What do you think of a long distance relationship? ( Archived) (21)

Jul 28, 2008 9:26 PM CST What do you think of a long distance relationship?
pianolover
pianoloverpianoloverJinzhou, Liaoning China9 Threads 16 Posts
Do you believe in long distance relationship? why or why not?
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Jul 28, 2008 9:27 PM CST What do you think of a long distance relationship?
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
I was in one before. It beats the one I have now...dunno
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Jul 28, 2008 9:30 PM CST What do you think of a long distance relationship?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Yes, I do, not the distance it is the people that are involved. If they can deal with it then nothing else is important.

Why ask Pianolover?

I am about to head into one.

Am i worried? No, if we both want it, it will work.

What is meant for us, will not go by us.

It will be as difficult as we make it.
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Jul 28, 2008 9:39 PM CST What do you think of a long distance relationship?
AnnyN
AnnyNAnnyNYou wouldnt know it, Texas USA2 Threads 36 Posts
I don't believe in them - reason being....ldr's are like unrequited love - you spend more time missing the other person than enjoying being with them and getting to know the real person - for me, I'd have to have the in-person contact. Anyone can paint a pretty picture of themselves online - it's the in person picture that counts. Anyone will tell you that fantasy is so much better than reality. Online relationships are unfulfilling after the initial excitement - ldr's can be expensive if there is a lot of travel - and if it does get to the "serious" stage - then someone has to make a huge sacrafice - a lot of things to consider just up and moving - maybe better for younger people, not for me at my age. Just my opinion - you asked - I respectfully gave. beer
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Jul 28, 2008 9:43 PM CST What do you think of a long distance relationship?
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
in a word....NO
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Jul 28, 2008 9:43 PM CST What do you think of a long distance relationship?
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Sommerauer71: You are living in the wrong country, we have all sorts of holes in Austria, it has been an eye opener.



Will I get wet if I ride the motorcycle over?
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Jul 28, 2008 10:03 PM CST What do you think of a long distance relationship?
NatureLover81
NatureLover81NatureLover81Raleigh, North Carolina USA3 Posts
I think the only way a long distance relationship works, is if you see the person at least at some regular interval--i.e. once every month at least. I've had one fail in the past and I wouldn't try it again. THere are too many fish in the sea by me!
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Jul 28, 2008 10:47 PM CST What do you think of a long distance relationship?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
drinking
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Jul 28, 2008 10:52 PM CST What do you think of a long distance relationship?
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
pianolover: Do you believe in long distance relationship? why or why not?


Yes, I believe in them...Yes, I think they can work, but both parties have to be willing to make it work, and be willing to overcome any and all obstacles that could get in the way...JMO conversing conversing
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Jul 28, 2008 10:53 PM CST What do you think of a long distance relationship?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
drinking drinking
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Jul 28, 2008 10:56 PM CST What do you think of a long distance relationship?
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
After the day I've had today...I may need one of those myself...wine
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Jul 28, 2008 11:00 PM CST What do you think of a long distance relationship?
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
It's possible but unlikely to work out longer than a year, because too many people are cheaters and too many are jealous and when the teacher is away the children will play, unfortunitelycheers
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Jul 28, 2008 11:03 PM CST What do you think of a long distance relationship?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Personally I think you have to have brass balls to do it. And it depends on what Long Distance is really. A few hours away, Different state, Different country.

Different state maybe, A few hours away more than likely, Different country very hard in my opinion.

Like Australia to America very unlikely I would think..wine
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Jul 28, 2008 11:05 PM CST What do you think of a long distance relationship?
joshtaal
joshtaaljoshtaalPalmerston North, Manawatu-Wanganui New Zealand9 Threads 335 Posts
Distance is only limited by desire

If I fall for someone with all my heart, no distance in the world will keep me from her smitten
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Jul 28, 2008 11:06 PM CST What do you think of a long distance relationship?
AnnyN
AnnyNAnnyNYou wouldnt know it, Texas USA2 Threads 36 Posts
sxc666: Personally I think you have to have brass balls to do it. And it depends on what Long Distance is really. A few hours away, Different state, Different country.

Different state maybe, A few hours away more than likely, Different country very hard in my opinion.

Like Australia to America very unlikely I would think..


Smart girl !
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Jul 28, 2008 11:09 PM CST What do you think of a long distance relationship?
ruhere4me
ruhere4meruhere4meCoon Rapids, USA2 Threads 103 Posts
what long distance relations dunno



how is this possible doh
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Jul 29, 2008 2:11 AM CST What do you think of a long distance relationship?
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
Been there/done that - and not really interested in pursuing one again - just found that overall there was too much that I failed to learn about this person before I got into it. As they say - hindsight is 20/20

I'd rather meet someone local who I can spend time getting to know ......... because the reality is that no matter how much time you spend on the internet, the phone chatting, visits ...... it will come down to real life interaction on a daily basis that will either make or break the relationship.

So unless someone can convince me otherwise - I'd rather spend my time and energy on concentrating on meeting someone local.
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Jul 29, 2008 2:13 AM CST What do you think of a long distance relationship?
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
pianolover: Do you believe in long distance relationship? why or why not?


sure I do!!

but to me... 10-30 miles is a long distance with todays gas pricesyay
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Jul 29, 2008 3:03 AM CST What do you think of a long distance relationship?
Karma3
Karma3Karma3Somewhere, Tamil Nadu India84 Threads 588 Posts
Never done it before sooo dunno
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Jul 29, 2008 3:12 AM CST What do you think of a long distance relationship?
lola36
lola36lola36dublin, Dublin Ireland120 Threads 4,687 Posts
Long distance relationship??? What is that???? wink
Don't believe in that at all...roll eyes wave
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