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Jul 15, 2008 1:05 AM CST Should I Go
BlueSkyJ
BlueSkyJBlueSkyJWoodland Hil(near Los Angeles), California USA2 Threads 229 Posts
kitty01: I got this e-mail from a guy who is just passing through Edmonton in 4 days and wants to meet for coffee.

The thing is in his profile he wants a petite slim female, which I am not, so why is he e-mailing me as I do not meet any of the things he says he wants.

I have asked him this and have not heard back, but should I go and meet someone who I have had no communication with before this.


Simple answer...No....unless all you want is a one nite stand
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Jul 15, 2008 1:29 AM CST Should I Go
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
BlueSkyJ: Simple answer...No....unless all you want is a one nite stand
doh She's talking about meeting him for coffee for chrissake, she doesn' t have to f*ck 'im!

Jeez, I give up, why are you people even here? dunno frustrated
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Jul 15, 2008 1:38 AM CST Should I Go
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
kidatheart: Some people like to jump to conclusions.
doh Or something!

wave Hiya kid, howarya?
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Jul 15, 2008 1:41 AM CST Should I Go
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
alabamabebe: Or something!

Hiya kid, howarya?


A bit stiff, but otherwise OK. You? wave


I don't mean it "that" way. I've been moving stuff all day and now I'm sitting on the floor. I have no furnture in my house except my bed.
Installing new subfloor soon.
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Jul 15, 2008 1:48 AM CST Should I Go
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
kidatheart: A bit stiff, but otherwise OK. You? I don't mean it "that" way. I've been moving stuff all day and now I'm sitting on the floor. I have no furnture in my house except my bed.
Installing new subfloor soon.
I'm good, gotta toddle off to bed soon. I'm sore too, and it's not "that" either giggle, just too much walking at the conference I went to last weekend. doh

Dang, you'd think if we have to hurt there could be a good reason for it! laugh
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Jul 15, 2008 1:52 AM CST Should I Go
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
alabamabebe: I'm good, gotta toddle off to bed soon. I'm sore too, and it's not "that" either , just too much walking at the conference I went to last weekend.

Dang, you'd think if we have to hurt there could be a good reason for it!



Yeah, it would so much more worth it.daydream
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Jul 15, 2008 2:00 AM CST Should I Go
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
At the very MOST a coffee in a public place, I wouldn't go near a vehicle with him..... be very careful Kitty.... WAAAAAAYYYY TOOO SOON....

Oo I agree with this Kitty.. shock

For me personally, I wouldn't even consider the coffee. At the very MOST a coffee in a public place, I wouldn't go near a vehicle with him..... be very careful Kitty.... WAAAAAAYYYY TOOO SOON....

You've had no communication with him before this..

You said yourself you don't fit what he says he is looking for.

and owns and RV and is travelling..

HELLO uh oh No chance.


wave hug
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Jul 15, 2008 2:03 AM CST Should I Go
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
kitty01: He just e-mailed and wants to meet on Thursday afternoon. I likely will go for coffee in a mall but not anywhere else, and see if my youngest daughter can come with me.


Well at the Mall would be better.. but I wouldn't be taking any kids.. what if he does turn out to be a nut? uh oh

I would still be very cautious Kitty..

If you had been talking to him before now maybe it would be a different.. but a bit weird to want to meet up out of the blue with someone he has never even spoken to before.
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Jul 15, 2008 2:05 AM CST Should I Go
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
Maybe I should go meet him.devil

Anyone know where I can rent a taser?rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 15, 2008 2:06 AM CST Should I Go
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
kidatheart: Maybe I should go meet him.

Anyone know where I can rent a taser?


giggle Yeah. you go first.. suss him out for Kitty.. laugh


wave hug
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Jul 15, 2008 2:08 AM CST Should I Go
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
kitty01: He just e-mailed and wants to meet on Thursday afternoon. I likely will go for coffee in a mall but not anywhere else, and see if my youngest daughter can come with me.


Oh yeah.. I forgot she wasn't weeny.. Company might be a good idea then if you do go thoo with it.
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Jul 15, 2008 5:54 PM CST Should I Go
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Aries01: At the very MOST a coffee in a public place, I wouldn't go near a vehicle with him..... be very careful Kitty.... WAAAAAAYYYY TOOO SOON....




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Jul 15, 2008 6:00 PM CST Should I Go
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
kitty01: I got this e-mail from a guy who is just passing through Edmonton in 4 days and wants to meet for coffee.

The thing is in his profile he wants a petite slim female, which I am not, so why is he e-mailing me as I do not meet any of the things he says he wants.
I have asked him this and have not heard back, but should I go and meet someone who I have had no communication with before this.



I have been contacted by men who specifically say they aren't interested in africans.

I simply ignore them. doh

Well, maybe they think i may be indian. confused


laugh

I don't trust him, Kitty. He clearly can't figure out, what attracts him in the first place. roll eyes thumbs down
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Jul 15, 2008 6:21 PM CST Should I Go
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
I heard from him he said he was just going through names and saw mine, and since he was travelling through Edmonton thought we could have coffee.

I told him maybe next time if we chat more first.
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Jul 15, 2008 6:32 PM CST Should I Go
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
kitty01: I heard from him he said he was just going through names and saw mine, and since he was travelling through Edmonton thought we could have coffee.

I told him maybe next time if we chat more first.



Yeah talk a little more, a cup of coffee might be just fine. laugh



beer
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Jul 15, 2008 6:33 PM CST Should I Go
darlynda
darlyndadarlyndatazewell, Tennessee USA49 Threads 4 Polls 1,093 Posts
kitty01: I got this e-mail from a guy who is just passing through Edmonton in 4 days and wants to meet for coffee.

The thing is in his profile he wants a petite slim female, which I am not, so why is he e-mailing me as I do not meet any of the things he says he wants.

I have asked him this and have not heard back, but should I go and meet someone who I have had no communication with before this.
if you go make sure its a public place and be carefulteddybear
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Jul 15, 2008 6:40 PM CST Should I Go
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
kitty01: I got this e-mail from a guy who is just passing through Edmonton in 4 days and wants to meet for coffee.

The thing is in his profile he wants a petite slim female, which I am not, so why is he e-mailing me as I do not meet any of the things he says he wants.

I have asked him this and have not heard back, but should I go and meet someone who I have had no communication with before this.


Only if you don't mind wasting your time, Linda...dunno conversing wave
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Jul 15, 2008 9:10 PM CST Should I Go
mrsmiles4444
mrsmiles4444mrsmiles4444Colonial Beach, Virginia USA26 Threads 397 Posts
kitty01: Yes I did rethink this and decided to not meet him. I am nothing like what his profile says so still do not know why he would even ask to meet me, especially since he never even e-mailed before this.


and then the senses, and gut feelings took over, and she came back to the real world, and lived happily ever after.

great choice. I was reading every post on this thread, but stopped to give my 2 cents upon reading you were not going to go through with it. Public place or not, this guy had just started emailing you, and on first mail says " hey meet me?" give me a break?
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Jul 15, 2008 9:25 PM CST Should I Go
kkitty
kkittykkittyMinnesota, USA17 Threads 4 Polls 1,055 Posts
wave kitty01
the answer would be no. If someone is interested in you they will wait until you feel comfortable.
My gut tells me that you dont or you would not even ? it
go with your gut hug
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Jul 15, 2008 9:31 PM CST Should I Go
Lee337
Lee337Lee337pennsauken, New Jersey USA2 Threads 110 Posts
isn't that how slasher movies start out???
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