am I too ambitious trying to date younger women? (39)

Jul 23, 2008 4:50 AM CST am I too ambitious trying to date younger women?
lapta
laptalaptalapta, Kyrenia Cyprus4 Threads 38 Posts
Hi I'm Mike quite new to this site.I'm 65 years young,but don't feel or act it.I have dated much younger foreign ladies where a 10/15 year age gap is the norm.They know their partners are less likely to stray!!!I am moving to Northern Cyprus to live later this year,and hoped to meet a British lady to take and eventually be my wife.
I dated a 49 year old lady from this site,with no major problems but we decided there wasn't enough sparkle.
I have trawled through lots of profiles on this site.Most ladies seem to want men a little younger or same age as themselves.
Perhaps there should be a catagory"looking for older man"
And,unless it's just my age,are there the younger ladies who want to get out of the UK rat race wanting a new life in the sun??I offer a lovely house with pool,undying love and faithfulness.
Surely there is someone in UK who is interested!!!dancing smitten
Jul 23, 2008 12:38 PM CST am I too ambitious trying to date younger women?
xxLilyxx
xxLilyxxxxLilyxxHampshire, England UK36 Threads 3,678 Posts
lapta: Hi I'm Mike quite new to this site.I'm 65 years young,but don't feel or act it.I have dated much younger foreign ladies where a 10/15 year age gap is the norm.They know their partners are less likely to stray!!!I am moving to Northern Cyprus to live later this year,and hoped to meet a British lady to take and eventually be my wife.
I dated a 49 year old lady from this site,with no major problems but we decided there wasn't enough sparkle.
I have trawled through lots of profiles on this site.Most ladies seem to want men a little younger or same age as themselves.
Perhaps there should be a catagory"looking for older man"
And,unless it's just my age,are there the younger ladies who want to get out of the UK rat race wanting a new life in the sun??I offer a lovely house with pool,undying love and faithfulness.
Surely there is someone in UK who is interested!!!


Hi there Mike wave

No, I don't think you are being too ambitious. We all have preferences hun.
I hope you find what you're looking for. Good luck wine

Nice to meet you by the way handshake
Jul 23, 2008 1:28 PM CST am I too ambitious trying to date younger women?
no1brightongirl
no1brightongirlno1brightongirlbrighton, East Sussex, England UK13 Threads 239 Posts
a friend of mine who is a young looking 43, has always dated men in the past between 10 and 20 years older, only now is she looking for someone younger(a couple of years i mean) or the same age. she said at the age of 20 a 40 yr old is fine, but when you are 50 a 70 yr old is too old, i understand this completely. please dont think im being offensive, u look like a nice guy and sound it too, but for the sugar daddys of this world, just like women they have a shelf life too
Jul 23, 2008 1:29 PM CST am I too ambitious trying to date younger women?
no1brightongirl
no1brightongirlno1brightongirlbrighton, East Sussex, England UK13 Threads 239 Posts
by the way u look good for 65
Jul 23, 2008 3:07 PM CST am I too ambitious trying to date younger women?
pat123
pat123pat123london, Greater London, England UK7 Threads 97 Posts
well lapta what is wrong with ladies of your own age, there are many ladies of 65, not celebrities, ordinary women, who look great
Jul 23, 2008 6:06 PM CST am I too ambitious trying to date younger women?
baileysqueen
baileysqueenbaileysqueenkingston upon thames, Greater London, England UK14 Threads 748 Posts
question is why do you want women that much younger??
Jul 24, 2008 1:14 AM CST am I too ambitious trying to date younger women?
tinaferrara
tinaferraratinaferraraedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK13 Threads 210 Posts
wouldnt u have more in common with a woman of your age. or maybe the old story that when a man has a bit of money he thinks he can buy something is it a power and control thing when men want women young enough to be their daughters
Jul 24, 2008 2:53 AM CST am I too ambitious trying to date younger women?
heythereyou
heythereyouheythereyoufife, Fife, Scotland UK8 Posts
lapta: Hi I'm Mike quite new to this site.I'm 65 years young,but don't feel or act it.I have dated much younger foreign ladies where a 10/15 year age gap is the norm.They know their partners are less likely to stray!!!I am moving to Northern Cyprus to live later this year,and hoped to meet a British lady to take and eventually be my wife.
I dated a 49 year old lady from this site,with no major problems but we decided there wasn't enough sparkle.
I have trawled through lots of profiles on this site.Most ladies seem to want men a little younger or same age as themselves.
Perhaps there should be a catagory"looking for older man"
And,unless it's just my age,are there the younger ladies who want to get out of the UK rat race wanting a new life in the sun??I offer a lovely house with pool,undying love and faithfulness.
Surely there is someone in UK who is interested!!!


Good Morning Mike,

There is nothing wrong with dating women younger than you... But dont rule out ones just due to there age!! I always date older men but i have now had great friendships with guys my age...

