IF SOMEONE ACCUSES SOMEONE IN THE WRONG... ( Archived) (56)

Jul 22, 2008 9:28 AM CST IF SOMEONE ACCUSES SOMEONE IN THE WRONG...
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
Aries01: Ha Ha .. me too... its actually quite hard to avoid them until you get the hang of it.. now I would just try and be honest in as diplomatic way as possible.. not easy!!! just a relatively new thing for me to try and avoid white lies.. whether I can endure this strategy in all situations remains to be seen TBH... I have already had a couple of tiffs with my Mum for being honest.. but she came around and was pleased in the end... thats the thing about honesty as well.. it might sting initially, but most of us ultimately appreciate it in the long run... e.g.. If I looked crap in something.. I would want someone to answer me honestly if I asked.. the truth would probably knock me for six initially but at least I would not be walking around the place oblivious that I look ridiculous..

A work in progress basically.... fingers crossed


theres your own answer, those that love ,respect,admire and know you will always give you the benefit of the doubt...sometimes not as quickly as we like. While those others are more or less looking for a reason ( fact or fiction) to find fault with you

let it go, don't waste your breath or time.... simply ignore those individuals.

have a great daycomfort
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Jul 22, 2008 9:30 AM CST IF SOMEONE ACCUSES SOMEONE IN THE WRONG...
Emanuellla
EmanuelllaEmanuelllaeastern europe, Moldova23 Threads 1,505 Posts
fireliter: theres your own answer, those that love ,respect,admire and know you will always give you the benefit of the doubt...sometimes not as quickly as we like. While those others are more or less looking for a reason ( fact or fiction) to find fault with you

let it go, don't waste your breath or time.... simply ignore those individuals.

have a great day


time is sooo precioussssgrin


Fireliter is absolutely right, Arieswink hug
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Jul 22, 2008 10:15 AM CST IF SOMEONE ACCUSES SOMEONE IN THE WRONG...
diogenes
diogenesdiogenesLongview, Texas USA69 Threads 7 Polls 4,761 Posts
Aries01: Would you agree that they should at least have the 'balls' to tell that person what is going on... for e.g. If I were accused of being a liar (which I absolutely am not... I don't even tell white lies these days (though I have in the past)... do you think it is only fair that the person accusing me in the wrong should come clean and tell me what it is I was supposed to have lied about.. ...I don't care very much for this individual, but I don NOT take to kindly to being accused in the wrong..

What would ye guys do ??


You should call Dio, let him sweet talk you a little, you'll feel much better after that. Seriously....do it.
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Jul 22, 2008 10:41 AM CST IF SOMEONE ACCUSES SOMEONE IN THE WRONG...
crotalus_p
crotalus_pcrotalus_pRush, Dublin Ireland43 Threads 6 Polls 2,789 Posts
trublu: like crotalus_p who do nothing but stalk .


So replying to posts where you quote me is called stalking is it ??

trublu: just plain hating on Americans...who knows. .


Sorry to disappoint you but I don’t hate Americans , never have and never will judge a country as large and diverse as America on the basis of just a few people





trublu: No substance, no information, no learning, nothing of value, so not worth my time. .

You still saw fit to spend the time replying roll eyes


trublu: I would suggest you take the same attitude with those that are so petty they feel the need to harrass you. .


It’s an amazing coincidence that anyone that disagrees with you is either harassing you or a friend of some one harassing youroll eyes

trublu: No way you will ever get a wannabee to tell the truth, not part of their mental or moral make up.


wannabee what ??dunno


trublu

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Jul 22, 2008 1:46 PM CST IF SOMEONE ACCUSES SOMEONE IN THE WRONG...
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
Aries01: do you think it is only fair that the person accusing me in the wrong should come clean and tell me what it is I was supposed to have lied about.. ...I don't care very much for this individual, but I don NOT take to kindly to being accused in the wrong..


Does it even matter then? dunno
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Jul 22, 2008 1:49 PM CST IF SOMEONE ACCUSES SOMEONE IN THE WRONG...
Shanmariee
ShanmarieeShanmarieeSpokane, Washington USA9 Threads 396 Posts
I guess it depends on how major the issue was. Sometimes people say things just to get a reaction. I would decide if it was worth all the fuss or not. If so, then confront them, simple as that. Otherwise, just ignore it and let it go. Don't give them the thrill of attention if you can help it. But in the end, completely up to you and only you.
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Jul 22, 2008 1:53 PM CST IF SOMEONE ACCUSES SOMEONE IN THE WRONG...
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
Everybody tells lies...or distorts the truth

at the very least.
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Jul 22, 2008 1:56 PM CST IF SOMEONE ACCUSES SOMEONE IN THE WRONG...
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
bodleing: Everybody tells lies...or distorts the truth

at the very least.


liar pointing




laugh wave
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Jul 22, 2008 2:00 PM CST IF SOMEONE ACCUSES SOMEONE IN THE WRONG...
alex_192
alex_192alex_192sarasota, USA38 Threads 1,271 Posts
Shanmariee: I guess it depends on how major the issue was. Sometimes people say things just to get a reaction. I would decide if it was worth all the fuss or not. If so, then confront them, simple as that. Otherwise, just ignore it and let it go. Don't give them the thrill of attention if you can help it. But in the end, completely up to you and only you.


