality, they are the ones skipping over lots of potential
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Galactic_bodhi: Welcome Back Kotter
I used to watch that show...
*hums theme song*
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RedHeadedTaurus: I used to watch that show...
*hums theme song*
*hums theme song*
So, you're in the range of possibility (perversibility?
) then, aren't you...? 
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Galactic_bodhi: I don't place any limits based on age or image. I'm rather comfortable as friends with older women, and they all LOVE me.
My limits come from a romantic standpoint. I've not the life-exerience to relate to the things women older than about ten years refer to...
Haight-Ashbury=before my time.
Kennedy assassination=before my time.
Woodstock=before my time.
Ed Sullivan Show=cancelled before I was cognitive...
You get the pic. I'm not unhappy learning about these things from an older woman. It's just, I don't get the cultural refs. they often make, and its the same for someone extremely younger than me. I say something about Welcome Back Kotter and they're like, "Who?"
My limits come from a romantic standpoint. I've not the life-exerience to relate to the things women older than about ten years refer to...
Haight-Ashbury=before my time.
Kennedy assassination=before my time.
Woodstock=before my time.
Ed Sullivan Show=cancelled before I was cognitive...
You get the pic. I'm not unhappy learning about these things from an older woman. It's just, I don't get the cultural refs. they often make, and its the same for someone extremely younger than me. I say something about Welcome Back Kotter and they're like, "Who?"
Who?
but its more about relating on the soul level than about the age level surely?
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I think many men don't want a woman that remind them of their ex wife etc. Aesthetics are more important to them too so a young body is preferable to a sagging one. Sometimes younger women are more malliable and less challenging than older ones in a man's thinking.
Just possibilities.........
Just possibilities.........
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Claayer: Same here..
Also.. it something that small that will stop me in my tracks on a profile.. It really puts me off if for example their age says.. 45.. and the age they want.. is 25- 40..
that's all i need to know right there ..
Also.. it something that small that will stop me in my tracks on a profile.. It really puts me off if for example their age says.. 45.. and the age they want.. is 25- 40..
that's all i need to know right there ..
What about guys that put o i dont know
say 40-45 when they are 39 (and looking gorgeous for it
) I was recently told it was off putting that my profile had 18-99------ This thread is Archived ------
RedHeadedTaurus: I used to watch that show...
*hums theme song*
*hums theme song*
please dont i beg you
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Claayer: Same here..
Also.. it something that small that will stop me in my tracks on a profile.. It really puts me off if for example their age says.. 45.. and the age they want.. is 25- 40..
that's all i need to know right there ..
Also.. it something that small that will stop me in my tracks on a profile.. It really puts me off if for example their age says.. 45.. and the age they want.. is 25- 40..
that's all i need to know right there ..
Hmmmmmmmm.
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