BlueSkyJWoodland Hil(near Los Angeles), California USA2 Threads229 Posts
BlueSkyJWoodland Hil(near Los Angeles), California USA229 posts
kitty01: I got this e-mail from a guy who is just passing through Edmonton in 4 days and wants to meet for coffee.
The thing is in his profile he wants a petite slim female, which I am not, so why is he e-mailing me as I do not meet any of the things he says he wants.
I have asked him this and have not heard back, but should I go and meet someone who I have had no communication with before this.
Simple answer...No....unless all you want is a one nite stand
I don't mean it "that" way. I've been moving stuff all day and now I'm sitting on the floor. I have no furnture in my house except my bed. Installing new subfloor soon.
alabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA4,404 posts
kidatheart: A bit stiff, but otherwise OK. You? I don't mean it "that" way. I've been moving stuff all day and now I'm sitting on the floor. I have no furnture in my house except my bed. Installing new subfloor soon.
I'm good, gotta toddle off to bed soon. I'm sore too, and it's not "that" either , just too much walking at the conference I went to last weekend.
Dang, you'd think if we have to hurt there could be a good reason for it!
alabamabebe: I'm good, gotta toddle off to bed soon. I'm sore too, and it's not "that" either , just too much walking at the conference I went to last weekend.
Dang, you'd think if we have to hurt there could be a good reason for it!
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
At the very MOST a coffee in a public place, I wouldn't go near a vehicle with him..... be very careful Kitty.... WAAAAAAYYYY TOOO SOON....
Oo I agree with this Kitty..
For me personally, I wouldn't even consider the coffee. At the very MOST a coffee in a public place, I wouldn't go near a vehicle with him..... be very careful Kitty.... WAAAAAAYYYY TOOO SOON....
You've had no communication with him before this..
You said yourself you don't fit what he says he is looking for.
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
kitty01: He just e-mailed and wants to meet on Thursday afternoon. I likely will go for coffee in a mall but not anywhere else, and see if my youngest daughter can come with me.
Well at the Mall would be better.. but I wouldn't be taking any kids.. what if he does turn out to be a nut?
I would still be very cautious Kitty..
If you had been talking to him before now maybe it would be a different.. but a bit weird to want to meet up out of the blue with someone he has never even spoken to before.
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
kitty01: He just e-mailed and wants to meet on Thursday afternoon. I likely will go for coffee in a mall but not anywhere else, and see if my youngest daughter can come with me.
Oh yeah.. I forgot she wasn't weeny.. Company might be a good idea then if you do go thoo with it.
kitty01: I got this e-mail from a guy who is just passing through Edmonton in 4 days and wants to meet for coffee.
The thing is in his profile he wants a petite slim female, which I am not, so why is he e-mailing me as I do not meet any of the things he says he wants. I have asked him this and have not heard back, but should I go and meet someone who I have had no communication with before this.
I have been contacted by men who specifically say they aren't interested in africans.
I simply ignore them.
Well, maybe they think i may be indian.
I don't trust him, Kitty. He clearly can't figure out, what attracts him in the first place.
kitty01: I heard from him he said he was just going through names and saw mine, and since he was travelling through Edmonton thought we could have coffee.
I told him maybe next time if we chat more first.
Yeah talk a little more, a cup of coffee might be just fine.
kitty01: I got this e-mail from a guy who is just passing through Edmonton in 4 days and wants to meet for coffee.
The thing is in his profile he wants a petite slim female, which I am not, so why is he e-mailing me as I do not meet any of the things he says he wants.
I have asked him this and have not heard back, but should I go and meet someone who I have had no communication with before this.
if you go make sure its a public place and be careful
kitty01: I got this e-mail from a guy who is just passing through Edmonton in 4 days and wants to meet for coffee.
The thing is in his profile he wants a petite slim female, which I am not, so why is he e-mailing me as I do not meet any of the things he says he wants.
I have asked him this and have not heard back, but should I go and meet someone who I have had no communication with before this.
Only if you don't mind wasting your time, Linda...
kitty01: Yes I did rethink this and decided to not meet him. I am nothing like what his profile says so still do not know why he would even ask to meet me, especially since he never even e-mailed before this.
and then the senses, and gut feelings took over, and she came back to the real world, and lived happily ever after.
great choice. I was reading every post on this thread, but stopped to give my 2 cents upon reading you were not going to go through with it. Public place or not, this guy had just started emailing you, and on first mail says " hey meet me?" give me a break?
kitty01 the answer would be no. If someone is interested in you they will wait until you feel comfortable. My gut tells me that you dont or you would not even ? it go with your gut
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The thing is in his profile he wants a petite slim female, which I am not, so why is he e-mailing me as I do not meet any of the things he says he wants.
I have asked him this and have not heard back, but should I go and meet someone who I have had no communication with before this.
Simple answer...No....unless all you want is a one nite stand