I wish you well in your new life and hope you find someone to share it with
Jul 24, 2008 3:02 AM CST am I too ambitious trying to date younger women?
lapta
laptalaptalapta, Kyrenia Cyprus4 Threads 38 Posts
Thanks for compliment too and your reply.
Have dated ladies my own age....they are "grannies" and I don't feel like a grandad yet,even if I am.
I think the little blue pill makes a difference,and helps satisfy my lady friends in the forties.
<sorry if that sounds blunt>
I also dress and act to please the younger lady,so that keeps me looking younger
Like to see your photo
Mike
xxwine
Jul 24, 2008 3:09 AM CST am I too ambitious trying to date younger women?
lapta
laptalaptalapta, Kyrenia Cyprus4 Threads 38 Posts
show me some!!!!
I've been there..........maybe the advent of the little blue pill makes us men feel younger,in both senses.
Mike
xxhandshake
Jul 24, 2008 3:13 AM CST am I too ambitious trying to date younger women?
lapta
laptalaptalapta, Kyrenia Cyprus4 Threads 38 Posts
dated some near my age..they just act as "grannies".yes<i am a grandad>
but younger ladies make me want to dress be young.
maybe since the advent of the little blue pill,I think I am still that virile young man in my forties.
Mike
xx sad flower
Jul 24, 2008 3:22 AM CST am I too ambitious trying to date younger women?
lapta
laptalaptalapta, Kyrenia Cyprus4 Threads 38 Posts
thanks for your reply.ladies of my age look like grannies,and even though I am a "grandad",I think the advent of the little blue pill makes me feel a virile 40yeasr old!!!
Will keep searching
Mike
xdancing
Jul 24, 2008 3:37 AM CST am I too ambitious trying to date younger women?
lapta
laptalaptalapta, Kyrenia Cyprus4 Threads 38 Posts
Ok I have a house in N.Cyprus,but not so much money.
Never considered young enough to be my daughters,mine are still in their thirties.
My last girlfriend is 49,incidentally half Maltese.
I think the advent of the little blue makes us men feel and act like the virile 40's again
Mike
xx
Jul 24, 2008 4:03 AM CST am I too ambitious trying to date younger women?
tinaferrara
tinaferraratinaferraraedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK13 Threads 210 Posts
if you are 65 and your last g/friend 49, then she was young enough to be your daughter, some young people do have children at 16 do your sums mike. there are many ladies in their 30s and 40s who are grannies, what is wrong with that and many women look great when they are older, ask all the young men on this site, who are interested in older ladies
Jul 24, 2008 9:31 AM CST am I too ambitious trying to date younger women?
bubbles69
bubbles69bubbles69Inverness, Highland, Scotland UK17 Threads 1 Polls 1,984 Posts
Im very happy to be an old granny.
I think you need someone much younger than yourself. You seem to have the mental age of a child and a real woman would be intellectually too challenging for you. Good luck.
Jul 24, 2008 1:19 PM CST am I too ambitious trying to date younger women?
lisalee1960
lisalee1960lisalee1960st pauls, Majjistral Malta9 Threads 222 Posts
sorry to say when a man wants a woman years younger than him its usually because a woman of his age would see right through him.im suprised u would want to leave mid wales it is not what i would call the rat race have visited there and it lovely
Jul 25, 2008 4:18 AM CST am I too ambitious trying to date younger women?
lapta
laptalaptalapta, Kyrenia Cyprus4 Threads 38 Posts
Thank you for your reply.I am a little confused what you are trying to say.I am 100% honest and truthful...maybe my biggest fault.
I have nothing to hide.And as for the rat race,even this area is now full of foreigners<not just English!!!>.
Why are there so many Maltese on this site??
I had 6 lovely months there in the RN some 40 years ago
Mike
Jul 25, 2008 6:06 AM CST am I too ambitious trying to date younger women?
tinaferrara
tinaferraratinaferraraedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK13 Threads 210 Posts
does it matter if there are maltese on this site.the maltese love the english they ruled our island for years and did a good job.we have a natural interest in what is happening in britain.you did ask us people for our opinions after all.
Jul 25, 2008 7:40 AM CST am I too ambitious trying to date younger women?
lapta
laptalaptalapta, Kyrenia Cyprus4 Threads 38 Posts
I love Maltese people,in fact my last girl friend is half Maltese.We are considering getting back together<and she is 49>.So may be disappearing off this site soon.
My question is why there are so many nice ladies from Malta on this site?Do you know any of them?
mikehandshake
Jul 25, 2008 10:24 AM CST am I too ambitious trying to date younger women?
tinaferrara
tinaferraratinaferraraedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK13 Threads 210 Posts
i know nice ladies on this site from malta, but they are very fussy, in what they are looking for.most of them are independant and i think alot of them like to have fun in mixed company, but are not looking for a permanent man.i have been told there are 3 times as many men as women in malta on this site looking for someone special
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