Would you agree that they should at least have the 'balls' to tell that person what is going on... for e.g. If I were accused of being a liar (which I absolutely am not... I don't even tell white lies these days (though I have in the past)... do you think it is only fair that the person accusing me in the wrong should come clean and tell me what it is I was supposed to have lied about.. ...I don't care very much for this individual, but I don NOT take to kindly to being accused in the wrong..
Aries01: Would you agree that they should at least have the 'balls' to tell that person what is going on... for e.g. If I were accused of being a liar (which I absolutely am not... I don't even tell white lies these days (though I have in the past)... do you think it is only fair that the person accusing me in the wrong should come clean and tell me what it is I was supposed to have lied about.. ...I don't care very much for this individual, but I don NOT take to kindly to being accused in the wrong..
What would ye guys do ??
that is how some people do things they acuse you in front of people that do not klnow you but know them to give you a bad name
the do it because they are scare to dead that when people will know you better, they will loose their lidership among that group
Aries01: Would you agree that they should at least have the 'balls' to tell that person what is going on... for e.g. If I were accused of being a liar (which I absolutely am not... I don't even tell white lies these days (though I have in the past)... do you think it is only fair that the person accusing me in the wrong should come clean and tell me what it is I was supposed to have lied about.. ...I don't care very much for this individual, but I don NOT take to kindly to being accused in the wrong..
What would ye guys do ??
Seems kind of pointless to accuse someone of lying then refuse to say how they lied. If thats the case, write him/her off. Not worth the trouble to worry about their opinion
crotalus_p: It depends are you sure you where in the right ??Or is there a possibility you are in the wrong ??
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Welcome back how was work ??
no idea what this is all about to be honest... though I do know one thing for sure.. I am NOT a liar.. particularly these days.. no matter how hard it is for me sometimes I still tell the truth... (white lies are harmless, but still better to just be straight)
woody636: Seems kind of pointless to accuse someone of lying then refuse to say how they lied. If thats the case, write him/her off. Not worth the trouble to worry about their opinion
If I am right in my thinking of which thread/person she is talking about , what she Allegedly lied about she also contradicted in the same thread , I suppose the only way we will know is if she posts the alleged lie (quoting the exact post and thread if indeed it was even on cs)
sxc666: I suppose if it was a close friend, I would be in search of some answers. But someone I don't care for much. I'd be more inclined to ignore it.
... Very true this person is certainly NOT worth giving a damn about.. not when this person has so unfairly accussed me in the wrong and did not even have to guts to clarify... ah well
Aries01: no idea what this is all about to be honest... though I do know one thing for sure.. I am NOT a liar.. particularly these days.. no matter how hard it is for me sometimes I still tell the truth... (white lies are harmless, but still better to just be straight)
albeit hard at times to ignore such claims made against us, the truth of the matter is those that knowand or love you will not believe what is being said and those that do not know you if they judge you so quickly'harshly are not worth responding to.
It hard not to respond but remember this adage "Me thinkest he protest to much"
Aries01," I don't even tell white lies these days (though I have in the past)."
Damn I seriously doubt if i live to a hundred I'll never be able to make a claim like this.
crotalus_p: If I am right in my thinking of which thread/person she is talking about , what she Allegedly lied about she also contradicted in the same thread , I suppose the only way we will know is if she posts the alleged lie (quoting the exact post and thread if indeed it was even on cs)
No accusations began occuring before.. so he was just being opportunistic on that thread..
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crotalus_p: If I am right in my thinking of which thread/person she is talking about , what she Allegedly lied about she also contradicted in the same thread , I suppose the only way we will know is if she posts the alleged lie (quoting the exact post and thread if indeed it was even on cs)
lPleeeeeassssse, no don't. Let sleeping dogs lie, don't kick a dead horse, all that good rot. Drop it!
I don't even know what this is about, just know that I don't want to know!
fireliter: albeit hard at times to ignore such claims made against us, the truth of the matter is those that knowand or love you will not believe what is being said and those that do not know you if they judge you so quickly'harshly are not worth responding to.
It hard not to respond but remember this adage "Me thinkest he protest to much"
Aries01," I don't even tell white lies these days (though I have in the past)."
Damn I seriously doubt if i live to a hundred I'll never be able to make a claim like this.
I have in the past... but since I was baptized recently I have been REALLY trying not to tell even white lies.. when you think about it.. white lies are such an integral part of our life, and the vast majority of the time they don't even serve any purpose.. e.g... answering the phone by saying 'he is at a meeting' (when he is not)... saying 'he is not in the position to take ur call at the moment'... same effect.. no lie... or.. texting someone saying that you are doing something etc when you are too tired to meet up with them..... just text and say ur too tired and will meet up another time.. so many lies are actually completely unecessary when you think about it
Aries01: I have in the past... but since I was baptized recently I have been REALLY trying not to tell even white lies.. when you think about it.. white lies are such an integral part of our life, and the vast majority of the time they don't even serve any purpose.. e.g... answering the phone by saying 'he is at a meeting' (when he is not)... saying 'he is not in the position to take ur call at the moment'... same effect.. no lie... or.. texting someone saying that you are doing something etc when you are too tired to meet up with them..... just text and say ur too tired and will meet up another time.. so many lies are actually completely unecessary when you think about it
White lies I've told/tell...
You're hairdresser did a great job
that outfit makes you look ten years younger
hell no you don't look fat in that
you did real good for your first time
you don't look or act drunk to me
sure theres lots more but you get my meaning... and quite frankly those I've said it too enjoyed hearing it,
sure theres lots more but you get my meaning... and quite frankly those I've said it too enjoyed hearing it,
Ha Ha .. me too... its actually quite hard to avoid them until you get the hang of it.. now I would just try and be honest in as diplomatic way as possible.. not easy!!! just a relatively new thing for me to try and avoid white lies.. whether I can endure this strategy in all situations remains to be seen TBH... I have already had a couple of tiffs with my Mum for being honest.. but she came around and was pleased in the end... thats the thing about honesty as well.. it might sting initially, but most of us ultimately appreciate it in the long run... e.g.. If I looked crap in something.. I would want someone to answer me honestly if I asked.. the truth would probably knock me for six initially but at least I would not be walking around the place oblivious that I look ridiculous..
Aries01: Ha Ha .. me too... its actually quite hard to avoid them until you get the hang of it.. now I would just try and be honest in as diplomatic way as possible.. not easy!!! just a relatively new thing for me to try and avoid white lies.. whether I can endure this strategy in all situations remains to be seen TBH... I have already had a couple of tiffs with my Mum for being honest.. but she came around and was pleased in the end... thats the thing about honesty as well.. it might sting initially, but most of us ultimately appreciate it in the long run... e.g.. If I looked crap in something.. I would want someone to answer me honestly if I asked.. the truth would probably knock me for six initially but at least I would not be walking around the place oblivious that I look ridiculous..
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What would ye guys do ??