noit always ignoring is enought

when some one post like quoting you, something that you did not say, the rest that will jump in the thread, in the last page will see the quote and belive it was real, giving you a bad name in the forums

it is not the first time it happens it will not be the last one as it is the usuall behaviour in the forums
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Jul 22, 2008 2:42 PM CST IF SOMEONE ACCUSES SOMEONE IN THE WRONG...
Shanmariee
ShanmarieeShanmarieeSpokane, Washington USA9 Threads 396 Posts
alex_192: noit always ignoring is enought

when some one post like quoting you, something that you did not say, the rest that will jump in the thread, in the last page will see the quote and belive it was real, giving you a bad name in the forums

it is not the first time it happens it will not be the last one as it is the usuall behaviour in the forums


Yes that is true also. That is why I said, "depends on how major the issue was" something like posting something for everyone else to see, I would email them privately and speak to them about it and perhaps say a little something in my defense on that thread, but not enough to create a huge scene.

Just like everything in life, it is all a case by case scenerio and to who the scenerio happens to.
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Jul 22, 2008 2:53 PM CST IF SOMEONE ACCUSES SOMEONE IN THE WRONG...
dazzling_dave
dazzling_davedazzling_daveWaynesboro, Virginia USA4 Threads 1,993 Posts
Just consider the source. That should be all the explanation necessary.

Those that mind, don't matter. Those that matter, don't mind. - Dr. Seuss
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Jul 22, 2008 3:01 PM CST IF SOMEONE ACCUSES SOMEONE IN THE WRONG...
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
If you don't care about this individual...don't care!popcorn

Accusing someone of being a lier is indeed strong. When somebody lies about me i get sooo furious!
Only people who don't know you would call you lier when you're not. For this reason cut with that person. Lier is sooo low...that's a diminishing accusation. Cut it!frustrated
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Jul 22, 2008 3:42 PM CST IF SOMEONE ACCUSES SOMEONE IN THE WRONG...
Sidoph
SidophSidophHuddinge, Stockholm Sweden1 Threads 23 Posts
What i think matters is your conscience, like everyone has said, if you think the fellow still matters in your life and it wouldn't be that easy cutting the fellas off, then talk to the guy straight!! otherwise, rejoice in your conscience and shame the lairs who says you lied!!dancing applause
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Jul 23, 2008 8:49 AM CST IF SOMEONE ACCUSES SOMEONE IN THE WRONG...
trublu
trublutrubluRialto, USA14 Threads 1 Polls 208 Posts
bodleing: Everybody tells lies...or distorts the truth

at the very least.


OK, YOU are a liar for even posting that, and I am telling you I fully disagree. I KNOW people who don't, and one who even enjoys shocking people by telling the WHOLE truth LOL
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Jul 23, 2008 10:36 AM CST IF SOMEONE ACCUSES SOMEONE IN THE WRONG...
alex_192
alex_192alex_192sarasota, USA38 Threads 1,271 Posts
trublu: OK, YOU are a liar for even posting that, and I am telling you I fully disagree. I KNOW people who don't, and one who even enjoys shocking people by telling the WHOLE truth LOL


you are a liar
some one that posted all my personal e-mails in one fo yur thread and changed the order of the sentences to make them read diferent

dont cvall liars others when yuo are one of them
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Jul 23, 2008 11:28 AM CST IF SOMEONE ACCUSES SOMEONE IN THE WRONG...
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
trublu: OK, YOU are a liar for even posting that, and I am telling you I fully disagree. I KNOW people who don't, and one who even enjoys shocking people by telling the WHOLE truth LOL


Nievety can be an amusing trait...at times.grin
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Jul 23, 2008 11:50 AM CST IF SOMEONE ACCUSES SOMEONE IN THE WRONG...
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
BnaturAl: I'm going with this one now ... just because of its paradoxical treatment of desire.

fuching and off
laugh scold scold professor
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Jul 23, 2008 11:55 AM CST IF SOMEONE ACCUSES SOMEONE IN THE WRONG...
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
Basic conscience to say or not to say , to apologize ..

slowly becoming a rarity .. u see.

hug
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Jul 23, 2008 12:03 PM CST IF SOMEONE ACCUSES SOMEONE IN THE WRONG...
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
livinglarge: laughscold


dunno


the origin of 'fuch off' comes from ancient caveman times, while being instructed on the method of reproduction... it later became thrust, retreat, thrust, retreat, thrust, retreat; but as this new term has no real passion, fuch ,off, fuch, off ,fuch, off ... has returned with renewed interest in our lexicon. laugh
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Jul 23, 2008 12:11 PM CST IF SOMEONE ACCUSES SOMEONE IN THE WRONG...
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
BnaturAl:
the origin of 'fuch off' comes from ancient caveman times, while being instructed on the method of reproduction... it later became thrust, retreat, thrust, retreat, thrust, retreat; but as this new term has no real passion, fuch ,off, fuch, off ,fuch, off ... has returned with renewed interest in our lexicon.

Whoo hoo , Dont history me Dude professor professor professor rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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